Can you hurt someone who loves you for the sake of someone you love?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-05
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you only have three seconds of passion for someone, then you can only spend your life in game love, and you can't get the true feelings of others.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Sometimes you overestimate how hurt a lovelorn person is.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you don't love it, let it go early, otherwise it will hurt more. Love for each other is love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think it should be possible to be together if the other party really loves each other, but consider the consequences! You take a look at this article:

    Should I have love?

    Can my love be renewed? If I was given a chance, I wouldn't want to meet him, because as soon as I saw him, my heart felt like I couldn't put it into words! Maybe that's love, but he's.

    I like him, but I don't want him to hurt me, I'd rather make him happy than sad! I simply hate and love him, I really want to go back to my childhood and forget to love! That might ease my burden.

    Should I have love? If I can really do it all over again, I would like to be with him forever!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    This is not called harm, you can't force yourself to love someone, who you don't love, which will make you more unhappy, and you will also let the person you don't like bury in your heart, tell him early, it will be good for you and him. Two people like it is mutual, love it to the person you like! (Advice).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I won't! must have loved each other once, even if they can't be together, there is no need to hurt him, even if they really want to leave, they will leave with apologies.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Emotional things can't be forced. Since there is no emotion, it is just his unilateral words. Tell him honestly! It hurt him less in this way. The more time passes, the more damage it takes!

    I feel like if it were me. I'll figure out for myself who I love. Then make a choice.

    I hope you can get out of the haze soon!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Do the math for you. Boyfriend + self = the man you love is hurt + you are hurt + your boyfriend is hurt.

    The man you love + yourself = boyfriend hurts.

    Choose the latter, it is better for one person to be injured than three to suffer.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Better a finger off than always aching!

    If the landlord doesn't like the current boyfriend, just break up with him as soon as possible, so that the damage to him can be minimized, and only in this way can you rest assured that you can pursue your own happiness Come on, come on!

    May you find your own happiness! Huh

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You and your boyfriend are no longer in love, you are reluctant to be with him, you will not be happy, and your boyfriend will not get your real love, which is also a potential harm to your boyfriend.

    This time the damage is already inevitable for your boyfriend, and it may cause your boyfriend temporary pain, but the pain will always pass, and the more you trust, the more it will only hurt your boyfriend.

    If you really love that man, be sure that man loves you. Just be ruthless, make up your mind to fulfill the love between yourself and your beloved man, and let your boyfriend have a way to live, so that your boyfriend also has a chance to find true love again.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In short, if it hurts, be refreshed, and cut the mess quickly!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Feelings are selfish, even if you don't love him, leave him, otherwise two people will not be happy together for a lifetime.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not worth it, for the person you love, if she doesn't love you, she won't get a hug from her with open hands, and if you look back at the person who loves you, it's a full hug, and then work hard for a person who doesn't love you, unilateral giving is called sacrifice。She doesn't care, she just feels how self-inflicted you are, just like the person who loves you, there is no right or wrong in emotional matters, but if I have to choose, I would rather choose one who loves me, after all, she has been approaching me, I can have a hug as long as I turn around, warm each other, no longer feel sorry for a back, no matter how close I can't get a hug. As long as the two truly love each other, they will not live worse than others.

    However, feelings really can't deceive themselves. Since you have someone you love, then love her well, if you don't love him, then it's best to hurt him as soon as possible to reply to him, since you don't love him, release him early, don't procrastinate because you're afraid of hurting him, but he gets deeper and deeper.

    Having said that, in true feelings, no one is right or wrong, no one hurts anyone, and there is no worthiness or unworthiness. Everything is a willingness to fight and a willingness to suffer, just like a long-distance run of three people, you yourself are willing to run after the person you love, even if it is a foot ** bubble, so what. If you don't love the person who is chasing you behind, then never look back, let him chase and shout, he will stop when he is tired, if you don't love to turn around and wipe her sweat and hand her a towel in order not to hurt him, isn't that giving her strength?

    What's the matter, isn't that a lifetime of chasing? That's the real lack of morality.

