What is it like to be a woman with your boyfriend or husband thinner than you?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    My boyfriend is thinner than me, and he is only 10 centimeters taller than me, but we weigh the same. I'm also helpless, but what can I do? He can't get fat, I can't lose it, alas.

    Now every time I contact him, I ask him if he's fat. If he says yes, I'll be very happy and encourage him to eat more, and I'm the only one who can make my boyfriend eat more meat every day. However, if he tells me that he has lost weight instead of fat, then my heart is really upside down I don't know how many times.

    Desperate, I feel like I'm probably going to be fat for the rest of my life.

    When I was with him, whenever he picked me up, I was worried about whether his arm would break, but the truth was that he could pick me up, wow. But I feel sorry for him, so thin arms and calves, tsk, I feel like I'm going to be crushed.

    Although there is an effort in **, but, I found that it is not useful, and later he comforted me, I am not fat, so I don't have to deliberately go **. Then I'll take the advice with peace of mind, whatever, haha.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Anyway, I'm very inferior, my husband belongs to the kind of person who is particularly thin, as a woman, this is the coveted physique, my husband is not only thin, the key is that he is thin and good-looking, no matter what clothes he wears, it has a special taste, it is a walking hanger, I have been jokingly saying to my husband, if it can be transplanted, I hope to move all the flesh on my body to you, anyway, my feeling is that I have been living under his blow.

    I don't understand why my husband can't get fat, he eats really a lot, but he just can't get fat, people say that men will get fat after marriage, but he is not fat at all. Sometimes I try to find a balance, and I often let him eat a lot of snacks, but it all ends in failure, in fact, I always find a way to make him fat.

    I remember watching a celebrity talk show before, when an actor was interviewed, the host asked him why he got fat, he said that during his wife's confinement, he ate very heartily every day, but his wife couldn't finish eating, and let him eat the rest, he said that he was also equivalent to doing it for a month, and if he ate so well, he would definitely get fat.

    Later, during my confinement, I also asked my husband to accompany me to eat confinement meals every day, although I was a little fat at that time, but after the confinement, he lost weight again, and sometimes I really think he is a very strange species.

    Maybe it's because he's too thin, he always looks very young, and I'm afraid that he will be robbed by others, so in the end I chose **. In fact, I don't belong to the very fat kind, but I am very fleshy, and I absorb better, and then after my insistence, I have lost weight, but compared to him, I am still a little fatter.

    In fact, sometimes I was worried about his thinness, because I had seen the doctor's analysis before, and it was said that eating not fat was because the body lacked a substance, and it also affected absorption, and then I thought that no matter whether he was fat or thin, as long as he was healthy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your boyfriend is skinny, and you're even thinner than your boyfriend, so is the other person laughing at you? You need to judge for yourself that the other party may be laughing at you, or they may not be laughing at you, generally speaking, men may like thin women, or they may not like thin women, so you still need specific people, specific analysis.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This shouldn't be the case, it may just be a joke with you, people nowadays think thin is beautiful, if you are not particularly thin and abnormal, you will definitely not be disgusted.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think your boyfriend thinks you're ugly, he just thinks you're thin. He's your boyfriend, how could he not like you, and boys don't have the same perspective as girls. You think your boyfriend is skinny, but you're also skinny in your boyfriend's eyes, that's why he says that.

    Don't overthink it and be yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, they both like to complement each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If we look closely at the men around us, we can find that those thin men can often attract the attention and liking of many women in the love field. So why is that? So I'm going to talk to you today:

    Why do more and more women like "thin men"? The following 4 reasons are necessary for everyone to understand!

    The first: Thin men have a lot of strength.

    When a man loses weight, he naturally loses weight! Therefore, the saying "four or two thousand pounds" is very in line with thin men! Maybe thin men can't achieve this effect, but it is not denied that they still have a lot of explosive power.

    If you don't believe me, you can observe whether the men in the track and field team are thinner. And thin men, whether they are moving things or lifting things, they will have a lot of strength! Maybe it's also because they have more muscle!

    The second: the man is thin and looks tall.

    I'm sure every woman likes tall men! When a man is taller, he will look particularly tall, so women will choose to fall in love with thin men! Moreover, thin men look much better in clothes than fat men, and visually they will give people a very comfortable feeling.

    And because thin men develop vertically, they will also visually give people a feeling of being tall. Therefore, when a woman meets a thin man for the first time, the thin man will leave a better impression on the woman in terms of height.

