What are some of the things you used to scoff at but now feel very reasonable?

We can't choose our own starting point. But you can choose how you want to go and how you want to end it.

In the past, I always scoffed at the saying that the elders were 'the right person', but now I understand that the so-called "family pair" does not necessarily refer to material things, but to two people who have the same growth experience, similar outlook on life and values, and can move forward side by side for similar goals. ‍‍

Except for parents, all those who say to you "I treat you as my own child" are lying to you. If you know how much parents can do for their children, you will know that someone says this to you, so that you can work better for him. ‍‍

"You're nowhere near as hard as you think, you just look like you're working hard. I looked down on this sentence before, but since I failed the graduate school entrance examination, I feel that it is too right, work my own, and only I know it.

When I was young, I always felt that this sentence was a cover to block love, but later I realized that this was really a gap between the two that could not be crossed.

You can't talk about love for too long. I used to believe in love too much and felt that time could not defeat love, but later I realized that time is the biggest enemy of love.

Door-to-door is really important to marriage. In the past, I always felt that as long as two people liked each other and had love, they could support their future lives, but many examples told me that a marriage with the wrong door could not be supported by the family, and the relationship between two people would be difficult in the later stage.

Learning is for yourselves. This is the most common phrase heard in middle and high school, but we who are rebellious never believe that after graduation, we find that learning is really too important. ‍‍

Professional things must be done by professional people. "There is a specialization in the art industry, if you think that professionals are pretending to cheat money, you can also do it yourself, you can try it. If it were to make things worse, it could cost two or three times as much as it would have been.

A lot of times, it's only a few hundred, and you can do something that you can't do well in a month.

"Two people with serious differences in cognitive levels will not be happy when they get married, and talent is a real thing. Many people think that success is 1% talent + 99% hard work. But the reality is that a lot of things, when you don't have that 1% talent, you do 999% of your efforts in vain.

For example, design, such as sports, such as programming, such as writing, such as planning, such as **. ‍‍

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