Why do you have the emotion of missing someone?

Because missing is a symbol of love. Whether it is for relatives or lovers, when the loved one is far away from them, they will inevitably miss and worry, which will naturally be uncomfortable. I know that lovesickness is bitter, but I am worried about you, and after a little careful consideration, I would rather bear the pain!

When you have someone in your heart, you think about him all the time, you miss him, he occupies all your thoughts, and he controls you so easily. I've never missed someone like this before, never before. I really don't know what kind of pain it is to miss someone, and how to spend a long minute and every second.

When something called missing comes to you, you start to be silly, stupid, you smile happily for one of his text messages, you shed sad tears for a word he said, you think of his cute expression for one of his actions. You laugh for him, cry for him, worry about him, and be infatuated with him. All this because you think about him all the time, miss him.

In everyone's life, you will meet a lot of people, all kinds of personalities, all kinds of different people, how many are your bosom friends? And how many people love themselves deeply? And how many of them do you love?

Instead of seeking thousands of times, it is better to cherish the people in front of you. Love is not to wait for you to be free to cherish, we meet, it is fate, for this fate, we may all be trying to adapt to each other, everything just wants to go with the flow. If you can find a person you like and love each other, it is not easy, but what a great honor, maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, maybe not as good as you imagined, it shouldn't be so bad.

Life is not so beautiful, and all happiness must be cherished and cherished. So instead of being uncomfortable, it is better to cherish the blessings in front of you. We still have a long future, we can't and can't always live in negative emotions like uncomfortable, we need to go further in the sunshine.

When we miss someone and feel uncomfortable, we either tell or find that person directly, or we directly try to forget that person and embrace the future with a positive mood.

The greatest happiness in life is that you fall in love with someone, and this person happens to be in love with you, you miss someone, and this person happens to miss you. As the saying goes, "the heart is clear". The person you love can show your love for him in every word, deed, every move, and smile, how can he not feel it?

Every day the corners of the eyebrows and eyes are in the dream of you, when the boyfriend and girlfriend are in love, fall into the sweet network of love, when you miss her, she must also miss you in the distance, because you are excited and happy She can feel it, and she seems to be able to feel your blush. If you smile, she will be happy all day long, and she will be in a good mood unconsciously. If you are worried that she will not be fragrant or anxious, she will worry about whether your troubles have been solved.

The days are long and sometimes endless, and the lovesickness is endless. Missing someone, if they also love you, will have feelings, this is what physics calls quantum entanglement. The so-called person who loves each other often has this meaning, you have him in your heart, and he also has you in your heart, it is easy to feel it.

The taste of longing is very long, it will float far away, you miss him, he also misses you, and the thought will float to the other person's heart.

If you love someone to the fullest, then you miss it, and missing is an emotional change that everyone has. Because you have emotions, you will miss them. This is something that everyone has.

I miss someone, but I can't see them. ......Such a state is really unbearable.

However, the facts are there, and I really can't meet the person I think about day and night. At this time, you need to take measures to digest the emotions of missing that person, so that your mood can calm down and return to normal.

Specifically, you can take the following steps to digest the feelings you miss for the person you think about day and night.

1. Go to her and meet her.

When you miss someone, the best way to solve the problem is to go to that person, meet him, communicate face-to-face, and express how much you miss him.

After meeting, I got my wish, and the emotions of missing each other could naturally be resolved.

2. Talk to her on the phone and complain from the bottom of your heart.

If you can't see each other, then choosing to talk to her is also a very ideal choice.

On the phone, you can communicate directly with each other, you can fully express your thoughts, you can fully express your thoughts about him, and the other party can understand your emotions, you can make an appropriate response, and you can be relieved.

3. Send her a message to express what you miss in your heart.

If you can't meet in person, and you don't have any conditions to call, you can choose to send a message to the person you miss.

In this way, you can also fully express your emotions and let the person you miss know what you think. ......In this way, your feelings of longing can be digested.

4. Adapt to the environmental state where she is not around, and bury your thoughts about her in the bottom of your heart.

If the above methods can't be realized, then you can only bury this miss in your heart and use your own reason to resolve the miss for that person. ......Although it is difficult to really achieve the desired result, it is indeed the best choice under the existing conditions......

Three lives are lost, and the quicksand is gone. To dilute the emotion of longing, you can read a classic. The essence of the book can allow you to re-examine the encounters in your life and better deal with your emotional troubles.

Thinking is a pain; Remembrance is a kind of suffering. Those pasts are more permanent than permanent, and the future is more desolate than desolate. Therefore, no matter how much the sea is dry and rotten, it can't be worth a good gathering and dispersion.

From a general point of view, you can use the method of emotional transfer. That is, to move from one thing to another, let's say your shoes are stepped on and are expensive. And then you can think, great, my clothes are not yet treadmilled, not stepped on. Feel at ease.

There is another kind that many people use that one, hack someone else to touch me, and then I will scold back. At least the momentum is overwhelming.

Back to the point, if you want to digest and miss a favor. You just throw away everything he has to do with him, throw it away, delete it, or find a box to put it. Slowly, time will lose all of this.

Maybe you'll put it in a box one day, and that's all about that person.

