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This problem should be a situation that most people have to face. Especially when people reach middle age, the old people on both sides are old, and this contradiction is particularly prominent. All kinds of hurry, all kinds of sadness.
If the elderly at home are hospitalized and need to be taken care of, I will of course put down my work and go to the hospital to accompany the elderly when there is a conflict with work. You can do the work without it, and the leader will arrange for others to do it. And the old man can't.
The illness of the elderly cannot wait, do not drag a minor illness into a major illness, and delay it for various reasons. Otherwise, you will be the one who suffers last. There's a good saying:
The health of the elderly is our greatest happiness as children. Therefore, while the elderly are in the early stage of the disease, we must pay close attention to **.
If the work of the unit is indeed inseparable from you, and the elderly in the hospital are in good condition and stable, and they are usually just a hanging bottle, then you can discuss with the leader, go to work and go to the hospital to take care of the elderly after finishing the work in your hand. I think this situation is understandable for your leaders, and if so, then it would be the best, and the work will not be delayed.
Or are there any siblings? You don't have to be all there, you can take turns to replace them, as long as there is someone around the elderly to take care of them. And if you can't leave the work of the unit, and you don't have any other siblings, then you can hire a nanny, or a part-time worker.
Hire a nanny to help take care of it during the day, and you go at night. This arrangement is also a last resort, and you can only work hard for yourself.
In any case, the elderly must be taken care of when they are hospitalized, and they must not wait until the tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. This kind of heartache is not something that ordinary people can understand.
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If an elderly person is hospitalized and needs care, and there is a conflict between work and caring for the elderly, I will take the following steps:
1.Assess priorities: I assess the importance of work and personal responsibilities, considering which areas need more attention and time. If the health condition of the elderly requires immediate attention and care, I will make taking care of the elderly a priority and adjust the work plan to adapt.
2.Seek support: I reach out to family, friends or a professional care provider to see if anyone can help care for the elderly so I can free up time for work.
At the same time, I also seek support and understanding at work, communicate with colleagues and superiors, and seek their help and cooperation.
3.Make a plan: I will make a detailed schedule of work and care for the elderly to ensure that both work and care for the elderly receive adequate attention and time.
I will arrange my work reasonably and handle it during working hours as much as possible to free up time in the evenings and weekends to take care of the elderly.
4.Ensuring balance: I try my best to find a balance between work and caring for the elderly, ensuring that both are satisfied. If the work requires me to have to complete a certain period of time, I will plan in advance to care for the elderly and make sure that I have enough time to take care of the elderly.
5.Maintain communication: I will keep in communication with family, friends, and colleagues to keep them informed about my situation and seek their support and understanding.
I will also maintain communication with the elderly and medical staff to understand the needs and health status of the elderly to better adjust my work and care plan.
Overall, I will put the health and needs of the elderly first, while trying to balance the needs of work and caring for the elderly, seeking support and understanding to ensure that the elderly are adequately cared for and can also handle the work well.
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It depends on the importance of your work and your income. If there is a lot to lose if you leave your company, then the company will also help you solve the problem. If the income is not high, and there are not even many people who hire caregivers, then it is better to stay and take care of them yourself!
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If I were faced with such a conflict, I would have thought of whether I could hire someone to take care of the elderly full-time, and then I would have to go to the hospital while I went to work. Either they have escaped the responsibility of taking care of the elderly, or they are so hard to find a job now, and if they give up their jobs, it will be difficult to maintain the expenses of the family. Being sick and hospitalized is a big expense, and if I lose my job again, it will be really difficult.
It is best to hire a caregiver, it doesn't matter how much money you have, as long as you are professional enough to take care of the elderly.
This problem is really realistic, the work is maintained by myself after so many years of hard work, the old man has the grace of nurturing himself, and it is impossible for both sides to be complete. Most people's choice should be to take the elderly to the city where they work, preferably near their workplace, so that they can see the elderly every day and spend more time with the elderly. Hire a nurse in the hospital who has a good reputation.
At least I go to work during the day, and I will come to accompany the elderly at night. If the old man in the family is sick, and I only take the money but no one is there, my heart will be condemned.
When the condition of the elderly is really serious, I have to accompany the elderly even if I lose my job, and it is the responsibility of the juniors to take care of the elderly. If the elderly are not well cared for and delay their illness, it is really worth the loss. My heart will be spent in self-blame for the rest of my life.
A couple in our village broke their necks and thighs. Then the son quit his job with a monthly salary of nearly 10,000 yuan, and then served the elderly at home for more than a year before returning to the previous city to work. I have always felt that such children are good, at least the parents did not support them in vain.
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I will choose to work, but I will not delay taking care of the elderly, it is definitely unrealistic to take care of the elderly by myself, first of all, the family's income is less than half, and I can't take care of work and care at the same time.
So I'll ask for a nurse at the hospital. Or a relative to help take care of it. If I were an old man, I wouldn't want to miss my child's work.
There is a lot of pressure in society right now. Finding a job is not easy. A skilled job should not be given up.
It is not easy to be in charge of the family at the age of the old and the young. The elders will surely understand. It's good to spend as much time as possible with the bed, such as weekends, such as no overtime hours.
Be more concerned during the illness of the elderly. Get less sleep. Work hard.
Persistence is over.
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