If you know it s wrong, will you continue to be wrong?

Getting together is a kind of fate, I don't know if you listen to the transition, this is my favorite song. When I am sad, I always remember to sing this song, which makes me insist on cherishing everything I have, even if I will be sad and wronged, and I should cherish the people who care about me. After reading what you wrote, although I am not married, I think that since you have chosen him, you should accept loneliness.

Because you will be lonely with each other when you are separated, but you will be accompanied by thoughts.

I got married, and I didn't have the romance of love. Without the sweetness of being in love, but with family affection, with a home, the other one you meet may just let you return to the feeling when you were in love, think about these you have had, and now I think that cherishing everything you have is the most important thing.

It's really good, listen to it.

Since you can't betray your husband, why don't you pick a day when you and your husband are free! Have a second honeymoon!

If you think about him a lot during this period, you have to carefully consider whether your family is important or you are important!

1.Of course it can be changed! Just keep reminding yourself not to repeat it. When you want to do anything, especially when you hurt others, you should think twice!

2.As for the apology, you should not care about the form, the most important thing is to show a heart that knows what is wrong, and sincerely say *sorry*! Don't be ashamed to say it!

Whether he cares or not, if it's his fault, he should apologize. Dare to do it! And no more guilt

Because sometimes the person concerned may pretend not to care. In any case, I think it's better to apologize than not to apologize, at least we have the heart to admit our mistakes. Of course, don't repeat it if you know it's wrong!

3.In fact, you have done a lot of wrong things in the past, but as long as you know that you are wrong now, you can change it You can work hard to make up for the mistakes you have made in the past Make amends As long as you sincerely repent of your mistakes, people will slowly accept you Be able to understand you and not treat you as a bad person As long as the mistakes you made before are not big mistakes, they are not irreparable You have a chance You can't come If you make a big mistake Hmph want to make up for it and can't make up for it This will be troublesome Now if you know that you are wrong, It shows that you are still a good-hearted person, but what you did wrong in the past can be corrected now.

If you know you're wrong, is there any chance to correct it? It should mean that in a relationship, you broke up with the other party because of your unilateral reasons, but then realized your mistake and wanted to get back to the other party and reconcile, can the other party accept it? ! In fact, when facing this question, I personally think that there is no clear answer, and the main thing depends on the following factors to be able to judge whether you still have a chance to correct:

First of all, if after you break up with the other party, the two of you have never been able to give up this relationship in your hearts, and you are always worried about each other in your hearts, then in this case, since you know that it is your own mistake, as long as you take the initiative to find the other party, sincerely express your apologies to the other party, and promise the other party that you will never make similar mistakes in the future, then the other party is still easy to accept your apology and give you a chance to correct again. The relationship between the two of you is still in the hall, and you will soon be able to get back together.

But on the other hand, if your previous behavior was particularly excessive and has completely broken the other party's heart, and the other party no longer has the slightest nostalgia for the relationship between your pretend factions, then in this case, even if you know your mistakes, take the initiative to find the other party to admit your mistakes, and ask the other party for forgiveness, it is difficult to get the other party to give you the opportunity to correct your mistakes. In this case, what you can do is to adjust your mentality as much as possible, accept the reality and learn a lesson from this experience, so as to avoid making similar mistakes in the future relationship.

Therefore, in the process of getting along with two people, we must learn to do frequent self-reflection, find that there are mistakes in ourselves, and we must correct them in time, and don't wait until the relationship between two people has completely broken down before thinking about begging the other party to give me a chance, because at that time, it is very likely that I can only leave myself with a regret that I can't make up for without orange.

1. Do you really know?

We often regret that we still do things that we know are wrong, so do we really know that they are wrong? Many times our understanding of things only stays in the superficial intuitive feelings, relying on the momentary emotional impulse to make decisions, always in a fit of anger and saying "I must get rid of this bad habit", but never really think deeply, nor do we go to a comprehensive investigation to understand the truth of the facts, always hold the inherent concept and refuse to change, always think that all these wrong triggers are in others, are external reasons, and can not make an objective and comprehensive analysis of ourselves.

Therefore, the first thing we need to do is to be faithful to the facts, adjust our thinking and cognition according to reality, not take emotions as the driving force, dare to admit that many mistakes are caused by ourselves, and do not prevaricate. Of course, you can't put all the responsibility on your own head and let others shirk the responsibility.

2. Spiritual satisfaction.

In many cases, we do something wrong because it brings us spiritual satisfaction the fastest, even if it's just an illusion.

In general, the reason why a thought can make people believe is not that this kind of thought is correct, but because this kind of thought can quickly and maximally satisfy our spiritual needs and get spiritual comfort.

Therefore, even if it is outrageously wrong, as long as it can bring us immediate satisfaction and pleasure, we will continue to do it.

This requires us to be able to postpone satisfaction and reset the order of happiness and pain in life: first face problems and feel pain, then solve problems and enjoy greater happiness, learn to be sweet first and then bitter, have enough self-control, can avoid the evil consequences of coveting temporary comfort, but there are many people who do not understand the truth of sweet first and then bitter, and eventually become losers in life.

Life is like walking a tightrope in the sky, and we need to grasp a balance: we must not only take responsibility, but also reject the responsibility that we should not bear, both to delay the sense of satisfaction, not to seek temporary comfort, and to live the life in front of us as much as possible.

Nowadays, people seem to like to shirk responsibility. Even if you know that you are wrong, you are still pretending to be innocent.

