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Judging by your description, your boyfriend keeps replying what's wrong. Mainly your boyfriend gets angry and feels like you didn't give him when he wanted it most. I think you explain a little bit to him and ask him to think about your feelings.
I think it's good to be deflated in two days, don't worry too much.
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1. When he doesn't reply to your messages, don't take the initiative to message him.
If he doesn't reply to you, and the message you send is like a stone sinking into the sea, and the other party doesn't respond to you, and he doesn't like to answer, then you don't care about these things. You have to think about your things, do your things, and all you have to think about is to improve your charm. For example, you can eat with friends, go shopping, watch movies, or even travel in different ways to adjust your mindset.
A person who loves you is reluctant to contact you because he can't help but miss you. So if he doesn't reply to you, you will hang with him, and he will always take the initiative to find you.
2. Get angry with him "appropriately" and have a small temper.
If your boyfriend loves you, then when you get angry with him, he will be anxious, especially if you lose your temper with him, he will realize the seriousness of the matter. When you ignore him, don't take him seriously, and talk to him lightly, it makes him feel a sense of gain and loss. When you just talk to a man about it softly, the man will think that you are a very good woman, and he will think that you are simply too easy to deal with, and he will not reply to you.
Sometimes you need to give some color when you have too much good face.
3. Distract yourself.
When you encounter your boyfriend who doesn't reply to your messages, you should shift your attention, watch your favorite dramas, brush up on Tik Tok, chat with your girlfriends, and do these things that make you happy. When you identify a thing, you will always think that it is like that, and then make yourself in a bad mood, but in fact, change the angle and change the mood, maybe there will be a different harvest. Don't get all your mind entangled in this point, when you let go and divert your attention, he will naturally take the initiative to find you.
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I think he might just be a little angry, I want to take care of you, he's emotional, so you should talk to him in a few days to see if he still has this attitude.
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If that's the case, you don't have to reply to him anymore and don't have to ask, let him go, if he really loves you, he will come back eventually, if it's not true love, let him love where he goes.
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It should be angry with the other party, it feels like you don't cooperate with his other party, it feels like you don't love him anymore, so the other party is also alienating you, it should be the resentment that is still alive, I feel that this is very stingy, and he doesn't understand you when he explains.
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It's not that he annoys you, because if he annoys you, he may not even give you a message, and it is impossible to go home, but he feels that he may be wrong and needs to calm down, and he doesn't want to lose his temper at the person he loves, after all, he loves you, and you are a baby.
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I think your boyfriend is not a relatively small person in real life, so sometimes he doesn't know what to do with you, so just reply.
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How long have you been together, how well do you know each other, men need more in this regard than women, so it's normal for him to make those requests, but if he ignores this because of this, it means that he doesn't really love you.
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What's wrong with my boyfriend's old reply? Then I think it's a good thing that your boyfriend replied to you, if he doesn't agree to you, it proves that he doesn't love you anymore, and he replies to you to prove that he cares about you.
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Judging from your chat, you are more clingy to him, and I personally think that your thinking should be a little more mature, and at the same time, the way the two of you communicate is problematic.
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Then I think this kind of boyfriend is still unreliable if he is with you for sex. You have to be clear.
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Then you and your boyfriend should lack communication with each other, what is on your mind, you should communicate with your boyfriend.
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You said that since you refused, he began to ignore you, so it is obvious that he only likes to be with you, what are you still doing ?? He asks you what's wrong, not necessarily because he cares about you, but just curious.
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Your boyfriend might just be his mantra. When you ask him something, what's wrong with his habits?
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Maybe he also wants to see you, so he has been replying to you, don't be here.
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It may be habitual.
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1. Agree with your words or agree with your point of view. If you are discussing something, then if he thinks what you said is right, he will use a simple word to show that he agrees with you. 2. I don't want to communicate with you.
If a guy he doesn't want to talk to you, or he doesn't have time to chat with you for a while, so reply to you like this. 3. He doesn't like you. Because he doesn't like you, but you're communicating with him or something, he has to talk to you in this way.