    People say that the long life is not long, the short is not short, everything can be compromised, but there is no way to compromise on this feeling, when you feel that you are coming, the other party will also feel improvised, improvised, each other is tired, is it worth it?

    So follow your own feelings and heart, love is love, not love is not love, the person who should be hurt is sooner or later, it is inevitable, it is determined by feelings.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's worth it because we don't have any right to hurt someone who loves us.

    It's hard to tell right from wrong in emotional matters, and if we don't like someone, there's no need to hurt that person. To some extent, we can't force someone who doesn't love us to change their mind, but at the same time, we can't hurt someone who loves us, and we can't be afraid of such things.

    1. I don't think I can hurt someone who loves me at will.

    In my personal opinion, even if we don't like this person ourselves, we don't have any reason to hurt this person. Emotional matters often cause all kinds of contradictions, and sometimes unnecessary misunderstandings occur. We can give everything for the people we love, and the same goes for those who love us.

    Think about it, if we hurt someone who loves us, what reason do we have to have our own happiness? <>

    2. Don't hurt someone who loves you for any reason.

    In a way, it's an honor to have people who love themselves. In this world, it is very difficult for us to meet people who are genuinely good to us. If we hurt someone who loves us because of the person we love, it is not only very irresponsible, but also very unworthy.

    Everyone's attitude towards feelings is different, some people may follow their hearts more, while others will be more realistic. In any case, kindness is one of the foundations of being a human being. <>

    3. I think that emotional problems require an appropriate rational attitude.

    Because emotional problems are often very tangled, we can also inadvertently hurt the people who love us. In my personal opinion, when we talk about feelings, we need to use an appropriate rational attitude to solve problems, and it is better not to think about everything with our own intuition. At the same time, we also need to learn to be a caring person.

    We may not like someone, but we better not hurt him easily, because what we hurt is our right to be loved. <>

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's worth it, not only will you not get the respect of the person you like, but you'll also hurt another person who loves you, and I think it's really worth the cost.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's certainly not worth it, it's not fair to the person who loves you. A person who has loved you for so long, would you be willing to give up every bit of his love for you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think it's worth it, too. Because you love this person, you can give everything for him. You don't allow her to be hurt in any way. Even if someone who loves you hurts her, you will defend the person who loves you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think it's worth it, they are all people who love it, but the people who love are different, and there is no need to hurt the person who loves him, after all, he also loves himself, and if he doesn't accept it, he can choose to refuse, but the hurt is unnecessary, and it will be uncomfortable to be rejected, and it will be even more uncomfortable to be rejected.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not worth it, people are selfish, of course you have to choose the person you love. It's not worth it or not, it's really hard to accept someone you don't love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's certainly not worth it, first of all, for the person you love, then the premise is whether the person you love loves you, if the person you love doesn't love you, no matter how much you pay for him, the other party will still not be moved by you. I believe that love is mutual, and as long as one of them doesn't like the other enough, it can't be forced.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I don't think it's worth it. Because meeting someone who loves you and is willing to be nice to you is sometimes harder than meeting someone you love. For the sake of the person in your heart, hurt such a person. Often you will regret it very much, and in the end they will leave you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's not worth it, there is no right or wrong in love, even if you don't love the person who loves you, it won't hurt him, after all, he hasn't done anything wrong, and you don't actually have the right to hurt him just because he likes you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Hello dear, it's the least worth it, don't hurt another person because of anything or anyone, it will show that you are very ruthless, and you are not a responsible person.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's not worth it, because everyone is equal, and if you hurt someone who loves you for the sake of someone you love, you don't treat his sincerity as an equal.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It's not worth it, hurting someone who loves you for someone you love, and you won't realize how wrong and ridiculous it is until the end. The people who love you are your best asset.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Whether it's worth it or not is only known to you, but it's certainly not appropriate to do so.

