I m very introverted, and I can t always find a topic to say, can you give some advice

Talk nonsense casually, keep your mouth shut. Even if sometimes the donkey's head is not in the horse's mouth, you don't know what you're talking about. Introversion is surmountable.

You have to know that not everyone is watching you, sometimes you are shy, introverted, afraid that others will see you ugly or something, in fact, people don't pay attention to you at all, it's you who have too much heart, and what you have to do is to try to make others look at you, don't be an obscure small role, unless you like to be a small role all your life, not being cared for, others don't care about your opinions, your feelings, something skips you directly, isn't that sad?? Going to some stores as a salesman can exercise your communication skills in this area. In fact, it's not that you really don't have a topic, it's that you think too much before you say it, this one may not be good, that one may be boring, and as a result, you think there is nothing to say.

In fact, many times people who talk a lot are also extroverted and talk nonsense, how can he say all the words constructive? It's just nonsense. For example, this cup is so beautiful.

There's another store over there. I saw something on my computer yesterday. I know of a shop that's particularly delicious.

I really didn't say anything to praise each other, you are so beautiful today, I don't think anyone likes to hear this.

Is there a computer city near you?

Go and sell computers (preferably laptops) for a few months

You'll be flamboyant soon!

When the water is clear, there are no fish, and if people are cheap, they are invincible. Be thick-skinned and don't think too seriously about the consequences of saying the wrong thing; Let it go, there are only so many topics in the world, and it's not a big deal.

Do you know? In fact, you are very ordinary, there are many people who are better than you, and there are many people who are worse than you, you are very ordinary, do you know? There are so many people in the world that no one will notice too much of you.

You let go of your heart, a little free, as long as you have the desire to say, you don't have to care about any topic, if you are simply afraid to say, timid, then even if you are rich and experienced, you still can't open your mouth.

Be natural, don't panic, it's always good to take your time. Be positive.

It's a good idea to find a common topic.

You should be more open-minded ... It's hard to be bold, you can observe more of the new things around you, interesting things, or things you watch on TV and tell others... Take it easy.

a Grimm fairy tale to read to her

Watch a movie together and then discuss the movie.

Prepare a witty quiz.

Don't you have anything to say to your good friends?

Improve yourself, make yourself better and better, better and better, enrich yourself, cheer yourself up, and tell yourself that you are the best and the best, so that you will no longer have such thoughts and problems.

You must have self-confidence, improve your practical ability, make yourself more attractive, be cautious and convince your filial piety, participate in more social activities, and slowly exercise yourself.

You have to change your mentality, think more about your own points, don't always deny yourself, and don't think too much of others.

Communicate with people more, break through your fears, seize every opportunity to exercise, say a few words to strangers, speak in class, give speeches, etc. These can exercise your aura, no matter what you do, the more you practice, the more confident you will be. It is also possible to change the personality, provided that there is a strong desire to change and long-term persistence.

Psychologists' research shows that about 50% of personality is genetically determined, and the rest can be shaped and perfected as oneself grows under the influence of the environment. If you are not satisfied with your personality, you can try the following methods.

Successful Character Training – Self-Training The specific method is as follows:

First, find four random acquaintances of yours and ask them how they think of you, determine if you like them, and judge why you like or dislike the impression you leave on others.

Clause. 2. Determine what role you would like to play if you were an actor and why you like it.

Clause. 3. Choose any person you worship and list the traits and qualities in him that make you worship.

Clause. 4. Combine the second and third with a personality of your own choosing.

Clause. 5. Change what you don't like in your image, behavior, and personality, and reinforce what you like.

Clause. 6. Express your new personality. I would like to remind you that you should not expect to develop a character that will be successfully transformed anytime soon, but that you must also build on the core of your character.

The reason for this should be that you don't have as much knowledge or experience as others, you have nothing to share, in fact, you don't have to be so deliberate to find words, you can say anything that happens around you. If you want to change, you can first look at what other people say when talking about the topic, and what aspects. For example, if it's entertainment, you can pay more attention to the news that pays attention to entertainment, and you can just say what they say, and follow along.

If you want to create your own topic, read more books, or read something that others don't know, just talk to the teacher when you have more knowledge than the students, so you should reserve more.

