What if marriage hurts like digging out your heart but you can t help yourself?

This is a negative thought, you should boldly put forward your own suggestions, you should have a good plan for your life, other people's practices are just a reference, the focus is on yourself, face life positively, you will find that being a person is also a very pleasant thing, adjust your mood, be brave, some things always have to be lived in this life!! Discuss it with the people around you, if it really doesn't work, postpone or refuse first, it all depends on your own wishes, this is something to think clearly, in short, it's still a sentence: be brave!!

To tell the truth, there are many people who are divorced now, I don't want you to be like this, since you are very painful, why force it, it is not easy in this life, not to mention that now it is the freedom of marriage, you should be brave to pursue your own happiness, are you right?

The second floor makes sense! Your dilemma is that you don't really understand the essence of marriage! I don't know if you don't like him anymore or if you don't want to be so plain for a lifetime!

If it's the former, you'd better do it without thinking about anything else; If it's the latter, you can discuss your career after marriage with him, don't run away in a hurry, divorce, in short, you have to have your own opinions!

Don't get married, your heart has been poached, it's equivalent to the walking dead, what's the point of living.

There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it.

You're going to get through it, I'm sure you're going to get through it.

Because you're a man...

Have you ever seen Hong Kong Taiwan Feicui Terrace?

There's an ad in it, it's classic:

A class of students is about to play ball, and suddenly it rains, A: Point to play Bo Xianli rain, 5 days 5 like me?

B: 5 Wash the shock, it will be a good day to listen to the sun!

Sure enough, the sun is not raining, A: Do you know that it will be a good day today?

B: 5 know the fight, because I hope that tomorrow will be in the future!

He: It turns out that the rain system is not 5 terrible at all, and the life is full of hope for me to create!

The above is in the vernacular (Cantonese).

Mandarin means: One day a group of children were playing football, and suddenly it rained, and A said: Why did it rain when playing football? Don't even the heavens like me?

B said, "It's all right, tomorrow will be fine."

Sure enough, it won't rain tomorrow, and A said, "How do you know it's not raining today?"

B said, "I don't know, because hope is tomorrow!"

He said: It turns out that the rain is not terrible at all, and the life is full of hope and I create it forward!

It's yours in the end, it's yours, it's not yours, what's not going on. It's hard to give up. Forget sooner.

First love, right? I can't forget it for a lifetime, but I can only slowly forget that I live in this kaleidoscopic world over time, with the change of status and environment, people's thoughts will also change, men and women are the same, and it is strange and incredible to remain unchanged.

But to be a man must have a conscience, to be moral, not to see different thoughts, not to be ungrateful, everyone in the matter of feelings, as long as they are worthy of others, but also to their own conscience, even if they find it worse in the future, they will not regret it.

Forget the quick way: find another love, magnify her shortcomings and your heart hurts, enough, if you have ever been sorry for her, give her happiness, if she is sorry for you, you have to give up on her with a hard heart, find someone better than her and anger her.

can't become a husband and wife, strive to be her lifelong lover!

Heartache is short-lived. If you find one, you'll be good right away.

What's yours is yours, forget what isn't yours.

This mood is too bad.

Believe me. You'll be fine the next day. As long as you want.

The man's tears were red because there was blood oozing inside. Don't try to look at a man's tears, because there is a big price to pay for watching a man's tears. Maybe the price is your life's happiness!

Go Drinking Binge!! Drunk until drunk!!

Sympathy!

She will get married next year, and the groom is not me, and I have never been so heartbroken!!

Don't love, don't hate, don't think about it, it's the best way for you right now, if you hate, you will have love, forget her, stranger, don't think about it.

Go find your own happiness! Stop worrying about the past!!

Let go and don't bother her unless you're very persistent and wait for her to come back to you.

Women should learn to be self-reliant, especially the economy should be self-reliant, as you described the situation, you are very helpless, give you two plans for your reference, first.

First, in order not to divorce the child, it is recommended to send the child back to his hometown, and return to the city to continue to work, this is for self-reliance, (for the sake of work, it is best not to let the husband know the residence, so that the husband will learn to cherish your existence) (this seems to be separation, the purpose of separation is to punish the husband for ignoring the existence of your mother and daughter), the most important thing in this program is to give up the children, and secondly (live together), reduce the husband's daily consumption within his ability, Usually only let him carry a small amount of pocket money (if you don't have financial rights, forget it). Clause.

2. Divorce by litigation, divorce without child custody, give the child to the man (maybe his family is patriarchal, so they are governed), you can get rid of the current predicament with the above two plans.

Let's go, for the sake of the children! I am also a mother, my son is now just one year old and eight months old, I can't imagine how a father can do such a thing, he is really not as good as a beast! As a mother, no matter how much you are wronged, you can endure it, but he doesn't care about the child, isn't that a knife cutting your heart? ?

My son won the lottery by accident, and my husband refused to ask for anything at the time, so we had a big argument about it. When I was pregnant, I thought that my husband would definitely not like my son when he was born, but in fact, that kind of family affection that blood is thicker than water is really amazing. My son was disobedient, I asked him to stretch out his little hand and hit him twice, and when I went to work, my husband called me ** and said:

Is it okay not to beat your son in the future? I can't do my job now, and I always see my son's poor little face. Your husband is really alternative and can do it to his own children.

