How can I make good friends in college, and how can I make good friends in college?

Communicate sincerely and have your own principles. Don't be in a hurry, a good friendship takes time, especially at the beginning, strangers often give you two impressions when you first meet, one is that this person is not suitable for making true friends, and the other is that this person is good, and you want to make friends with him sincerely.

On the contrary, those you didn't pay attention to at the beginning have become your good friends, so you must not rush to make friends, and you will see people over time.

Having said this, it is not to make you friends or play tricks, but to tell you not to rush. Also, friendship is a natural thing, don't deliberately take it as a problem, everyone has their own friends, and everyone can't be good friends with everyone else.

In addition, find one or two clubs you like and participate in more club activities, which can increase your ability and make a lot of friends. University life is rich and colorful, cherish it and work hard.

Be brave enough to do what you love and be yourself, and you will slowly find like-minded friends with you.

Sometimes, we are lucky enough to find people who share our interests at the beginning and then do things that we share our interests with. For example, at the beginning of college, the roommates in the dormitory happened to be very good-tempered friends. But sometimes, we have to be brave enough to do what we like to do alone, and make friends who want to do things in the process.

Making friends depends on fate, not in a hurry.

Remember, don't look for friends for the sake of finding them. Otherwise, we may give up our hobbies in order to please others, so that no matter how many "friends" you have, you will not be happy.

College is a relatively relaxed environment that has the potential to be the most memorable and wonderful time of your life. During this period, you have a large amount of time that you can arrange by yourself, you must take advantage of it, you must not waste it, you must not always stay in the dormitory, and you must do more meaningful things.

Maybe you've heard people say before you go to college that the friends you made in high school are the real friends, and it's hard for others to give you sincerity in college, but is that really the case? As a college student, I usually get along well with everyone, and now I would like to share my understanding and some experiences with my friends in college.

1. Get to know your classmates well

After entering the school, the first thing new students get to know is their roommates. The freshman housemate was genuine. They have come to a strange city with each other, and they know how to cherish each other the most. Although everyone's values are different, it does not affect everyone's hearts to be close to each other.

Therefore, even if the conditions of the dormitory are poor, do not move out. In the early days of university, everyone basically traveled in the dormitory, inseparable and helped each other. At this time, we all treat each other with all our hearts. A few months of getting along is enough to make people who are close to each other attract.

Second, on tolerance

When I was in high school, everyone was asked to do one thing every day – to study. Everyone spends most of their time in class, most of their energy is studying, and there are not many opportunities to live and cooperate with others, so the contradictions are often not so obvious when getting along with others. If you want to make good friends in collegeThen it is necessary to be tolerant of othersTarget.

University is a place that advocates freedom, what you want to do and what you don't want to do is up to you, and everyone's characteristics are magnified, from life habits, to study habits, to the style of dealing with the world. At this time, it is more difficult for you to tolerate the difference between others and you.

3. About the purpose of making friends

Someone once described high school and college as such, high school has a small circle of life and a large circle of friends; In college, the circle of life is large, and the circle of friends is small. In high school, we were classmates and friends.

That's right, we didn't make friends in college with the same purpose as we did in high school. But think about it from another angle, we will have different kinds of friends in college, such as like-minded friends who can hug and cry late at night; Friends who are also interested in fellowship and having fun with each other; There are also friends who work together in an organization and recognize each other's abilities; There are also friends who met at a party dinner and nodded their heads.

Fourth, what if it really doesn't match

If you have been unhappy with your classmates in the early stage, then you don't need to blindly cater to others, being yourself is the best, college may not be able to be fragrant alone, I believe that as long as you are self-disciplined enough, a person will also be very happy, and is destined to be very good.

Talking about my feelings, from the day I went to university, I clearly understood that my college friends must be different from my former classmates, and after about two years, I also began to slowly accept the reality. In fact, this phenomenon is very common in college, I don't know why the feelings in college will be so untested, sometimes I really want to go back to high school, but I can't go back, I have always felt that people living in the world are to have social attributes, this cruel reality is slowly polishing me, and I will accept this society more and more. It's not as good as the dormitory, when I was in high school, the eight people in the dormitory were like a family, and I went to almost every brother's house to play, but what about college?

