What s it like not to want to go to a class reunion? Is it possible to share?

I never participate in these class reunions, I don't feel interesting, people who don't usually contact me, I don't know how to get in touch, and then I have a party at every turn, it's nothing more than to see who mixes well, and some, it's just to continue the fate of the student days.

Why are some people's hearts so dark? In the class reunion, they will eat and drink, brag and brag, what's wrong. It is inevitable that some students will rekindle their old feelings, so what does it matter to you.

Some good students show off and take the initiative to pay, why don't they do it. As long as you don't deliberately flaunt yourself, you can accept it, and I'm happy for them! Why do you always want others to be worse than you?

During the period spent with classmates, everyone was a student, and the conditions were basically the same; Decades later, there must be a big gap between everyone, what is unacceptable! It's sunny in my heart, isn't it? I really don't understand, why do you comment so much about the class reunion, people with dark hearts are rarely happy in society.

Everyone has their own independent social circle, unless they are in regular contact, such a deadlift party can really only be very embarrassing.

It's not good to mix, I don't have self-confidence to appear in front of everyone, I was a cadre on duty every semester when I was studying, and I couldn't afford to raise a car that I had mixed for more than ten years in the society. What should I do when I come back, hey, let's try to move bricks.

To be honest, today's class reunions have changed their taste, except for showmanship, comparison, and memoirs of complaining, there are very few, and they are boring. ‍‍

If you can't fit in, don't melt hard, and stay in a small circle of a few people to eat, drink, and have fun, so I usually don't want to go to class reunions.

After seeing through the various social conditions, there is no need to brush your face by attending a class reunion, so what if you go, you don't still go your separate ways after a meal.

I generally don't like class reunions, one or two begging for money don't have to brag and brag to scare people to death, it's not a thing, the key is that some people who don't get money still have no one in their eyes, as if they are big bosses, look down on this and look down on that, it's better to stay at home and be in a better mood.

I was reluctant to go before, but I had to go to save face for the organizers. Later, I turned my face with the organizer and decisively refused, and I was happy to see the joy of the group for some things.

I don't like parties myself, I like to be low-key, parties are nothing more than blowing together, it's not interesting to show off your wealth, it's better to spend time with your family. ‍‍

I saw through the so-called interpersonal communication, good friends often meet, and there is no need to meet if they are not friends, and they scoff at those flattery compared to comparison.

The class reunion has changed its taste, and it is clearly a comparison and showing off wealth! Definitely not going!

Each eats his own meal, each does his own thing, and gathers together when he gets along, otherwise he will go his own way and do not disturb each other.

There is nothing to gather in plastic classmates, there is nothing to show off, and it has nothing to do with whether it mixes well or not. ‍‍

If you're feeling annoyed, don't participate.

Usually there is no connection, why bother to make up the form, don't go.

1.Unhappy marriage.

After graduation, everyone will have their own family, the kind of classmates who have been married, once they meet the class reunion, they will avoid it, the reason why there are married classmates, do not participate in the class reunion, is because after marriage found that they are not as happy as they expected, an unhappy marriage makes them feel that they have no face to see the old classmates of the past, if everyone knows the status quo at the party, they may be laughed at, so the choice not to participate belongs to the more correct choice in their opinion.

2.Doesn't mix well.

The current class reunion is no better than the class reunion of the older generation, when the older generation, they still have the most innocent class reunion, and now the "material" is in charge, there is no little capital, no one dares to meet with the old classmates again, once the people who do not mix well go to the class reunion, maybe they will be complained and ridiculed by which local tyrant classmates in public, so some students who do not mix well try not to participate in the class reunion.

3.Too busy to have time.

In fact, in real life, there is a kind of person who does not participate in class reunions, this kind of classmates, after graduation, they have been busy with work, work ability is very strong, marriage is also very happy, and they are also successful people who have successfully started a business, wealth is already a cloud of smoke for them, they care most about the society, so they are busy with work and strive to return to the society to the greatest extent in their lifetime, which leads to their direct lack of time to participate in class reunions.

1. I don't like crowded occasions very much.

2. Have social phobia.

3. You may not feel the need to participate in such off-campus activities.

Maybe it's still a little uncomfortable, but my classmates have some comparisons.

If you don't believe it, look at the wine in the glass, and pay tribute to the rich in the cup."

Answer: It's a bad person.

The class reunion has become a comparison party, and it is not good to mix, who dares to participate.

I have to say that when some people attend class reunions, they do show off how rich they are from time to time, and their gestures are millions or tens of millions of big business, and their voices are very loud, and what they do is naturally to make others admire.

Yes, admiration is admiration, but the next time we meet, no one else will necessarily attend. Because, if you deliberately show off every time, then other people will naturally be dwarfed by comparison, how can you be willing to humiliate yourself again?

Many times, having money doesn't have to show off, after all, everyone is an old classmate, and having dinner and eating with you is just a matter of caring about those feelings at sunset, and it can be said that money is rarely deliberately mixed with money.

If this is the case every time, won't this kind of dinner party become tasteless?

Because everyone will compare themselves with each other when they participate in class reunions, some classmates who are not good will not be able to raise their heads, and some people will also look down on others.

Nowadays, more and more people are reluctant to participate in these three types of class reunions:

Nowadays, once you graduate, you will find that the journey of life seems to have entered a specific track, getting married, having children, raising your own children, everyone from students to various professions, from young to middle-aged, the pressure on the body is also increasing, we will also face a very real problem, that is, class reunions, and now more and more people do not want to participate in these three types of class reunions: showing off and comparing class reunions.

Now the class reunion has changed, there is no meaning, in fact, this is not false at all, many people get together just to exchange feelings, we don't see each other for a long time, once in five or ten years, it is a good opportunity to communicate, but many are showing off their savings and experience, or their own conditions are very poor, but everywhere to compare the nature, for many people, such a class reunion is unwilling to participate, they are disgusted with this kind of people, but also disgusted with such an atmosphere.

Class reunions that cost too much. Many people's consumption concept has been formed after work, but some students because of their solid family background, organizing a class reunion, it will cost a huge amount, go to those high-standard hotels to consume, even if each person spreads the cost of five or six thousand, for a class reunion, it is still very high, many middle-aged people feel that there is no need to be so extravagant, in fact, it is often those rich students who like to bring rhythm.

A class reunion that takes the opportunity to make money. Many organizers feel that they have no credit for organizing a class reunion, at least there is hard work, so they take the opportunity to earn money from their classmates, and they all say that they will refund more and make up for less, but basically the money handed over has been withheld by the organizers, although such organizers are only a few, but seeing such a phenomenon, many people are also particularly disgusted, and everyone does not want to wade into troubled waters, so they have to refuse to participate in such a class reunion.

That's why there's a reluctance to attend class reunions.

Because when I grow up, class reunions become comparisons, and many of the better clothes return home, which will cause people to feel uncomfortable.

Because my classmates are doing very well, I feel a little inferior, and I am afraid that I will not be able to raise my head in front of my classmates!