How to better face the bullying of others?

Updated on society 2024-06-03
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The easiest way is to change the cylinder, but this is likely to offend people. Look at the powerful relationship between you and him, if the other party threatens your future, most of this situation can only be endured, and society is like this.

    There is another way, change jobs without offending people. Of course, there is no guarantee that you will not meet someone similar in the next unit.

    Another option is to change the house without offending people and without affecting your work. It depends on your strength.

    If you feel that the conditions are not ripe for the above 3 methods, then bear with it, and then work hard, find a gap to climb up, and you will have your share in the future to eat and drink spicy houses and drive sports cars.

    It's like this all over China, it's the grandfather who owes money, and he can't be offended, and it's the eldest brother who eats and drinks, and he can't be offended, and those who are in charge are closest to money.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    What are you afraid of, barefoot people are not afraid of wearing shoes, if he knows that you are not good to bully, he will not bully you, if you don't resist, he thinks you are easy to bully, and he will bully you more and more.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Change the lock on the door, or lock the door to your own room; Explain it clearly to them directly, mainly be reasonable, don't quarrel, and negotiate a way for everyone, after all, it is where the unit pays;

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Only the strong will not be bullied, and if you are not as strong as them, just keep your personality.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's easy to suffer losses in character, so just bear with it if you can! I can't bear it, so I change the lock, anyway, it's my own, you can tell them face to face: this is where I live! If you don't want to offend people, just bear it generously!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First: don't recharge gas anymore. Second, one day he said that he had forgotten (or lost) the keys at home, and asked him for another one.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For this kind of person who is immoral and loves to take advantage of small advantages, it is best to endure him, bear with him, indulge him, and you will see him in a few years.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you have to say it, you have to say it, defend your own rights and interests, or get out of there. Why don't you say it when you're bullied.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you just get the keys back.

    Because this is required by the unit.

    He didn't know what to ask him about your company's personnel.

    Just say hello to your company's personnel before that.

    Are you a girl and your colleague is a boy?

    Porphyry is male or female.

    All porphyry is convenient.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Don't be afraid, show your spirit, do something bullish to show them, and if you are always bullied, come to the real one, call 110!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can talk to him first, and if it really doesn't work, then talk to him directly (provided that he doesn't have a good relationship with you).

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Just tell him. See how he reacts and what he's going to do next. The water is flooding, and the soldiers are coming.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Anyway, get the key back first.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. Don't see each other in general.

    There are some bullying behaviors that are only occasional or short-term, and the consequences for us will not be too serious, in this case, we just need to treat the other party as a person with a small belly, and then stay away, and we don't have to reason with the other party to lower our own style.

    2. Pick out the topic directly.

    In order to avoid being treated as a soft persimmon, we should be straightforward with the other party when the other party bullies us for the third time, let him give an explanation, and then depending on the situation, try to resolve the conflict as much as possible, and warn the other party if it can't be resolved.

    3. Be stronger than the other party in terms of ability.

    For those who bully us with the advantage of ability, we should strive to improve these weak abilities, and use the other party's reasons for bullying us to the bottom of the pot, so that the other party either gives up the bullying behavior or ends up being unreasonable.

    4. Ignore and stay away from each other.

    As long as you are not hurt or lost, then let the other party have a good time, ignore such a person, and let the other party make trouble by himself.

    5. Get a friend to help.

    If others maliciously target themselves and can't solve it themselves, they can ask friends for help, so that friends can find each other to understand the situation and resolve conflicts or misunderstandings between each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello dear, for some people who have to inch inch, if you blindly tolerate it, then he will not be grateful to you, but will hurt you even more. You should choose the right opportunity to counter the others. Give others a little color, it's not that you have a grudge against others, but that you are upholding justice and letting those who violate morality get the punishment they deserve.

    Give him a thunderous blow and let him understand your strength, then he will respect you. In this world, strength and confidence are fundamental. All "truths" need "strength" as a foreshadowing.

    Think about it, if you don't have the strength and are not tough enough, who will listen to you reason? Not only that, but we also need to "co-opt" those who are hostile to it. That is, the enemy of our enemies, is our friend.

