What inadvertent moments did your parents have made you believe in love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My parents have been married for twenty-four years, and I don't know what their love was like before I came into this world, but after I came to this world, I am the best witness to their love. My dad and my mom love each other very much, they have been married for so many years, they have never blushed and quarreled, not the kind of life of respecting each other, but my dad dotes on my mom very much, and my mom is also very clingy to my dad. I heard that the two of them have been married for so many years, and they have never been separated for more than a month.

    When my mother arrives in winter, her hands and feet become cold, and no matter how warm they are, her hands and feet will not be warm. In the past, when the conditions were poor, she would often have chilblains on her hands and feet, and in winter, my mother's hands were as cold as ice, so when I was young, I was reluctant to hold her hand because of the cold, and I remember that because of this, my father and I had a particularly meaningful conversation, and the content of the conversation was that we should love our mother. Every winter, the first thing my dad does when he comes home is to turn on all the air conditioners in the house and drag away my mom and me's very cold coats.

    After the temperature of the air conditioner gradually warmed up all the furniture in the house, my dad would sit down on the sofa and rub my mom's hands and feet. He put his mother's hand in his big palm, slowly rubbed it little by little, the movement was particularly gentle, and the water in his eyes could be pinched out. When my mother's hands became warmer, he asked my mother to put her hands on his neck, and then rubbed my mother's feet, so that my mother's feet also became warm, and I felt very warm at that moment, and it also made me believe in love.

    My mother is a person who is very afraid of the dark and afraid of rain and thunder, and every time my father goes out to socialize, my mother will tell him not to drink and drive slower. My dad would be very obedient every time, and no matter how many people persuaded him to drink, he would not drink at all. And every time my dad went out to socialize, my mom would sit alone in the living room and wait for my dad to come back.

    When she waited for my dad, she turned on the living room lights to the maximum. Her eyes were fixed on the TV, and her mind was not on it at all.

    Often on rainy and thunderous nights, my mother would sit alone in the living room waiting for my father. She was scared by herself, but she wouldn't let me stay with her. Once I came out of the room to pour water to drink, my dad just came back, the thunder outside was particularly terrible, my mom's face was frightened, and she ran up and hugged my dad and didn't let go.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The most ruthless abuse of me was that our family would play together to fight the landlord during the Chinese New Year, until one time my mother learned to double rise, and since then I have watched the two of them play double lift. Later, I went to check and found that Double Liter is a game played by four people, so why not teach me and my sister how great it is for the four of us to play Double Liter together! The single dog silently hid in the corner again and cried....

    Although my parents abused me thousands of times, I still treated them like my first love, and the two of them were really ...... first loveI have never disbelieved in love, because my parents are the best witnesses of love! Although they often abused me, I was still happy to see them happy like this. All kinds of small pink bubbles floated up without paying attention, and said ......

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My mom was sick and hospitalized, and then my dad took care of my mom day and night, and my dad took good care of my mom and made me believe in love again.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Parents which inadvertent moments make you believe in love, my parents are very loving together, they will respect each other, considerate of each other, I envy them very much, I believe that I will meet people who love me in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dad cut the apples, always subconsciously gave half of them to my mother, and my mother told my dad too much.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When my parents ate an apple together, I felt that this kind of love was very envious.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The casual care of parents for each other will make you feel that marriage is still worth looking forward to.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I feel that what parents have done is to take care of each other, no matter what problems they encounter, one party will care for the other.

    Everyone's emotional communication since childhood is roughly the emotion between parents. And a good family is inseparable from the love concept of a good parent. It is precisely because of the parents' correct view of love that they have set a good example for their children.

    Since I was a child, I have seen the love and care of my parents for each other, and of course I have seen it myself. Marriage is easy to say, but it is also the most difficult to manage.

    Maybe at the beginning, they often like each other together, but if you really want to stay together for a lifetime, what you can't do without is mutual understanding and mutual tolerance. Without these elements of the soul, the marriage leaves a gap. As my parents, I have personally experienced how they watch for each other and care for each other.

    Take my dad as an example, his personality is relatively peaceful, and he rarely loses his temper and basically does not lose his temper. My mother, on the other hand, is in a hurry for everything, and her nature is also more urgent. So at home, I often see my mother being the busiest person.

    My dad is responsible for grocery shopping, cooking, and washing dishes every day, and his daily life is very regular. But whenever my mom is unwell, my dad will always take care of it, and if there is any pain in the body, my dad will also go to great lengths to find all kinds of plasters to massage my mom personally. In fact, whenever I see this, I also feel that their marriage is happy.

    So from the parents' view of love, you can also learn emotional knowledge. People provide a reference for themselves later in life. Marriage should be like this, no matter how noisy it is usually, but either party, when there is something, the other party will definitely care about him at this time and take care of him.

