Many ancients could not fulfill their filial piety, so why would their parents spend a lot of money

We all know that in ancient times in our country, many people could not fulfill their filial piety during their lifetime, because many people were officials in the imperial court, so they could not fulfill their filial piety for their parents when they were alive, so the way they chose was to build a very good tomb for them after their parents died.

I think this is also a means of filial piety, after all, we all know that it is very difficult to be filial, if you are by your parents' side every day, you may not be able to have both your career and some court politics. Therefore, many ancient people were like us now, for their own careers and their own work, they could not stay by their parents' side and do their filial piety for their parents when they were alive, but in order to make up for their guilt, they would definitely spend a lot of money to build a better grave for their parents after their deaths.

Of course, I don't think this way is a good way, if you can be filial piety to your parents when you are alive, I think it's very good, so we should learn from the lessons of the ancients, and spend more time with our parents when we have time, after all, our parents are getting older day by day, and we don't know when they will leave us, so we must cherish the time with them, and we can't think that the time with our parents is still very long. After all, our parents are getting older and older, and we can't help but accompany our parents and let our parents die alone.

Although building a good grave is also filial piety to parents, but I think if you can be filial piety before death, you may not need so many cumbersome etiquette, as long as you can be good to your parents, you have a clear conscience for your parents, I think if you don't spend a lot of money to build a particularly good tomb for your parents, your parents will definitely not be to you, what opinions we are all particular about, filial piety first. Therefore, no matter how we treat our parents, we must have a filial piety, so that our parents can spend their old age in peace.

The ancients had a saying called "sealing the wife and the shadow". That is, after a person has made a meritorious service, he will let his wife receive a reward, so that his children and grandchildren will receive benefits. They pay special attention to the construction of their parents' graves, and pay special attention to going to their parents' graves to worship and sweep during the New Year's holidays.

When they are alive, they can't do filial piety for their parents, and they spend a lot of money to repair the tombs of their parents after they die, one is to make up for the guilt in their hearts, and the other is to show others that they are very filial.

Many ancients could not fulfill their filial piety, and their parents would spend a lot of money to repair for them after their deaths, because they wanted to make up for the guilt in their hearts and wanted to do their part.

Because this is also a way to fulfill filial piety, they can't be filial piety when they are alive, and if they can be filial piety after death, they will not miss it.