4. He is not interested in the content of your chat, he may prefer to discuss cars, games, and military, but you discuss clothes and bags with him, so he can only reply like this.
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I think you know I'm busy, so you don't want to bother me, so you just have to read the first three words.
I miss you too, so let's meet.
Oh my gosh, I miss you too, let's go on a date!
Is it true? Do you want to see me right away?
Do you know I've been waiting for you for a long time.
I miss you too, dear drop.
It just so happens that I'm thinking about you, what you want to eat, I'll make it for you.
Tips for chatting with your boyfriend.
1. When replying to messages, leave enough room for your boyfriend's imagination. After all, falling in love is not like talking about work, we don't need to have problems like reporting work, we need to create space for each other to push and pull.
2. Using open chat, we often say that whoever judges the macro talks to death, and what he says is the terminator of some topics. Their appearance can often talk about the topic to death in a moment, even if the person chatting with him has been creating a topic on the spine, but she can easily end the topic, and it has been an infinite loop, making people have no desire to talk.
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There are several possibilities for this scenario.
The first is that the work is very busy, it is the rising stage of the career, you need to work hard and work overtime, and you can't be distracted, so you don't have time to reply to your messages, and sometimes you don't have time to eat and go to the bathroom.
The second possibility is that you are busy playing games with your brothers, and if you are distracted, you may lose. So I'll quickly reply to you with a few words, it's more perfunctory, this kind of boy is more playful and immature.
The third situation is that he is tired of you, or even a little annoyed with you, it may be that you are more clingy, so he feels breathless, and he wants to give himself a certain amount of freedom, so he is not willing to say a word to you.
The fourth possibility is that there are other people you like. It's unlikely, though.
You can analyze the first reason for yourself, and then prescribe the right medicine.
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When girls fall in love, they hope that their boyfriends will pay attention to themselves and care about themselves, and when they send WeChat to each other, they also hope that the other party can reply in seconds. Even if you can't reply in seconds, you can't reply too perfunctory. What does it mean if your boyfriend is very perfunctory in replying to messages?
When you are in a relationship, when your boyfriend's attitude in replying to your messages becomes more and more perfunctory, or even a little impatient, it means that he doesn't care about you more and more, because he doesn't want to continue with you, so he will become more and more indifferent to you.
The boyfriend's reply to the message was very perfunctory.
There are two main reasons why your boyfriend is very perfunctory in replying to messages, on the one hand, it may be that when you send him a message, he is busy with other things, such as playing games with others, or is busy with work, etc., in this case, he will inevitably be distracted and will seem very perfunctory. It is normal for a young couple to encounter such a situation when they fall in love, after all, it is impossible for him to spend all the time of the day in love.
The boyfriend's reply to the message was very perfunctory.
There is another reason why your boyfriend is very perfunctory in replying to messages, and that is that he doesn't care enough about you, and even he has changed his mind and doesn't love you, so he will become more and more indifferent to you. You message him, and he is often absent-minded and perfunctory. Sometimes you send him three messages in a row, but he only replies to you with one or two words, which is already a clear indication that he doesn't care about you.
The boyfriend's reply to the message was very perfunctory.
Of course, sometimes your boyfriend's perfunctory reply may also be related to the fact that you always take the initiative to chat with him, and he has unconsciously developed this habit of being fearless. At this time, you can try to treat others the way they do, doesn't he love to reply to your messages? Then you also leave him aside, no longer take the initiative to chat with him, and live your life well.
If he is still indifferent in this way, it is enough to show that he doesn't love you, and since the relationship has reached this point, there is no point in continuing to talk about it, just break up.
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If you sense that your boyfriend's message replies are becoming more and more perfunctory, this could be a cause for concern. Here are some suggestions to help you cope with this situation:
Direct communication: Talk openly and honestly with your boyfriend about your feelings. Express your expectations and hopes for a response to his message to keep the communication going better. Ask him if there's anything that's causing him to become less proactive in responding to messages.
