Tell me what you think of the Dinks ?

It is to put yourself first, this type of person will enjoy life and will not treat themselves badly.

It's about putting yourself first, this kind of person will enjoy life and take care of himself.

I feel like it's a personal choice, I'm not a Dink personally, I still aspire to build a complete family.

I think the Dink family generally refers to working-class couples who don't have children.

For Dink, I think it varies from person to person, and everyone has a different opinion about children.

How are you different from others? It is a Chinese tradition to reproduce offspring, otherwise why would there be a bloodline.

To be honest, I don't really like that, but people have their own ideas.

Each man has his own will, and it is not easy for us to force them.

According to the individual differences of husband and wife, Dink families are divided into active and passive types.

Dink was good, we were very open.

Everyone has their own choices, and I should be Dink in the future.

I envy Dink, and regret why I can't be Dink.

The English word is two incomes, don't have children. This is not the norm.

I prefer the kind of life full of children and grandchildren.

Since the 80s of the last century, the Dink family has gradually emerged in China. Most Dink families have the characteristics of high education, high IQ, and high income.

1. For young people who have just started working, pension planning should be prepared 20 years before retirement at the latest. If you retire at the age of 60, you will need to prepare for the pension from the age of 40 at the latest. For example, the daily living expenses and basic medical expenses needed for retirement after retirement need to be planned and prepared before retirement.

2. People who are not married or dink lack someone to take care of them when they are not in good health. Therefore, it is necessary to insist on exercising every day, and at the same time maintain a reasonable diet every day to save a good body for later life.

3. The times are developing rapidly, and the society is progressing at the same time. The traditional way of raising children and preventing old age is slowly transforming into a new way of providing for the elderly. For example, home-based elderly care, community elderly care, such as group elderly care, etc.

Therefore, for people who are not married or dink, they can look for some reputable, reliable and guaranteed retirement communities before retirement.

Around us, many Dink families, many women have never had children in their lives,What would a woman's life without children look like?

For most people, marrying the opposite sex after reaching a certain age, and then having one or two children is a conventional life trajectory. But there are also families where couples choose not to have children for a variety of reasons, and this kind of family is called a "Dink family".

1.In fact, giving birth to a child is quite a painstaking thing, from pregnancy to the child's marriage and childbirth, parents need to be conscientious and full of care. Choosing to be a Dink, couples do not have to face the pressure of having children, they can focus on work and life, not only will reduce stress, but also have more time to be alone with each other, be able to immerse themselves in sweetness, and improve their sense of well-being.

2.There may be no one to provide for in old age.

Since he did not have children, it is likely that there is no one around him to provide for him in his old age. When people get old, they will be unable to move, and their health will become worse and worse than before, and the probability of getting sick will increase significantly. If you are sick, most of the time you can only take care of each other with two people, and you may envy the elderly who have children.

3.Grandma Wang and Grandpa Wang were the first Dink family, and now they are in their seventies. Through understanding, the husband and wife live a very good life, eat and drink every day, often go out for walks and sports, and occasionally go out to travel.

The two keep each other company, still having the same fun and deep emotions as they did when they were younger. Grandma Wang did not feel lonely, thinking that the pressure and troubles of not having children for decades were very relaxed, she and her wife lived happily and happily, and she did not regret choosing Dink at all.

4.is also Dink's Grandma Liu, her feelings are diametrically opposed to Grandma Wang. Grandma Liu's wife, who is in her seventies, died of illness a few years ago, and she spent a lot of money on illness.

Grandma Liu's brothers and sisters have also passed away one after another, and gradually, it is difficult for her to find someone to talk to in her ordinary life, and her life is even more difficult. She lives a lonely and helpless life, and often regrets and sighs when faced with an empty home: it would be nice to have a child at that time.

Choosing Dink became the thing she regretted the most.

Personally,I think the Dink family, I can't say that these people are selfish, I can only say that these people don't feel how important their offspring are, and they don't feel that they don't have children in the second half of their lives, and the companionship and dependence after they get old, these people are to a certain extent, I admire them very much, because people will get old, even if they have their wives to accompany and snuggle together, but you don't know who left each other first, and you don't know what life is like when you reach the end of your life, and whether you need someone to take care of you.

First, the people of the Dink clan are not selfish and selfish It is not the Dink clan, but the human race, although the people of the Dink clan will not think about having children, nor have they thought that they have descendants to continue their own incense, and then pass it on from generation to generation, these Dink people are actually quite free and easy, and they are also very fearless, because after all, the people of the Dink clan are still a minority, and the concept of our people generally wants to start a family, and then get married and have children, and finally they leave the world and have descendants. But the Dink family is contrary to this concept, and even this concept is useless in the hearts of the Dink people, they also know a little bit of the importance of having offspring, but they just don't want children, this does not mean that they are selfish, they have no conscience, they don't know the ulterior motives of their parents, it can only be said that the concept of the Dink people is still relatively free, after all, it is difficult for ordinary people to do it.