    I believe that this emotion is exactly what we need.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My parents are still in love when they are so old, and my father bought flowers for my mother on Valentine's Day. This makes me believe in love, it turns out that love can last so long, it turns out that love is like this.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Mom will think about Dad whatever she eats, she will leave delicious things for Dad to share with her, she will let Dad eat more, and she will only taste a little bit herself, I think this is the love between them.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    They have been beating and scolding for many years, and they still haven't divorced. Parents always say that there is no love in their era, but if they don't give up, it is the best love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My mother is not in good health this year and needs to do some chemotherapy, my father accompanies me every time, and always coaxes my mother to eat more, I suddenly feel that love should be like this!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The relationship between parents has always been very flat, but when his mother is sick, his father will always be by his mother's side day and night to take care of him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I have not been shocked by the love between my parents, for as long as I can remember, the love between my parents has been relatively plain, like most ordinary families

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes, once my mother had an upset stomach, and my father, who never cooked, personally made brown sugar ginger water for my mother.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When I see that my parents can still be happy together after so many years, I feel that they are very happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I am often shocked by the love of my parents, no matter when, my father's eyes are always on my mother's body, and my mother will not be affected.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, the love between parents has long been converted into family affection, and it is all a bland feeling.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Although I heard a lot of things from my mother later, I was still shocked by my parents' love.

    My father graduated from high school, and at that time, graduating from high school was already a relatively high education, and after graduating from high school, my father returned to work in the supply and marketing cooperatives in the township.

    But at that time, my mother resolutely married my father. Later, my mother talked about how they got two dilapidated stone houses when they separated, and the second grandparents bought a new house. And at that time, there was not a grain of rice at home, only a basket of corn, and my mother said that at that time it was a luxury for them to want to eat rice.

    But even with such hardships in life, my mother never wanted to leave my father. When my mother told me this, I felt that the love of my parents was really great.

    Mom and Dad didn't give up on each other because of the hardships of life, but have been working together to live together. Dad is down-to-earth and hardworking, and Mom is hardworking and kind. They raised my brother and me with their own hands and provided for me to go to college.

    Looking at my parents' ** when they were young, I always couldn't help but shed tears. But my mother said, "I never felt bitter, because I never felt bitter with your father by my side."

    This is the simple and great love of parents.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are actually many moments in this moment, but what really shocks me is that no matter how fierce the two of them are, they can get along on the second day, which is not only love, I think there is also a part of family affection.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The two of them generally don't quarrel, and when they are so old, they still kiss me and me. One person will wash the feet of the other. I was impressed.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    When my grandmother died, my mother fainted due to excessive sadness, and my father, who is usually not good at expressing love, rushed over and cried on the spot, and at that moment I knew how strong my father's love for my mother was.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Parents often quarrel with each other, but when you listen carefully to what they say, it's not the same thing at all. But I think it's amazing, they just can quarrel. I think that's love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Once my father was drunk, my mother didn't say a word to help him wash his clothes, although she scolded and scolded, but her eyes showed love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Even if my father suddenly had a stomachache at night, my mother would immediately get up to get medicine, pour water, and rub my stomach, and my mother was reluctant to do housework, and my father was reluctant to do heavy work.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The white-haired two walked hand in hand in the sunset, without speaking, the eye contact told everything, this may be love.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    For example, this time after my dad got sick, my mom was really upset, and then secretly cried behind my back. Then I didn't want my dad to see it, and then I accompanied him to wash his feet at night or something.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, parents usually dislike each other very much, but when they need each other's help, it can be especially reflected. I still remember that when my grandfather died, my mother's relatives were already at a loss, facing all kinds of things to deal with the next day, my father came forward as a son-in-law to take care of everything, and arranged the contact with the funeral home, cemetery, funeral, etc., I was not sensible at the time, and I couldn't see how difficult it was.

    When I grew up, I had friends who had their parents die, and seeing them seemed to see their father. In fact, it was the first time he had come into contact with it, but in order to reassure his mother, it was necessary for him to stand up at that time. To my mother, he was the husband; To me he is the Father; In his mother's maiden family, he is a son-in-law.

    Now think about it, can this be considered love? Of course, the first thing you experienced, having someone by your side, spending time with you and relying on you, is just from love to family, but if there is no love, these don't exist, don't they?

    Speaking of which, I am reminded of Zhang Aijia's movie "Love and Blind Date". The film tells the love story of three generations, and these three women are influenced by each other's love stories. And the story of the first generation of Azu in the film is also adapted from the real experience of Azu, the screenwriter of this film.

    She believes in a lifetime, I believe in a sentence, you only believe in a moment" This sentence aptly sums up the concept of love of three generations.

    Today's young people, in the face of this free love, does embody the word freedom, break up if they don't get along in a few sentences, there is no room for consideration, forget this, most of them get married, have children, and a little contradiction will go their separate ways, each passing its own way, is it a distortion of human nature? One day husband and wife for 100 days, I hope that after the conflict occurs, it can be resolved, and the family can still be together, support and support, and do their best to save, so that it is the essence of life and the true meaning of love!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, when my mother was seriously ill, my father never gave up, quit his job to take care of my mother at home day and night, borrowed money everywhere when the money was not enough, and he never gave up on my mother.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think the love between my parents is obscure, I remember one time, my mother was sick and it was inconvenient to walk, and my father silently carried my mother on his back and carried him to the 6th floor, I was very moved.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    My mother and father often quarreled, and then one time, the two of them were riding a bicycle, and the tire burst, at that moment, my father ignored his arm and protected my mother in his arms, and at that moment, my mother also understood that it was my father who loved her the most in the world.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    No, because my parents don't have a particularly big love affair with each other, and they usually like to quarrel, so I never experienced this feeling.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Of course, I was once shocked by my parents to show affection in public, they actually fed each other, washed each other's feet, and beat each other's backs. Although they have been married for decades, they are still very sticky.

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