Hello. Find someone to talk to, be patient.

But you have to be confident first, and then you have to participate in more activities, sports and things like that.

Read more books to enrich your mind.

You can watch more comedy movies or watch more funny jokes, then you won't have nothing to say to others, you have to change to be humorous.

Go to the vegetable market, or find a place with more shopping malls, you can ask ** if you have nothing to do, and by the way, cut the price, this is not the reason why you don't know what to say, it's that you don't have the habit of talking, and you don't have that kind of desire.

When you like someone, maybe you'll become talkative haha.

I'm quite aware of it, hehe, to be in touch with the outside world, as I said upstairs, it's a good way to be a good businessman.

Maybe I'm not confident enough.

I used to be like this.,It's very boring and has nothing to say.,The kind that will blush when talking to girls.,Since I played Sugar Accumulation, I've been led astray by the young ladies.** I need you to find a topic.,You're definitely being teased when you go up like this.。

Sullen type.

Because in society you feel insecure and have to force yourself to wear a mask in order to survive. But you feel miserable, and you feel like you can't find the same type of person.

After all, because there is no sense of independence, because of the inner desire, and there is no sense of security in society, you have to communicate with those who you feel trusted, so that you will become a sullen type.

The best way is to let yourself work hard for your own life, hard work is a very beautiful thing, when you don't do what others ask, but in order to make your own life wonderful, you will no longer be entangled in the feelings of people in society about you.

It is the truth that you want to be such a person, no matter how you carve yourself according to the requirements of others, it is not what you want to be, and you will live according to the way you want to be shaped in your heart. God gave you life, not to make you the same as others, but to let you independently shape a look of yourself, no matter whether you are ugly in the end, whether others like it or not, at least your life is meaningful, don't envy others, many of them are copied by the eyes of others, and the real value is the person who can shape his own value.

It's hard to understand.

Be bold, find more opportunities to speak, and practice yourself.

On the outside, boldly say that there is nothing to take into account, even if you say it wrong, it is nothing, say it a few more times, and you will naturally not be afraid.

It's not a sign of introversion, it's just that you're not confident in yourself.

I'm similar to you, but I don't think there's anything wrong with that, go your own way, let others see, and there are things that you don't need to care about so much.

Where there is a will, there is a way... I'm also introverted, I know.

Sister paper, this is not confident - go learn to speak and it will help you - -

You are an introvert and you are afraid of being embarrassed by having nothing to say when talking to others. As long as you learn to play with someone often, you will naturally have something to say in the middle of the game. It is recommended that you often invite your friends to play in nature, and you will feel comfortable during the trip.

If you look closely, in the turquoise sea, the fish are swimming freely; If you listen carefully, under the blue sky, the birds are singing happily, it is a funny poem in nature. ......As long as you go out into nature, you can see the vibrant green leaves of the green trees on the high mountains, which is a small note in your sea of joy. You have something to talk to others in such a beautiful environment.

Hopefully, you will find friends in various activities that you can communicate with or confide in, and you will learn to talk to anyone, and thus change your introverted personality. I believe that you will have more friends in the near future, and you will have more friends of your own who can trust each other to talk about. You will learn to find happiness on your own and be a happy person!

As soon as you feel happy, your personality changes.

First of all, don't be nervous, the more nervous you are, the more you can't find the words to say, and you will feel more and more embarrassed.

Usually pay more attention to the recent movements of your friends, and you can start from this aspect when chatting, which also shows that you care about her.

If you really don't have anything to say, don't hold back, relax your mind, and come with your will.

If it's an irrelevant person, don't force it if you don't have a topic. How to say the character of introversion, can't let go of yourself, it's not a day or two can change, go out to exercise, find something to practice courage, if you are a student, you will raise your hand to speak, if you are an adult, you will experience more in society.

It is advisable to attend more gatherings of friends, colleagues, and even classmates.

Open your heart and talk to others sincerely.

Talking to people is a matter of connotation, not a matter of character, and there are words to increase your knowledge, hopefully.

Usually you don't start with age, weather, or eating, and then talk about anything else you want to talk about.

There's nothing to be afraid of, just go with the flow and find something to talk about!

Find a chat with a lot of words, don't have to work hard to find a topic