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It's better to marry well than to do well.
It's better to marry well than to do a good job, at first glance it sounds like a slogan, but when you think about it, it's really a portrayal of reality. There is no need to do any research, and there is no need to do any research, look at the familiar friends and colleagues around me, and have to sigh: It's so good, it's better to marry well.
It's better to marry well than to do a good job" actually contains a strong sense of helplessness. Although the slogan of equality between men and women has been shouted for so many years, in fact, under the influence of some traditional concepts, it is very difficult for women to "do a good job", not only have to pay more hardships than men, but also bear greater pressure than men.
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It's better to mix well than to marry well.
In fact, this is a very naïve idea, there is no shortage of women with good conditions around a man who is excellent in appearance and career, when you are inferior to others, why would a man choose you as his wife? On the contrary, those women who have successful careers are often more favored by men.
A man's taste is also reflected in the way he looks at women, and a man with taste must have his own requirements for the choice of a future partner. "Marrying well" is not so easy, and those who really marry well are women who mix well.
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It's better to marry well, the previous sentence is to do well in the exam, do well in the exam, it is better to marry well, the college entrance examination is a turning point in life, but you have to find a job after graduation, and it is more important for girls to find a good husband than a good job, which is the opinion of many people.
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The previous sentence is to read well, and the next sentence is not as good as marrying. However, this proverb in the old society has long been unsuitable for the humanities of this era, and you still remember that my life is up to me, and this proverb will be of greater help to you.
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It's better to marry well than to do well.
That is to say, a person who works hard is not as good as the life of a rich wife.
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Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.
This sentence is actually a product of masculinism. Men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, which means that the most important thing in a man's life is his career, and once he enters the wrong industry, this life will be over, and there is no hope. And women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, and men are afraid of entering the wrong line, which means that the biggest thing in a woman's life is to marry a man, marrying a man is a woman's lifelong career, and women have to rely on men for a lifetime.
In this way, the juxtaposition reveals the patriarchal social idea of women as subordinates.
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It's better to marry if you do a good job.
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It is better to be born than to marry.
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This sentence is that it is better to marry well than to do well, and I am really helping you look forward to it
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There is a belief in society that a woman is better at doing a job than marrying well. I don't agree with that. Let me talk about why.
In fact, whether a woman wants to do a good job or marry well, the ultimate goal is to pursue happiness. Everyone instinctively pursues happiness, and there's nothing wrong with that.
So what does it mean to "well done"? Generally speaking, a person has a high income, a high social status, is engaged in a job that he likes, and is very happy, energetic, and promising, which should be called "doing well".
In today's society, competition in all walks of life is extremely fierce. It's not easy for everyone to find a job, let alone find a satisfying job and make achievements in the work. Therefore, it is not easy to "do well", especially for women.
So next, let's talk about what it means to "marry well"? Generally speaking, a woman marries a woman with good character and a certain economic foundation.
looks good, the key is a man who is very good to this woman, then it should be called "marrying well". In fact, there are not many men who meet these conditions at the same time, and the key is that all women want to marry such a man, so this kind of man is really "sought-after", you finally met such a man, you like him very much, but the other party may not like you. Therefore, it is really difficult for a woman to "marry well".
Why are there so many leftover women? In fact, most of these leftover women are very good, they just want to marry well, but they have never met the man they want, so they will become leftover women.
Through my analysis above, everyone should be clear that it is not an easy task for a woman, whether it is "doing well" or "marrying well". Relatively speaking, it is more difficult to marry well than to do well, because marrying well also has an element of luck.
For "well done", as long as you work very hard, you will eventually make a little achievement. But if you want to "marry well", you can't just work your own.
At the same time, I don't think there is a contradiction between doing well and marrying well. While you are doing a good job, you may meet a man who is particularly good and suitable for you. You know you through your work, that man, who especially appreciates your talent for work.
It should be more solid to establish an emotional foundation in this situation, and if you marry this man, then you will achieve it at the same time, "well done and well married".
In the case that you can't achieve "doing well and marrying well" at the same time, I advise you to try to "do a good job" through your own efforts. If one day you do "marry well" again, then your life is the icing on the cake, and even if you can't, your life will not be too bad.
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Disagree, women should be self-reliant, do not rely on men to eat, women's liberation is not an empty slogan, women to achieve economic independence will reflect their own value.
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I don't agree with the idea that it's better to do a good job than to get married. After all, if you marry well, your status in the family is not particularly high, and you rely on yourself to do a good job. You will be very confident.
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Of course I don't agree, I think if a person wants to get ahead, he can't rely on men, he can only fight for the life you want through his own efforts.
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It's better to marry well, and the previous sentence is to give birth well.
As the saying goes: "If you are born well, it is better to marry well", and it is the dream of all women to be able to marry a wishful husband. A person who gives birth to a good kernel potato only satisfies the material needs of the person in the process of growing up, and after getting married, it is another living environment that needs to rely on the struggle of both husband and wife, even if the parents can help, it is not a long-term solution, and a woman who marries well can be carefree and happy for the rest of her life.
Therefore, women must keep their eyes open when choosing their partners.
The criteria for a good marriage are these:
Have a good mother-in-law. Marrying a man is not just about being with him, facing a large family, you need to integrate into his whole family, only your husband is good to you, you also need to have a good mother-in-law.
