How to be yourself in life, how to go back to the past and change your life?

Dare to be responsible for yourself, have your own thinking and perception, summarize lessons and lessons, improve yourself through some learning, dare to analyze the situation when encountering problems, come up with measures or conclusions to solve them, and achieve some goals.

We must have our own attitude, everyone has their own way of doing things, which is ** in our character, how your fate depends on your character. Whether in front of family or friends, or even strangers, we will always unconsciously be bad for ourselves, causing them to be helpless about themselves, their impression points are getting worse and worse, and even all kinds of alienation from themselves, and we are not aware of what is happening. If you are a short-tempered person, you should control your temper even more, it does not mean that people without temper are good, on the contrary, they will be bullied.

We can't satisfy everyone, and we don't need to do this, as long as we do what we do with a clear conscience, don't always wronged ourselves for the sake of others, keep our own principles and bottom lines, and do everything we can to make ourselves perfect. As long as you are willing to change, there is nothing that cannot be done, as long as you are willing to work hard, the iron rod can also be sharpened into a needle. You have to believe in what you do, you have to let yourself do meaningful things, when you do yourself well, you will naturally attract more butterflies, only do the little things well, you are qualified to do big things.

The biggest enemy is yourself, if you want to defeat yourself, first of all, your self-control must be strong, if you want to get rid of yourself who failed, you must be strict with yourself, as long as you are willing to be ruthless to yourself, as long as you firmly believe that you can change yourself, there is nothing impossible, as the saying goes: there is nothing difficult in the world, only afraid of people with hearts. People who respect themselves will bring respect to others.

Don't act blindly, and don't give up on yourself easily.

Take advantage of a naïve, timid, and dependent mentality, and make a few more good friends. Because in the future, both physically and mentally, you will become more and more autonomous and independent, and when facing danger or new things, you will get used to relying on yourself and not asking for others. And when you were a child, you were still the one who occasionally wanted to leak yourself naïve and weak.

This is actually a valuable ability.

The second, intimate and practical life guidance:

Let's exercise every day from that time. Get your body used to the feeling of sweating and breathing, because in the future, when you read books you don't like, when you take stiff tests, when you numbly do something that you don't have an interest in, your body will bear with you. You may gain weight or become sub-healthy, which will make you lose your liking for yourself in life and in the mirror.

If you get used to exercise early on, perhaps in the rush and confusion of day after day, it will make you decide one of the few things that a person can decide on their own - your body, and help you build the habit of self-confidence and self-discipline in the simplest way.

The third, some funny jokes:

Back in the past, I want to tell you that when you like a girl as a child, don't spray her with a toy water gun, don't pull her hair, don't say that her clothes are ugly, and don't complain about her to the teacher behind your back.

How to be yourself seems simple, but it's not too easy.

If we want to be ourselves, we must have our own opinions, stick to our own choices, don't change our minds casually, and strive to fight for our choices.

If we want to be ourselves, we have to face up to the imperfections in our lives. As a member of society, we have some shortcomings that we can change, and some shortcomings that will become regrets in our lives and cannot be changed. Therefore, we have to face the imperfections in reality, treat them calmly, not be sad, and live confidently.

If we want to be ourselves, we must recognize ourselves, and our own changes must be decided by ourselves. Only by not relying on the help of others to complete your own changes can you succeed.

If we want to be ourselves, we have to do things according to our inner needs. The inner needs are your true thoughts, and only by doing what you do according to your inner needs can you not lose yourself.

It is not difficult to say that it is difficult to be ourselves, and only by clarifying our goals and persevering can we succeed.

Only by insisting on the right choice and not giving up can you be yourself.

Don't be affected by the external environment, don't listen to the views of ordinary people, have your own thoughts, have your own opinions, have more confidence in yourself, and find your true self.

It's still more difficult to be yourself, at least you should be yourself in the eyes of the public first, that is to say, at least you must succeed before you can be yourself.

Let go of distractions, calm down, start over, be a new self, and find your past self.

Actually, you're great now, and you've felt that you're not doing this well. Then you have to make up your mind to change it. I believe in you, brother!