I'm speechless anyway. Do you know why your baby is noisy at night? Do you think she can get a good education in such a family?

My son has been very well-behaved since he was a child, but my colleague's baby is two months younger than my son, and their husband and wife are not in harmony, they quarrel all day long, and their children are troublesome when they are young, and their temper is also very short-tempered. To say something you don't like to hear, my son is now being given what he likes to eat, and he wants it very much, so I will say to him, "No, I just drank milk, and my mother will buy it for you later!" He sensibly said to people, "Grandma, I just finished drinking milk, don't" but he would stare at the food, very reluctant.

I am not giving this example to say that your daughter is not sensible, but I want to say that a harmonious family is the key to the growth of children. My husband is an architectural designer, and he doesn't go to bed until one or two o'clock every night, but he makes milk at night, and when his son wakes up and asks for milk, he immediately gets up to get milk. That time my son had a fever at night, and my husband almost didn't sleep all night, so he repeatedly checked whether his son's fever had subsided, and he closed his son in the hospital early in the morning.

I think it's the nature of parents to love their children, why can't you see it in your husband?

We're all young! Marriage without feelings! Maintain it for another 30 years!

It's scary to think about! The child is pitiful! But is there an afterlife?

Don't be too sorry for yourself for the rest of your life! I won't continue this kind of marriage! Moreover, it is clear that he made a mistake of principle!

And it is not good for a child with such a father to grow up in such an environment! Personal opinion! Reference!

Hey, it hurts my heart to watch. I remember watching a TV series in which there was a couple who were almost exactly like you. Such a man is not worthy of a family at all.

Now that she's getting married, can you change that fact? If you can't, then forget about her, to find your own calm happiness, as for whether to drink her happy wine, if you will be more sad to see, then it's best not to go, just forget her little by little from now on, remember a radish and a pit, you will find your happiness, definitely!!

Go ahead, after all, we have loved each other

However, it's just the last look, remember, remember.

Don't go, her parents are very against you.

Be generous.

This statement is just an excuse for his flowering, two people have been together for a long time, naturally there will not be the same feeling as when they first fell in love, but feelings will be sublimated, from love to family, two people rely on each other together, and experience all kinds of life together.

This kind of man who blindly wants to find the feeling of love is extremely irresponsible and shameful. He'll regret it eventually.

It takes quite a long time to fully understand a person, and people change.

The emotional world of immutable laws does not work.

Demands are changing, desires are growing.

The grip strength and range also need to be changed.

Not to justify men.

Blame yourself first, then accountability.

People change! It was true before marriage, and it is true after marriage! The point is that the heart has changed!

A man is the same before he gets married, and after he gets married, your husband is about the same as my husband

That is, irresponsible men are like this.

Is it worth it to feel sorry for a man who doesn't love you? What's more, he doesn't even have an eye for appreciating you, if you're really sad, don't deliberately ask for any news about him, let him disappear from your world!

Give up what should be given up and cherish what should be cherished.

When it's time to let go, it's an opportunity

It's good to cry, continue to walk after crying, and cherish the people in front of you.

It can only be said that time can heal all wounds, and I advise you to wait until your heart is calm before making other decisions, how many tragedies have happened from this, you must cherish it, as long as you are here, everything is there.

Don't delay yourself any longer, the heartache is only temporary, live better than him, I wish you happiness!

Fool, learn to take your own path in the future, you haven't had anything with him, it's just a crush in middle school, and he doesn't know, he doesn't have you in his heart at all, is it worth it for him like this? Your Prince Charming is waiting for you.

It's true. I didn't know you had a crush on me for 4 years in middle school, and then you didn't hear from you anymore. I've liked other people in college, but I still have a place for you in my heart.

Now that I'm working, I know from my friends that you're still not married. I was excited all night, and I woke up today to want to contact you, but I felt that things are different from people, and good memories are only left in memories.

I haven't been in touch for so many years, it's normal for people to be married even if they're married, what a bolt from the blue, you're a junior, don't you even have this bit of mental preparation? What's more, you're just a crush, and people are not obligated to wait for you.

Providence is hard to disobey, give up, he is actually not suitable for you, God knows, so he arranged for someone else to be by his side. Have fun. God has a better arrangement for you, but now you don't know, because it is a surprise from God, look forward to it slowly, it will come Happy after 100 days, the surprise will come.

Give it up! I believe that the sentence is yours and will always be yours, and it will not be strong if it is not your hardness. It was meant to be.

Prepare well for the exam!

Good luck!

She should feel that you are really not suitable to marry someone else, this kind of thing should not be too impulsive decision, so you should not be too upset!

Since you've lost it, you should learn to accept it, and reinvigorating is what you have to do.

After all, it's been lost, forget about it, or you'll be even more miserable.

It's okay that it hurts, but it's strange that it doesn't hurt.

Crush? Dumped? Where is there no grass at the end of the world?