    The third: Thin men have a knack for maintaining a good figure.

    The reason why women choose to date thin men is that there will definitely be some elements of learning in it! After all, every woman wants to have a slim and good figure! And women are slowly realizing that since men are thin, they are definitely not thin for no reason, so women will associate with thin men, and then learn from men's eating habits or some places that can be adopted in life.

    Even if there is no harvest in the end, women can put their hopes on this matter, the longer the two people get along, the stronger the husband and wife will be.

    Fourth: The older a thin man gets, the easier it is to maintain a healthy body.

    No matter how much money you have, when you get older, you won't be able to buy a just right ** body! Under normal circumstances, when a man gets older, he will want a thin body! Not only men will have this kind of thought, but also women will have this kind of thought, women also hope that when they are older, they will have a suitable ** body, and at the same time, they also hope that their spouses are just right, so women will take a long-term view and choose thin men when they are young!

    But in fact, as long as a man's figure is not too fat, there will be a woman who likes it! It's just that for thin men, this kind of liking will be a little less.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many women now like thin men because they are thin, men are basically very healthy, and they must be able to stick to physical exercise, so everyone likes it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because thin men look more energetic and have good physical fitness. If you know how to pay attention to your body, you must know how to control yourself. I don't eat and drink, I pay more attention to health.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If a man is particularly fat, he will look particularly handsome, and if a man is thinner, he will have a particularly good figure, and he will also look handsome and chic, which women will like.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The reason why women nowadays like thin men is because they think that such men are more handsome and such men are more stylish.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because it's stylish. Because it is very convenient for thinner boys to dress, and if they are thinner, they will look more stylish.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A fat man ruins everything, the thin man looks better, and he also feels spirited, and he looks good in everything, and the fat man has a beer belly, which gives people a very bad impression.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because most women don't like middle-aged greasy, generally men with self-control will exercise and restrain themselves to remind them not to be middle-aged.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because the pot-bellied ones have been snatched away by other people, relatively speaking, such people are richer, unless you are very good, otherwise you can't grab them.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    All kinds of unpleasantness.

    Except for my first love, all of my boyfriends are thinner than me, and although I am not fat, standing next to them still makes me look fat.

    I remember when I talked about my second boyfriend in high school, he was the kind of guy with a small head, tall and very thin, and at first I thought that finding a boy who was so tall and handsome was really a blessing for me in my three lives. Later, a boy with a particularly poisonous mouth saw me and my boyfriend eating together and said to me: "Eat, look at how thin your boyfriend is, don't hurry up."

    Although I knew he was joking, I was still very upset, so I said to my boyfriend that I limit you to gain ten pounds in one year. He couldn't laugh or cry. In fact, I know that he is the kind of person who doesn't eat for long, wants to eat fat but is getting thinner and thinner.

    Later, until the breakup, he didn't gain weight, even a pound.

    When I went to college, I ate a lot every day, and I thought I was gaining weight, but every time I went home, my mother said that I was thin. Then I got a scale in my dorm room, and I realized that instead of gaining weight, I had gotten thinner and thinner since I went to college, and I was barely 100 (I was 165 tall).

    After that I had another boyfriend, and although I was skinny, I was still fat standing next to him. In terms of the flesh on my legs, even though I am very thin, the flesh on my legs can still shake up when I walk, and his legs feel like only bones are left, and the flesh is also the kind of meat that is very tight, and I can't shake it at all.

    Because he is a hairdresser, I always go to their shop to find him, many of the mirrors in the store are full-body, whenever I take a photo alone, I feel that my figure is still okay, when he stands next to me, the contrast in the mirror is so obvious, he is thinner than me!

    Okay, let's be thin, let's be thin, talk about it yourself, who is to blame.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't like it, look at people, my girlfriend likes it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This doesn't necessarily depend on character!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Girls don't like to find a boyfriend who is thinner and slimmer than themselves, right?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you like someone, you won't just pay attention to your appearance, but you will also pay more attention to your feelings and heart

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Generally not, unless you are very fat, and fatter girls will like thin men.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Girls looking for a boyfriend look at character and ability, as long as the person is good, even if it is very thin, girls will like it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't like it, because you have to take the risk that he thinks you're fat, although you're not fat, but when you compare it, you look fat, and the pressure is also great.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on everyone's preference.

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