Have the right to make your own choice. Many girls who marry rich people actually have no autonomy, they have no weight in talking at home, and they dare not call their friends to come to the house party, because that family is not her alone, and she doesn't count it. Most things can't be done by themselves, and there is even a feeling that people have to bow their heads under the eaves, <>
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Presumably everyone knows very well that wanting to become popular in the entertainment industry is related to various factors, in addition to having good looks and strength, the more important thing is resources. Many actors who have developed mediocre in the entertainment circle have become popular because they have received a good film and television work, so in the entertainment circle, resources play a vital role in the development of an actor. However, the competition in the entertainment circle is huge, and all artists want to get good resources, but resources are limited, and not all artists can get their wishes.
And the actress I'm going to talk about today, she is a very lucky person, because she got married, she has helped her development in the entertainment circle a lot, and even sang all the way forward. This one actress isZhang Moxi, maybe some netizens will say that they don't know this actress, indeed, currentlyZhang MoxiAlthough it has developed well in the entertainment circle, it is not to the point where everyone knows it. But there are two old drama bones around her who are very well known to most people, and they are stars with both strength and fame, that isZhang FengyiwithLu Liping
So what kind of relationship do Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping have with Zhang Moxi? In fact, these two actors, one is her father-in-law and the other is her mother-in-law.
Although Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping are already divorced, this does not prevent them from having a common sonZhang Boyuand for Zhang Boyu's wife Zhang Moxi, that is, their daughter-in-law, they naturally love the house and Wu.
Therefore, after Zhang Moxi married Zhang Boyu, her father-in-law Zhang Fengyi and mother-in-law Lu Liping naturally gave her a lot of help, and used their influence and connections in the entertainment industry to help her win a lot of resources, no wonder everyone saidIt's better to marry well than to do well.
Of course, in addition to the help of her parents-in-law, Zhang Moxi herself is also a hard-working actor, originally she studied directing at ** Drama Academy before entering the entertainment circle, although she did not become a director after graduation, but the actor and the director are actually interconnected, so in terms of acting skills, Zhang Moxi is also remarkable.
Before getting married, Zhang Moxi had already participated in many works, and some of the roles he created were also eye-catching, like beforeZhu YawenCollaborative shooting"Predator Brothers"., the acting skills are quite appreciated.
Although the acting skills are really good, because the previous roles were not heavy, the original development was not particularly ideal, and it can only be regarded as tepid, but after becoming the daughter-in-law of Zhang Fengyi and Lu Liping, the resources she gets now are very different from before.
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Anyway, you have to marry someone, and it's the same for whoever you marry. Beautiful short sentences of love:
1. Some people are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for by others.
2. I don't have time to participate in your past, and I will accompany you to the end in your future.
3. Enter my lovesick door, know that I am lovesick, long-term lovesick and long-term memory, and short-term lovesickness is infinite.
Love Analysis. Love is based on mutual understanding and mutual trust, for girls, there is no one who knows themselves better than girlfriends, especially male girlfriends, it is easy to fall in love for a long time, theoretically, the possibility of transforming into boyfriend and girlfriend is there. However, in real life, the results are often different due to different people and events.
For example, love is a matter of two people, if both of them are in love with each other and have the willingness to combine with each other, then naturally there is no need to say anything, but if one party is too familiar with the two people and has no feeling or willingness to be in love, this situation is not impossible, so it still varies from person to person.
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Girls must work well and marry well! Nowadays, men are more realistic than girls, and the first thing to find a wife is to have a full-time and stable job, and then even if it is Zhu Bajie, you have to find a beauty! They also dream of finding a good wife and mother-type woman who can go to the hall and enter the kitchen.
It's just that they don't like the big straw bales of the vase, men are very flowery, and the red face will be old, and there will always be younger than you! It is difficult for a girl who wants to rely on a man for a lifetime to get a man's sincerity, and the divorce rate is high! Therefore, we must improve our self-cultivation, continue to learn and enrich ourselves, so that they can always find a different you, increase their charm, and let you always be the treasure in the palm of his hand.
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Don't rely on others Girls should work their own to make life better.
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As the saying goes, men are afraid of entering the wrong line, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, many people think that girls are not as good as marrying, marrying a wishful husband can change their fate, let themselves fly on the branches and become a phoenix, in response to such a statement, I think it has a certain feudal color, and it is also very backward, which is an incorrect concept, and the reasons are as follows. <>
1. Incapable girls, even if they marry well, cannot maintain their happiness.
For example, many people want to marry into a wealthy family, but is it so easy to get into a wealthy family? Is it that simple to be the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family? Life is not an idol drama, and the real wealthy family is not so easy to enter, even if there are many things that need to be done when you enter, you can't protect your marriage if you don't have the ability, just like those beauties in the entertainment industry who live well after joining the wealthy family.
Second, a woman's value is reflected in her own career, not in her other half's family.
It is very comfortable to be a rich wife, but it is true happiness to have your own career, to be able to truly control your own life, to achieve independence and freedom, if you want to get more wealth because you marry well, then you are also more restricted when exercising these wealth, but if it is the money you work hard for, you can use it at will. <>
3. Door-to-door pairs have existed since ancient times.
Although it is said to be a modern society, but it is also important to pay attention to the right family, if you are the daughter of a small family, then it is difficult for you to enter the upper class, so it is better to marry well than to marry well, there are many contradictions in itself, if you are born in a particularly poor family, then you basically have no chance to achieve the so-called good marriage.
All in all, as a woman, you should not pin your future on others, let alone regard the next rich person as your own life, and you should change your destiny and realize your dreams through your own efforts.
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