    It is very difficult for a person who loves you to hurt him, and for the sake of someone you love, but may not love you. It's unkind to do that.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's not worth it, you will only end up with nothing, you won't get the person you love, and you will disappoint and break the heart of the person who loves you, and both of you will always leave you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's not worth it, you can't hurt someone you don't love because of someone you love, I think it's too much.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is not said, is it worth it, I believe you will definitely be able to handle this kind of thing? If you are for the person you love, then how can you hurt someone who loves you This is not called hurt, if you are for the person you love, it is not hurting another person, if I feel that the person you love, he also loves you, then it must be worth it, if the person you love, he does not love you, then I don't think it is worth it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Alas, this topic cannot be said in this way. It's definitely not worth it, for the sake of the person you love to hurt someone who loves you, so that everyone who is hurt is not good, is there a better way and solution to solve this problem.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course, it's not worth it, but the people you love are more important, and you can't control it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It depends on whether the person you love is worth it. If you love this person very much, and the other person is willing to give everything for you, then you can reject all the performances of people who like you for him.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    There is no right or wrong in the process of love, and love is selfish, what I love is definitely more important than loving me, and your pursuit of your love itself is a harm to the person who loves you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    This is not worth doing, and it will only make others feel that you are very undignified and very humble.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Is it worth it to hurt someone who loves you for the sake of someone you love? In fact, the first question that should be asked is whether this is necessary. If it's not necessary, don't hurt either of them.

    If it is necessary, one party must be harmed. That can be a very helpless choice, and it's not worth it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    From a third-party point of view, this is unethical. Although love is selfish, it should not hurt the feelings of others.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Is anyone aware of this? I think you know, then I think as long as you have a clear conscience in your heart, you don't have to care if it's worth it or not.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's a big mistake to hurt someone who loves you for the sake of someone you love, it's not worth it, think about it, which is the most important thing for you?

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Whether it's worth it or not is definitely something that you feel personally, and if you feel it's worth it, then everything you do is willing, no matter what the other party does to you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Everyone's personality is different, some are more rational, and I don't pay if I think it's not worth it, and some are very grateful to Wu Ji for all the consequences of being willing to pay for each other, as long as it's worth two words.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Love is always uncontrollable, when you really fall in love with someone, your emotions are actually impossible to control yourself, you will always be influenced by the other party, and do a lot of things that you may not understand.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Singer: Huanzi.

    Let go of your palms trembling.

    You have too many reasons to refuse me gentleness.

    I'm afraid I'm not hurt enough.

    You have repeatedly stabbed my wounds.

    The pain can't be saved, and the love is gone.

    You refuse to give up, you have to break your love.

    Crying until my heart breaks.

    Still trying to piece together the perfect beginning.

    Why would you want to hurt someone who loves you.

    Are you addicted to ravaging my self-esteem.

    I know that I love you the deepest.

    But you have caused me to sink again and again.

    Why would you want to hurt someone who loves you.

    Are you accustomed to trampling my soul?

    Knowing that I love you, I don't have any warmth.

    I'm the dumbest man in the world.

    Let go of your palms trembling.

    You have too many reasons to refuse me gentleness.

    I'm afraid I'm not hurt enough.

    You have repeatedly stabbed my wounds.

    The pain can't be saved, and the love is gone.

    You refuse to give up, you have to break your love.

    Crying until my heart breaks.

    Still trying to piece together the perfect beginning.

    Why would you want to hurt someone who loves you.

    Are you addicted to ravaging my self-esteem.

    I know that I love you the deepest.

    But you have caused me to sink again and again.

    Why would you want to hurt someone who loves you.

    Are you accustomed to trampling my soul?

    Knowing that I love you, I don't have any warmth.

    I'm the dumbest man in the world.

    Why would you want to hurt someone who loves you.

    Are you addicted to ravaging my self-esteem.

    I know that I love you the deepest.

    But you have caused me to sink again and again.

    Why would you want to hurt someone who loves you.

    Are you accustomed to trampling my soul?

    Knowing that I love you, I don't have any warmth.

    I'm the dumbest man in the world.

    I'm the dumbest man in the world.

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