The journey of our life is so long, we will experience all kinds of things, such as breakups, such as the death of relatives around us, so I believe that at this time, many people will miss relatives and friends, or exes, so in real life, if you miss someone, what should you do to relieve your emotions?

Divert your attention and enrich yourself with work and study. In fact, to tell the truth, when a person misses a person, he is often in a more leisurely state, so he will have the time and energy to miss other things, but if you are very busy with work and study, there is no time to think about these things, so when you miss a person in particular, then you can enrich yourself through work and study, keep yourself busy, and squeeze out the time you miss, and there will be no uncomfortable emotions.

Traveling is also a good way to relieve a person's thoughts, because the great mountains and rivers of the motherland are very magnificent, and when you look at these beautiful scenery, you will forget about missing a person in your daily life, and he will squeeze out the thoughts in his mind. Moreover, travel is a journey full of unknowns, and you can meet all kinds of people and things, which is relatively new, so there is not so much time and brain to think about people and things in the past.

Go out more, socialize with others more, and experience a better life. As the saying goes, when you fall out of love and want to get out of a relationship as soon as possible, then you need to devote yourself to the next relationship as soon as possible, so that you can forget your ex and not miss him. But in the face of the departure of relatives and missing relatives, then you can make more friends, and then talk to your friends, or listen to some of the experiences of your friends and themselves, and then let yourself be able to imagine the space, and then you can relieve the emotions of longing.

Method steps.

1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

Ideologically – try not to think about everything about the other person! (I don't know each other!) ）2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

Do everything you can to fill the time, so that you don't have time to think about him or her, and after a long time, you will get used to it.

3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible, maybe your significant other is inside.

In action - make a complete break! (I'm me, you're you!) ）4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

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5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

Do what you like, love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

6.Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day.""I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him and her again, your heart will no longer ache, and it turns out that before you know it, he or she has become "that person".

7.If you can't do it, you can only do this: do something with a predictable success rate, and then tell yourself that if it succeeds, that person will reach out to you in three days.

Give yourself confidence) because she believes that he will contact herself, so she is in a happier mood, do what she likes, make herself happy, and after three days, if he or she takes the initiative to contact, then do another thing with a predictable success rate, and then tell yourself that if it is successful, that person will take the initiative to contact you after three days. Because you believe that she will connect with you, you are in a happier mood, do what you like, and make yourself happy (and so on). Once he no longer automatically contacts himself and does not take himself to heart, then why should he care.

At this point, you can never be contacted. (Don't push yourself too hard all at once.) will have the opposite effect)

Your subject is that you want a lot of people, but you can't tell him how to get rid of this kind of thoughts. Feeling bad every day?

Are you afraid that he will refuse?

If you know that he is unmarried and not in love, if you really like him, you should boldly pursue him, and you don't take the initiative to let him know that you like him?

Whoever likes whoever likes first should take the initiative, otherwise they will be taken away by others.

If he refuses, you are nothing, just when you get to know each other, there is nothing to be embarrassed about, it is a righteous and bright thing, a woman asks for a hundred families.

In addition, if you know that he already has his own wife, please stay away from him, even if you like him very much, you have no right to love him and miss him, because you can't give him a lifetime of companionship and happiness, you can only play the role of breaking up other people's marriages.

If you want to get rid of this kind of thoughts, it is all up to you and your humanity, morality, and conscience to solve them, and I can't help you get rid of your thoughts in this kind of thing.

That's the only way you can do it, and every day you won't be in a bad situation, and you should miss another person who you should miss.

If you miss him now, he doesn't have a girlfriend is the one you should miss and pursue, if you yourself are embarrassed to speak, you can ask you to have friends who know him around you to pass on the good news for you to meet on a bridge, because I don't know him, I don't know you, I really can't help you, and please forgive me for my shortcomings.

Thank you for your trust, it's up to you.

Generally speaking, it is necessary to analyze the specific problem, if it is indeed because of missing a person, it is difficult to ensure that you can control your emotions at this time, so you should cut off this thought, based on your own life and continue to enrich your life, so that it will also be reduced by 4 years, in general, you can also start from the following aspects to avoid affecting yourself.

1. If you feel that missing the other person will affect your emotions, then you should take the initiative to change your thoughts and concepts at this time to reduce the sense of longing.

In fact, for us, people tend to let go of their 4 years when they are busy, and because of this, they should be based on their own lives, and actually transfer their excess emotions to life, and controlling their emotions is also conducive to avoiding too much impact on their lives.

2. When you miss, you should let yourself have a clear concept of time, so that you can do appropriate things within the specified time, which is conducive to avoiding affecting your life.

In fact, for us, if we want to avoid times that affect our lives, then we should give ourselves a general time plan at this time to help ourselves better focus on life, on the one hand, we can reduce our thoughts about others, and on the other hand, we can help ourselves grow better.

3. Learn to control your emotions, improve your ideological realm, and transform this thought into a driving force for yourself to improve your strength.

In fact, for us, we should improve our own realm, learn to control our emotions, constantly change our cognition, try to transform this thought into ourselves, improve our motivation, and let ourselves grow faster.

In fact, for us, it is indeed when we miss a person, it is not easy to control our emotions at this time, so we should learn to reduce it appropriately, this sense of longing can be transferred to ourselves on the one hand, constantly enrich our own inside, and continue to learn to help better growth.