Second, the people of the Dink clan do not take their children so seriously and say that raising a child can prevent old age, regardless of men and women, this is the truth that most people know, and it is also a process that most people will experience, but the people of the Dink clan are different, they will not feel that they will have no children in their lives, they will not feel that they will have no children to take care of in their old age, and they will not feel that they cannot move, children can be raised, in the final analysis, The people of the Dink family do not regard their children as important, and feel that they can live a good life without children, even if they are old and their health deteriorates and they can't move, they have enough confidence to live their old age, and they don't need to have children to raise and take care of themselves.

Third, these people will feel that the relationship between the two is more important, generally the people of the Dink family, will not take children so seriously, must have a few children to prevent old age, these people will feel that their other half is the most important, and enjoy the life of two people more, do not need the appearance of children to disturb the sweet life of two people, will feel that children are a burden, and will feel that they can't take children well, simply don't have children, just live every day with their own objects, so, These three points are my thoughts on the Dinks.

Dinks are normal, and they are alive and happy. Not being selfish is just a way of life, a different attitude.

It's not selfish, everyone has their own ideas, they have freedom, and as long as they don't break the law, they're free.

No, now everyone will have their own different way of life, and choosing Dink is also an attitude towards life, which shows that they value work more and yearn for freedom in life.

I agree very much, I don't think this thing is selfish, because everyone has the right to choose their own life, and no matter what they do, they should respect it.

I think the Dinks are very good. They weren't selfish, they just didn't like children, so they chose Dink.

In fact, whether Dink is or not is just one of the thousands of choices to face in life, everyone has the freedom to choose whether to live or not to live, and the question itself does not deserve too much attention. It is worth paying attention to the social background and causes of the Dink phenomenon, and how to address the long-term social impact of this phenomenon.

Dink is not selfish, and it is selfish not to have children without responsibility.

In the eyes of the Dink couple, love is the most important thing!

A marriage without love is a grave, two people live together, just to be happy, happy, and comfortable to get along, and the Dink couple does not have a third-party child involved, so they don't have to worry about the child's affairs, let alone work hard for the child, and fall ill. Some highly educated Dink couples believe that children are just the continuation and hope of two people's lives, and some couples want children just to rely on their old age.

Think about it carefully, most of those couples with children, after getting married, spend their energy on managing marriage and love on raising children, revolving around their children every day, and they can't even squeeze out the time for traveling and shopping together, from morning to night. And the Dink couple is different, the Dink couple has enough time and energy to manage marriage and love, so that the world of the two of them is more exciting.

Dink and his wife have a hurdle, that is, when Ding is middle-aged, one party is unwilling to continue Dink anymore and begins to regret it, which is the most troublesome thing for many Dink couples. When they got married, both of them said that they didn't want children, and this agreement persisted until middle age, and one party may be very successful in their careers, have a car and a house, and their mentality has changed, so they proposed to have a child.

This situation shows that the husband and wife can no longer reach the same idea of Dink, the party who does not want children may continue to insist on not having children, and the party who wants children, if they cannot convince the other party, will divorce or betray, and have illegitimate children outside. Therefore, there will still be certain hidden dangers in the Dink family.

Dink couples are a way of life, and when choosing, you must be cautious. Couples who take the road of "Dink" must be confident enough and not feel inferior because they are Dink families. It's just that in real life, there are some Dink couples who are not real Dink and don't think about the long term.

Although I had this idea at the time, it also changed later, just like the question I mentioned earlier, when Ding reached middle age, one party didn't want to continue Ding, and the situation was a little embarrassing at that time.

The people of the Dink family don't care about future generations, they don't think about that, they care more about their own happiness, and their quality of life.

The people of the Dink family should just think that children will be a burden and a kind of constraint, and they don't want to let themselves live unfree because of children.

The Dink family has their own ideas, they just don't have children, but it doesn't affect their family life, they are still happy without children.

The people of the Dink family feel that having children is a burden, they don't want to let children be around, and at the same time they don't like children.

Dink couples, it is a way of life, they feel that both parties are the best, so it is okay not to want children, as long as they are happy.

The people of the Dink family pursue freedom, they are not willing to be bound by their children, they pursue a two-person world, and they are not willing to worry about their children.

These people feel that having children is a burden, they don't like children, they don't feel like they don't have that ability, that's how I think.

What they think is that two people are happy when they are together without children, and children are not needed and are burdens.

Such people have their own ideas, they know that they can't be responsible for their children, so they choose not to have children, and that's good.

They feel that without children, the two of them will live happily, and they feel that even if they have children, they will not be able to raise them well.