I dare not imagine. Maybe people will be more selfish when they grow up! This is human nature, and it is understandable.

Maybe it's because of some geographical reasons, maybe it used to be in a small area, and everyone's family was close to each other, and the closer the hearts and minds of people were. Now, my college classmates come from all over the world, and their living habits are different, so it may take time to get used to it! But no matter what, there should not be so many barriers between people!

But during my college years, I really had a few really good friends, and the rest was in vain, and I knew that I myself had been slowly corrupted by this cruel society. But I will protect my friendship with a high profile, and I will treat those "second-class friends" with a tolerant attitude. What I want is for everyone to respect each other, whether it is in the dormitory, in the class, or in daily life, I feel that university is not only about learning professional knowledge, but more importantly, about learning how to behave and how to deal with things.

I'm principled, and once someone or something touches my bottom line, then I think with my temper I definitely won't treat it as if it didn't happen. I've always felt like I'm never bothered by people, bothered by others, and never made people feel uncomfortable because of my presence. For example, many classmates complain about the school, teachers, and classmates in the dormitory, but I always don't say a word.

It's not that you shouldn't say bad things about others behind your back, it's just that I think they are really unnecessary, so let's face the reality! A person's mentality is very important, and I really don't like people who love to complain. There is also a dormitory, although it is a collective, but it is really not a home, and roommates often talk loudly when everyone sleeps and rests, eat, and play games loudly.

You say that he can do it once or twice, but after a long time, everyone will think that you are not social and difficult to socialize. I had no choice but to soak in the computer room all day, go back to the dormitory to wash up and go to the study room, and then go back after the lights went out, even then I didn't complain, I felt that I had learned a lot of things in this time, which belonged to me. Actually, I know that I have become selfish, in fact, everyone has grown up, and the city is deep, and it is reasonable, since we can't be very good friends, then protect each other in this alternative relationship, like getting the respect of others or self-respect.

Universities are like societies, think carefully and be honest with each other.

It's inevitable to make friends, but it's not in a hurry, because it's a need to get along slowly, the driver's license is taken in the winter and summer vacations, and at the same time, you have to grade English words every day, and practice a large number of English level 4 or 6 test questions, and strive to be able to pass the English level 4 or 6 quickly and perfectly. The most important thing is the study of various subjects, you must preview well before class, you must listen carefully in class, you must review well after class, you must ask the teacher in time if you don't understand, and you must do your best not to let yourself fail the course, you can't guarantee that every course is excellent, but you must not fail the subject. Because once you fail the course, it involves a make-up examination, and if you fail the make-up examination, you have to retake this course, which will be a waste of time, and sometimes it will affect the study of other subjects, so you must do your best to make yourself not fail the course.

After having elective courses, if you have time and energy, you can strive to learn your elective courses well, learn well, you can strive for the elective courses to also take a qualification certificate, you can also take the time to take a teacher qualification certificate, you may use it in the future, of course, there are certain benefits to have more certificates.

In the class, you can also run for the class committee, exercise your ability, participate in various school activities, various organizations of clubs, so as to improve your ability to interact with others, which is conducive to future interpersonal relationships, and may even help you find a better and better job.

There are many ways to make friends in college, so let me share a few of them.

One. College roommates. The closest friends during college are roommates, who spend the longest time with each other and see each other a lot, so the friendship with roommates is the best.

Two. Participate in club activities. Joining the club can find many friends with similar interests, and if you have a common hobby, you will have the opportunity to become good friends. And by participating in club activities, you can meet many friends in various neighborhoods.

Three. Classmate. Students of the same major also spend more time together, and they can also go to class together, which can better communicate their feelings.

Four. Participate in the Student Council. The student union can not only add credits, but also meet the seniors and seniors of the same college, which has many benefits. In addition, through student council activities, you can learn many skills and meet many new classmates and teachers.