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Life is the process of finding love, and everyone has to find four people in their life.
The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with.
First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love;
Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most;
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not your favorite or the person who loves you the most, it's just the person who appears at the most suitable time.
How many people will you be in someone else's life?
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, and if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he is with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?
Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in life, if you really love someone, you must love him as he is—love his good, love his bad: love his strengths, but also love his shortcomings, and never want him to become what you want because you love him, and if you can't change it, you won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
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After reading your story, I sympathize with you, and I think you are very brave. Because if you like someone, you have to let them know, and you do a good job of that. But love this thing depends on feelings, and since she doesn't feel for you, it means that she doesn't like you now.
At least it means that she knows very little about you, in fact, you can usually care more about her and pay attention to her silently, but don't keep in touch with her. Send some messages from time to time, for a long time. I think she'll appreciate how much you care about her.
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I advise you not to, is it worth saving a love without feelings? If you want to open something, everything will pass, don't be stupid, if she doesn't like you, she will still break up in the end, so don't want to save any love, and I wish you happiness in the end!
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Twisted melons are not sweet.
Besides, the content you listed is not a sincere performance, and normal friends will do the same.
I'm afraid this kind of love won't last long.
If you get it later, it will not be because of love and hatred.
If it were me, I would choose to give up.
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You ignore her and be your own.
One day she'll feel like you.
Believe even. My brother has experience in this area.
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You're both still students, do you have what it takes to love her? Maybe loving him will bring you happiness, but have you ever thought about what it brings her?
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I will learn to give up on you.
It's because I love you so much.
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Dead love, just like dead people, is there still value to be saved?
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The four-person theory on the first floor is really good.
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One word "wait", but always enrich your life.
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First, be sure to boldly tell the other person that you still love him and let him know your feelings for him.
The secondIf it's your fault that causes you to break up, then you must take the initiative to admit your mistakes.
The thirdIf there is a contradiction or misunderstanding between two people has not been resolved, you must use the locomotive to communicate and other methods to resolve the contradiction in a timely manner, as long as you can seriously analyze from these three aspects, you will know the way to save your love, and you will be able to save your love very well.
Fourth, cryotherapy.
Don't pester him, don't go to him, give him enough time to think, two people temporarily maintain a certain sense of distance, it's a good thing for both parties, you don't have to worry about whether he will forget you, a person's memory can't be deleted so easily.
Fifth, create your own mentality and personality.
When you are freezing, you have to remember not to let yourself be idle, to build yourself, your appearance, personality, and circle of friends are all lively, and use positive energy to attract each other, instead of feeling sorry for yourself, so that the other party wants to alienate you even more.
Love is hard to come by:
If you meet a bosom lover or you love him, don't miss it easily, and don't give up easily. Even if there are some problems in the relationship between two people, find a way to solve the problem.
In short, as long as you still have feelings for him and he has feelings for you, then no matter what kind of misunderstanding there is between you. As long as you can find the right way to resolve it slowly, you will definitely be able to redeem your love.
You can take a trip, usually people are more relaxed during the trip, and you can recall the bits and pieces of your past and the things you have experienced together in the process. Suddenly, you will find that it is not easy for each other to have traveled so many ways. It turns out that I have been touched countless times in the past, and I realized how important each other is. >>>More
If it is a love that I regret, I have fought for it and am indifferent, as long as I can fight for the lost feelings, no matter what percentage I have to fight, no matter what method I use, dignity or good, even if there is only a very slim hope, I will fight for it, even if I have lost, I will fight for it in this life, as long as I work hard and give up everything to fight, it is enough!!
Although she said it was annoying, she didn't say that she couldn't show up again, and that being friends meant that there was still a chance. But I don't know her tone, so judge it for the time being. You can ask her to give you another chance, because you really like her and don't want to give up. >>>More
Men are the same, there is always a woman who will hide in the bottom of her heart! ......But you have to know that people will meet such kinds of people in their lives, the first one is the person you love deeply! The second is someone who loves you deeply! >>>More
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