Find the right moment: Choose a moment of relaxation to have a conversation with your boyfriend and avoid bringing up the question when he is busy or irritable, so that you can better get his attention and understanding.
Pay attention to other signs: In addition to the message response, pay attention to other changes. Observe how he behaves in other interactions and if he also shows care and devotion to you.
If it's a temporary question, there may be other reasons why his response becomes perfunctory, such as work stress or personal problems.
Reinvent interactions: Try exploring new ways to interact with your boyfriend. For example, some interesting topics or common interests can be brought up and encouraged to actively participate in the conversation to establish a deeper exchange.
Give space and time: Sometimes people need some personal space and time to take care of their own things. Respect his personal needs, but also make sure your feelings are taken care of. Find a balance where you can both feel comfortable.
Seek advice from a third party: If your communication issues cannot be resolved, you may consider seeking the help of a professional counsellor or psychologist who can provide more specific advice and guidance.
Most importantly, maintain open and respectful communication with your boyfriend, work together to solve the problem, and find a mutually satisfactory solution.
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If your boyfriend's reply messages are becoming more and more perfunctory, it means that your boyfriend is feeling more and more about you, but maybe he has a new situation outside, which means that you should continue to understand his point of view and observe him to see if he is suitable for you.
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The boyfriend's reply to messages is becoming more and more perfunctory, and you can pause not contacting him.
I should be not interested in the topic you said, and I don't know how to reply, so that's all.
Or maybe there's something else that doesn't matter to you.
So let's get away with it.
Don't chase too hard and leave room for each other.
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After reading your chat history, I think you must be a smart woman, and your boyfriend clearly doesn't want to continue with you, do you want such a boyfriend? Will there be a future for this? If the answer is "no", then let go and say goodbye to the relationship. That's my opinion.
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Put him aside, work well, eat well, play with friends, and be there when he doesn't exist.
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Relationships need to be managed, and it may be that you don't communicate with each other enough and don't understand what you want to do.
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It could be that he is tired and doesn't want to talk too much, or he is a little annoying to you and doesn't want to reply to your messages.
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Do you see if he has met someone he likes? And deliberately alienate you.
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Summary. Then when your boyfriend says that he has a toothache, then you want to play with your boyfriend, play when you play, and forget it if you don't play.
When your boyfriend always replies to En, it means that there is nothing to say, and I always feel that what I say to you has been said, because I want to say it, I have expressed what I don't want to say, it seems that what I said is right, and you don't use it, so I always feel that what you say is right, and I directly nod and admit that everything is right, everything is as I wish, and there is nothing to say, so I admit it.
My boyfriend and I made an appointment to play games. When the time came, he said that there were enough people, and he would play again in the afternoon.
That means that when you play the game, you will be told that the time to play the game is in the afternoon.
If you and your boyfriend are playing games, it's good to pass the time between you.
Shouldn't he quit to play with me?
Then I think your boyfriend just thinks that he doesn't have time to play with you now, and then tells you to play with you in the afternoon.
Then your boyfriend is so willful, because people who play games are crazy.
Do you see if your boyfriend can change for you?
The boyfriend said he had a toothache. I said what's wrong? He said it hurt when he woke up early in the morning. Do you still need it?
Then when your boyfriend says that he has a toothache, then you want to play with your boyfriend, play when you play, and forget it if you don't play.
For example, if your boyfriend says he has a toothache, you say he has a toothache, so stop playing the game and quit.
My boyfriend released my pigeons.
Your boyfriends are all letting go of your brother, how can you say that they don't date you? Explain that your boyfriend is going too far.
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Your boyfriend is very possessive, and very macho, I guess he is a little conceited. This is a personal growth environment, he has formed a fixed personality, it is difficult to completely correct. Maybe you can communicate well, but I think communication is only a short-term effect, and you have to change your domineering for you for a lifetime, otherwise your life will be very difficult.
You can directly reply that since you dream of me, you should feel the love in my heart for you, and take the initiative to confess your true psychology at this time, so that he can feel that there is a relationship of mutual love between each other, and only in this way can the relationship between two people be quickly improved.
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