This sentence, perhaps, should be said that not many people, but almost all of them, are shirking their responsibilities.

The matter of shirking responsibility seems to be very common nowadays, and no matter what the reason is, no matter how big or small the problem arises, the person concerned will always say a few words of shirking responsibility.

These two sentences may not have much effect, but he will definitely say them. Because shirking responsibility is itself a weakness of human nature.

It's hard to see a person taking all the blame on themselves, but it's very easy to see that one person is pushing all the problems out.

For example, in the workplace, employees like to shirk responsibility, and leaders also like to shirk responsibility.

There is essentially no difference between the responsibility of employee recommendation and the responsibility of leader recommendation, and they are both unwilling to take responsibility for this move.

They shirk their responsibilities and want to keep a positive image in front of the leader as much as possible, because the effect of doing ten good things is not as good as the negative impact of doing one bad thing.

This involves another human weakness, which is that people habitually think of people in bad terms.

Even if it is true that the primary responsibility is not the party itself, as an outsider, the party will definitely be regarded as the main bearer.

This two-pronged reinforcement will force everyone to push out the problem as soon as they have a problem, and try to reduce the weight of their own responsibility.

This kind of problem may not be there in ordinary times, after all, some problems that usually occur, if they are really big, they can't be avoided, but if the problem is very small, it doesn't matter if they don't recommend responsibility, but often in the workplace, these are very fatal.

Because when one or two people begin to amplify this behavior infinitely, he will imperceptibly affect all employees.

When all employees only know how to shirk responsibility, but do not take responsibility, the problem faced by the company is not a small problem.

Especially when the leader likes to shirk responsibility, then the atmosphere of the whole enterprise will be destroyed.

Because employees are acting in the eyes of the leader, since the leader habitually shirks responsibility, then employees will take the initiative to push out the responsibility in order to avoid being recommended by the leader.

In life, there are many things, knowing that it is wrong to do it, and still doing it, just like a little compulsion, you have to do it, and when you finish it, you may regret it.

As the saying goes, impulse is the devil, it is really good, impulse at the moment can bring infinite troubles, and it may be too late to regret some things. For example, like smoking and drinking, eating something you shouldn't eat, like smoking and drinking, it's not completely forbidden to smoke and drink, as the saying goes, what kind of thing to do on what kind of occasion, to drink when you should suck, and when you shouldn't drink, it's best not to do it, or do less. Like drug abuse, this is completely the road that forces people to death, as long as you get a little bit of it, the consequences are endless, and everyone should know what the consequences are.

Therefore, when doing something, think twice and think more about it, so that it is beneficial and harmless to yourself and others.

In the end, it is still a sentence, think twice before doing things, impulsiveness is the devil.

There are some things that you know are wrong, but you still have to do them, as long as it is because of the vanity of the face problem, because of the fear of being said by others in order to survive, in order to have a good face, so there will be a full variety of situations, knowing that it is wrong, but one of the reasons why you still have to do it.

If you know that you are wrong, you still want to do it, which means that this person is very persistent and a little extreme, that is, his personality is quite stubborn.

Sometimes it's involuntary and you have to do it, even if it's wrong.

Sometimes, even if you know that you are wrong, you have to do it for the sake of saving face.

Misconceptions are deeply rooted.

In such a situation, you are putting yourself at risk, so it is worth being vigilant and should not be like this.

Obsessed or involuntary? Maybe it's the latter. Knowing your mistakes and continuing may be painful, but it is not worth forgiving!

Knowing that there are tigers in the mountains, he prefers to go to the tiger mountains.

It's only wrong to go down and still want to love. So it's a lot like **oh.

You won't know that this world is so beautiful until you drink poison!

Two people are together because they like it, that's not love, and two people who insist on going on because they often quarrel is love.

On the one hand, it shows that you are stupid, and on the other hand, it shows that you are persistent in things.

True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is the ...... to have everythingPlease cherish the time, love well True love is a kind of care and care from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

Trouble, thanks!

Because he is helpless, if he doesn't make a mistake like this, he will hurt many people, and in order for them not to be hurt, he can only make one mistake and make another mistake.

Wish. If it's wrong, it's wrong.

Because of too much love, you can't control yourself, so that you know you're wrong but keep being wrong.

Hello landlord, it depends on something. In fact, when people do anything, if they know that it is wrong, they know that it is wrong and still do it, because they look forward to the day when it will change from wrong to right, or actually you.

Friend, I don't know what you've done wrong, but some mistakes can make you feel guilty. But you have to look at those things that are wrong, and if you break the law, then you can't understand that you are wrong? If it's wrong in love, it may be for love, but it's also worth it. Friend, I will keep an eye on you at all times.

Summary. Some people obviously do not admit their mistakes when they are wrong, so they push their mistakes on others, which is a typical escape from responsibility, this kind of people are particularly conceited, never think that they have mistakes, will not reflect, will not find reasons from themselves, they often blame their mistakes on others, put themselves out of the matter.

Some people obviously do not admit their mistakes when they are wrong, so they push their mistakes on others, which is a typical escape from the responsibility of the heart, this kind of people are particularly conceited, never think that they have mistakes, will not reflect, will not find reasons from their own body transformation, they will often blame their mistakes on others, and put their own guesses out of the matter. Nuclear key guessing.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Although some men have made mistakes, but, what is a big mistake is not a big mistake, for the sake of face, I feel that admitting my mistake proves that he has failed and can be without a shed, in this case, don't force him to admit it, give him some face, and he will definitely be grateful to you in the heart and infiltration.