    To deal with someone who likes to sarcastically mock you, you need to hit his pain points.

    Dear, if the above methods don't work for you, then you need to tell me how they bully people and I'll help you figure it out.

    To ask a question is to scold me for being a broom star.

    For no reason, what is your relationship, is it because of work or what?

    Ask the substitute for his father, who is also a small worker.

    It's because I'm late for work and the elevator is out of power.

    You let him have something to say, why scold me, don't blame me for being late from work, I'm not easy to mess with.

    You have to dare to resist and let him know that you are not a soft persimmon, and he will not bully you in the future.

    Asked a question and got off work, asked on the road, why the elevator has no electricity and blame me, and blame me for getting off work late, I am the boss of the company, and I turned off the electricity.

    You did the right thing, you did it well, let him know that you are not a bully, and you have a good grasp of proportion.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore. The most direct way is to resist, but don't touch the bottom line of the law. On the contrary, if the other party's behavior touches the law, you can also take up the law to protect yourself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The most important thing to deal with such a person is to change your current state and make yourself stronger, so that the other party will not dare to bully you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You can't use the same method to deal with tough people, and if you also use strong against strong, it will inevitably hurt both sides. So stay away, if you really can't avoid it, you can tell him bluntly that you hate people like him, and hope that he doesn't do things to you that you think he is bullying you, otherwise, draw a circle and curse him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Stand firm in your position, no matter what the occasion. Don't mess up because of the other party's oppression or deliberate bullying.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Fight back, find a chance to fight back, or he will still bully you all the time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you've been bullied for a long time, try to correct it if it's wrong for you. And try to communicate with him to solve it.

    If you have been bullied for a long time, in my personal opinion, the reason is not on you, you must be used to others bullying you, give him a head-on blow as a warning

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you deliberately bully someone with malicious intentions, you must act unceremoniously at the right time. This needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The ancients said, "It is better to offend a gentleman than a villain." ”

    No one wants to work with villains. But on the face of the villain, there is no engraving, you can't tell at a glance who the villain is, the encounter is inevitable.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'll look for opportunities to find his flaws and educate him so he doesn't bully me.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If you become stronger, then others will not dare to bully.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    After graduating from college, you are already an adult, you should pursue your own career, realize your own life value, at least you can't live up to the cultivation of your parents, don't look for a job, and stay at home to gnaw at the old. Of course, this will be disliked, and finding a partner can only lower the standard, and there will be no excellent boys who show their admiration for her. The obstacle is long and the oval is ready to unload and Jia.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I haven't seen it. I haven't experienced the situation where others bullied me for the purpose of joking. I don't know exactly what it's like, but it must be uncomfortable, and if you have friends who encounter this situation, you can follow the following requirements.

    1.Show an unprecedented high profile, show unprecedented self-confidence, maybe you think it's good to be low-key, but some people will feel that you don't have the strength to bully, so you keep your head high.

    2.Don't be afraid, be calm, although it is uncomfortable to be isolated, but we have to be ourselves, when all people don't take you seriously, learn to take yourself seriously, learn not to take all things to heart, you can fight back, but don't be angry, if you are angry, you will lose?

    3.Give yourself a little time, there is no more wisdom that cannot be solved, some people are born with a temperament, so they can hide, and when they can't hide, they will take it out and shine brightly.

    4.If you are bullied because you are not familiar with it, then it is good to enter this team, learn more about it, and maybe win the respect of some people.

    5.It's a great way to get people in love with all kinds of delicious and fun things, so if you think you can, then give it a try.

    6.When everyone is angry, learn to let yourself understand more, cheer yourself up more, and don't be too pessimistic and disappointed. Special tips to get angry, tell the people close to you, relieve the relief, and then solve it yourself.

    Surviving in society will meet a lot of different types of people, and you will also encounter people who bully you in a joking way, at this time you must calm down, if the other party is not particularly excessive, choose to be patient, if it is very excessive, you must fight back in moderation.

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