Why is you different from the real you?

Get some satisfaction from somewhere else, for example, you are happy to see others praise you, and you are quite tired of living.

It's fake, how can there be anything 100% true, everyone is fake, and some posing ** is a matter of vanity.

I never thought that the man I loved so much before would be such a vicious person, and his own son said that he would not let it go. I also want to take care of my son, what's wrong with my son, the tiger poison doesn't eat the child, all kinds of threats, insults. We're all divorced, and we don't know what else is going to happen to him. ‍

I just want to show off in the circle of friends, let others envy me, and listen to some nice words, will this be a disease?

Because there is a gap between the Internet and real life, the online self is more illusory, you can make yourself p and look good, or you can pretend to be very powerful.

The circle of friends only reflects what you want, ** are all picked out repeatedly, and when the real self doesn't have so much consideration, it's more real.

I am the real me in the circle of friends, I have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but in reality, there are not so many places to soothe emotions, I have to restrain myself in everything, and I am not free at all.

Because there are many colleagues and leaders in the circle of friends, it is unrealistic to reveal all the true thoughts and feelings of your work or life.

Sometimes you can only send some words against your will such as "Grateful to the company, grateful for work", even if you are tired and tired, but you can't show your true self in the circle of friends.

You don't need to face too many external factors in the circle of friends, you can show all yourself in front of the screen, without worry, but you need to worry about too many external factors in real life, it's different. ‍‍

I'm a little more fake in the circle of friends.,The pictures are all repaired.,I want others to think I'm good.,The real me isn't that good.。

The circle of friends posted is purposeful, showing that you are doing well, but in fact, you are tired of becoming a dog, and it is vanity that is causing trouble.

The circle of friends is a way of writing a diary, which is very real, and in reality, the real self has long been smoothed out by life, and it is all false.

Circle of friends. It's like a platform where you can share your life situation and convey your love and hatred.

When the circle of friends first appeared, people found that it was not only a kind of luck to be liked and watched by others, but also a kind of recognition from others.

For the sake of this so-called luck and recognition, people will indulge in the circle of friends and constantly try to post some trivial things and ideas in life. As a result, in the continuous cycle, the circle of friends has become a "trend".

From a business and psychological point of view, because deep down everyone has the desire and need to express themselves. And a platform like Moments came into being from this.

For the circle of friends, in Zhihu.

, someone said: "On social networks.

In the developed era, the emergence of the circle of friends made up for the lack of emotion between friends. ”

Just like some friends who have never met, you can see the person's life trajectory and life situation in the circle of friends.

Just like some familiar friends, you can interact with them in the circle of friends, so as to increase the familiarity of both parties and keep the friendship alive.

However, since there are people who like to post on Moments, there will definitely be people who don't post on Moments. Why? Because with the deterioration of the meaning of the circle of friends, some people are disgusted with the circle of friends.

In fact, these two kinds of people represent two different states of life. You must know that the difference between those who post on Moments and those who don't post on Moments, the difference in their living conditions is huge.

Personally, I think that all virtual life circles have to return to real life, and the contrast is great in order to reflect the instinctive existence of people. For example: If you want to invite someone to dinner in a WeChat group, can you post it in the circle of friends?

I don't think so, but some people think that they can, because I'm inviting one person, so I can't send a group, and another person, the group of friends he invited, can send a group. This can be said to be "big contrast", or it can be said that "not much contrast". The angle from which everyone stands is not the same, the contrast is great, it is the evaluation of personal cognition of the individual, not the real sense of "contrast between big and small" right and wrong, in fact, there is no right or wrong in the shouting branch, it is right to say that the contrast is big, and "the contrast between big and small" is also right.

This is the balance of yin and yang, the natural result of Taoism.

In fact, it's very simple,The probability is that the person usually doesn't look at the WeChat circle of friends or something with his mobile phone.,It's almost impossible to click on it and won't look at it.,WeChat is just a tool for her to contact others and life.,And the shed banquet is a single-chain silver pure lazy,Because the circle of friends is also a kind of social communication.,Every day in front of others, you will be tired every day.,When you go back to your home, you will also play other closed heads to relax and relax, If I go home and have to deal with the interpersonal relationships of the circle of friends, it may be too tiring, don't ask me why I know, because I am such a person, exactly the same.

I'm more introverted, and in reality, I can't let go of communicating with people, but in the circle of friends or WeChat and other network environments, I feel that they are people He Fengzao doesn't know or people who can't get in touch with Jidan, but it's easy to communicate.

I can say to be exact, I don't have a good life as in the circle of friends, why is it because when I'm not happy, I always post something in the circle of friends, and those things I post. It's all some more positive and optimistic things, all of them that I travel or some of the more positive things I see in other places in the circle of friends, or some funny things, so I will send them to the circle of friends, and I have never passed negative energy like the circle of friends.

Because I know that no one wants to be with someone who is full of negative energy, and no one wants to be with someone who is full of negative energy, I have never been like my circle of friends, passing on those negative energy. Besides, Chen's negative energy has no meaning at all, so I can post some better things in the circle of friends.

Usually when I post something in the circle of friends, I am not in a good mood, under normal circumstances, if I am in a good mood, I will not post in the circle of friends, if I am in a good mood, I will go to some friends to chat to tell him what happened to me, to tell them how happy I am in this matter, how happy I am to meet these things. I would never announce these things to the world.

I'm not as happy and cheerful as I am in the circle of friends, I will have a lot of annoying things and a lot of unhappy things, I don't know who to talk to, I don't know how to ** say that I am sometimes alone in a room, talking to myself, this is the only way for me to vent.

I think few people will really live like in the circle of friends, each of us likes to hide ourselves will hide our own unbearable very deeply, but we don't want others to know, but we don't know who to talk to, it's just that we want to bury these secrets in our hearts alone.