Can you accept the Dinks?

I can't accept that I like children so much.

I can understand it, but I will never dink.

I think the Dinks are reluctant to have children, some of them are living and seeing clearly, but some of them are unwilling to have any more burdens. In fact, although there will be a certain amount of financial pressure to have children, if you really like children, you are willing to bear such financial pressure.

The Dinks were actually influenced by the impact of Western culture. After all, in the Chinese tradition, having more children and grandchildren is actually the happiest thing, so the behavior of couples who have been together for many years without having children may be a negative example of Chinese tradition. But I think whether two people are together or not to let the child is a matter of discussion between two people, and for them may enjoy the romance of two people together, because when two people are together, there is no need to think about more things without children, and it will be more relaxed, but sometimes children can indeed be very warm, between husband and wife, especially when quarrelling, children can be used as a mediator to ease the relationship between two people.

I think for this part of the people, they actually see or prefer to enjoy the sweet time of two people, because after having a child, it will indeed increase a lot of troubles, and there are a lot of things to worry about, it may be that they don't want the other party to work so hard for the child.

But in fact, I think that if two people really like children together, even if there is financial burden or pressure, they will choose to have children, because the existence of children is irreplaceable, and children can really warm or make adults' personalities more gentle. And for the people of the Dink family, they are reluctant to have children, partly because of economic problems, because for them they can't even raise themselves, if they really want to have children, it is not able to give children a good growth environment, and now everyone is more attentive to children's education, and even when the children are young, they will appear in various interest classes, if there is no economy, then the child will not be able to attend interest classes, and will be far behind other children, At this point, parents don't want to see it.

I don't want to have a burden, because the current social pressure is too great, and the divorce rate is too high, and many people enjoy the high-quality life of two people, so they don't want to have children and drag themselves down.

They really don't want to have any more burdens because they feel that children are not a necessity in life, and it will be very stressful for them to have children.

1.Career and Economy: Dink youth are more willing to pursue their career development and personal dreams.

They will devote more time and energy to work and study, which also creates more opportunities for their financial situation. For parents, they want to see their children have a stable career and financial foundation. Dink youth need to make concessions and explain their life choices professionally and financially.

This also creates some confusion for parents, as they do not understand why their children are reluctant to add arguments or add to the number of their own family members as they used to. Dink youth need to communicate with their parents about their social and family values and the importance of their lifestyle.

3.Values and Culture: Dink youth often have their own unique ideas and life philosophies, which are different from traditional family values.

Parents are often worried that their children do not follow traditional values and cultural traditions, and that Tuan Ming will lose the responsibility of passing on the family line. Dink youth need to respect traditional values, but also have their own life direction and beliefs, and actively communicate and explain to their parents.

4.Psychological state: Dink youth live a relatively independent life and are rarely affected by external pressure, but they are also prone to some emotional problems such as confusion and anxiety.

If parents fail to understand their life choices and values, this psychological state can be exacerbated. Dink youth need to maintain a stable mindset and respect their parents' opinions, while also having the courage to express their ideas and needs.

In the Internet era, the influence of network information and culture on people's lifestyles and ways of thinking can be said to be ubiquitous and ubiquitous.

Undoubtedly, the influence of online information on fertility attitudes also exists.

So, how does the Internet affect people's fertility intentions?

Theoretically, the Internet itself is not enough to directly affect the fertility concepts and behaviors of netizens. Because the information on the Internet presents a variety of faces, of course, there is also some information that is not friendly to fertility and does not encourage childbirth.

For example, the phenomenon of unmarriage, the surplus of men and women, the single population and the economy, the Dink family, the rising divorce rate, the involution of education, and the high cost of raising children all seem to point to the general trend of low fertility.

Under the influence of the low fertility culture on the Internet for a long time, netizens will be imperceptibly affected by the concept of low fertility.

Behind the chic Dink culture, to a certain extent, people's emotional expression of fertility anxiety and active avoidance of fertility pressure are the manifestations of the decline in fertility confidence index.

However, correlation is not the same as causation.

When applying cross-sectional data analysis, special care should be taken with regard to the relationship between variables, and it is difficult to make causal inferences without a forward and backward connection. Empirical analysis should be preceded by logical qualitative analysis. The key is to avoid talking to yourself and presuppose answers.

Dink is a popular way of life in Chinese mainland, Hong Kong, Taiwan and other regions, English dink (double income no kids) refers to both husband and wife have income, but no children. The Dink community is no longer between young couples, and more and more people are choosing to become "Dink". Some people think that Dink's attitude towards life is a manifestation of selfishness, while others think that it is a positive and healthy attitude towards life.

As a dink, they have more freedom to spend their time and energy, avoiding the time and energy costs associated with taking care of young children. They can focus more on their work, career, hobbies and other pursuits to maximize their self-worth. In addition, because they do not have children, they can pay more attention to their health, interests and hobbies, and avoid neglecting their own needs because of children.

In many traditional cultures, parenting is considered one of the most important responsibilities and obligations in life, which can bring infinite joy and happiness to parents. But when Dink chooses not to have children and ignores this traditional obligation, they are seen as selfish and short-sighted. In addition, the future is unknown, and Dink's personal savings may be quickly depleted after retirement, leaving no children to provide for mental or financial care in old age, which can make such a dink even more burdensome to the family and society.

At the end of the day, we can conclude that Dink's answer to the question of whether he is selfish or not is that there are two poles, and each person's ideas and choices are different in their emphasis.

On the one hand, Dink can maximize self-worth and find ways to self-realization, which is a positive attitude towards life.

Dink, on the other hand, does not take on the responsibilities and obligations of raising children, which can be considered a sign of selfishness.

However, we should respect everyone's choices in life, and we need to develop in a balanced and just way with society, so that everyone can get the happiness they deserve and ensure the balanced development of the population.

Since the 80s of the last century, the Dink family has gradually emerged in China. Most Dink families have the characteristics of high education, high IQ, and high income.

1. For young people who have just started working, pension planning should be prepared 20 years before retirement at the latest. If you retire at the age of 60, you will need to prepare for the pension from the age of 40 at the latest. For example, the daily living expenses and basic medical expenses needed for retirement after retirement need to be planned and prepared before retirement.

2. People who are not married or dink lack someone to take care of them when they are not in good health. Therefore, it is necessary to insist on exercising every day, and at the same time maintain a reasonable diet every day to save a good body for later life.

3. The times are developing rapidly, and the society is progressing at the same time. The traditional way of raising children and preventing old age is slowly transforming into a new way of providing for the elderly. For example, home-based elderly care, community elderly care, such as group elderly care, etc.

Therefore, for people who are not married or dink, they can look for some reputable, reliable and guaranteed retirement communities before retirement.