-
Hey, give up, as a boy, advise you good girl. There is no feeling in a few minutes of meeting to be sure. And whether there is any possibility of development, it will take a month at most, especially in universities.
It feels like you're in a similar situation to me, I had a girlfriend in high school, but we broke up. Later, she went to college and I repeated.
When I repeated, there was a girl in the class who liked me, but I never forgot her, so I rejected all hints and kindness, and even treated the girl who liked me very badly.
Later, when it was time to graduate, she still chose to confess to me because she said that she might not have a chance in the future (we have a lot of grades different, and she can't go to the same university as me). But because I really didn't feel anything about her, I refused.
When I got to university, she applied to the same city as me and often found topics to talk about. Although I am still single, I have spent three years on Singles' Day. But it's still just a superficial deal with her, at most it's a good friend.
I said all this because I wanted to say these things to her, hey, forget it.
In fact, happiness is all around you, but you don't find it.
Hehe,,Happiness is in your own hands.,If you think that persistence will have results.,Don't take a little more time.。。
It's just,,To see through the point,No matter what the result is,Treat it with a normal heart.。。
-
Keep in touch with him yourself, and don't limit your eyes to him alone, the world is so big, and there are countless good boys, I'm afraid I can't find it.
-
Like me, once you fall in love with something, you won't take it lightly! ·
-
Summary. Encourage him: Tell your friend that confession is a brave thing to do, and that you will support him even if the outcome is not what he expects.
Think about the consequences: Think with your friend about what the outcome would be, what are the foreseeable outcomes, and how you can continue to be friends with them without getting the desired outcome. Provide support:
Tell your friend your views and suggestions, and give him encouragement and support in times of need. Learn from failure: Think with your friend about what else he can learn and benefit from this experience even if he is rejected.
What to do if the unrequited love confession is rejected + regrets the confession.
Hello, I am Xiao Xiao, a teacher of emotional counseling, and I am good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychological friendship and other aspects of laughter. The teacher feels that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient, tell me about your situation in detail.
My friend has a guy who is very fond of her, but she's always been unrequited.
Recently, there is a popular saying, "I'm sorry, I just got on the ghost".
She's struggling right now, and she doesn't know what to do.
The confession was rejected, so to speak.
But she didn't dare to confess, he was afraid of regretting.
Wasn't it rejected?
He hasn't confessed yet.
Confession rejection can be a one-time thing, or it's a fear of rejection, right?
Encourage him: Tell your friend that confession is a brave thing to do, and that you will support him even if the outcome is not what the person he was trying to do. Think about the consequences:
Think about what the outcome will be with your friends, what are the predictable outcomes, and how to continue to be friends with the other person without getting the desired results. Provide support: Tell your friend about your views and suggestions, and give him encouragement and support in times of need.
Learn from failure: Think with your friend about what else he can learn and benefit from this experience even if he is rejected.
It's like this, he doesn't want to like it anymore, but he can't let go of him, he wants to confess, and he is afraid that he won't even be able to be a friend after being rejected.
Then be friends, good friends.
Unwillingly, that person didn't like her, but he couldn't let her go.
If you don't want to like it and are afraid of being rejected for your confession, the best way is to be friends.
-
Hello, confession is not responded, there are two possibilities, it may be a rejection, it may not be a rejection.
1. It may be a rejection.
Some people may not know how to refuse by nature, and they are worried that rejecting others will hurt people, so even if they refuse in their hearts, they will not say it on the surface. Some people are accustomed to rejecting others in a silent way, because they feel that rejecting others directly will make the other party feel faceless, which is not good, so they do not reply to express their refusal and save some face for the other party.
2. Probably not a rejection.
Some people may not know how to express themselves, or they are not good at communicating with others, they are worried about saying the wrong thing, or they don't know how to reply to a sudden confession, just like when facing an exam, their brain suddenly goes blank. If this is the case and the other party did not reply at the time, it is better to wait a few days and then try to confess for a second time, or buy a bouquet of flowers to express your heart again.
Second, the possibility of confession not being replied:
1. The confession is too sudden.
If two people have maintained a good friend relationship for a long time, or a relatively stable relationship, it is not the feeling of boyfriend and girlfriend. If one day suddenly, you confess to the other party without warning, it will be very embarrassing.
Regardless of whether the other party also has a crush on you, such a confession will change the relationship between the two, so it is very sudden. And if the other party is not in the relationship between a man and a woman, and wants to maintain the relationship of good friends now, it will be a little difficult for a while.
2. Confession is informal.
Some people are organized and well-behaved about people and things, so the same is true in terms of feelings, once they identify the other party, they will not change. And if a person just says that he confesses that he likes you on WeChat, it will make him feel very casual, he must not be serious, maybe he is joking, or he just wants to deal with the object instead of investing more emotions in love, then usually such confessions are rejected.
For confession, at least say it to your face.
Conclusion: Confession and non-reply may or may not be a refusal, maybe the first confession is not formal enough, maybe the first confession is too sudden, why not find a suitable time and place, buy a bouquet of flowers, and confess the second time? There may be a chance, I wish the confession success.
Invite him to a dark place and say, "You are one of mine in a million" and hold him.
Ask him about his true emotions in his heart, and if he really doesn't like you, then forget it.
Ask yourself: 1 Is she so good that she deserves your continued crush? 2. If it does not affect your normal life, you can continue. >>>More
As the so-called sincerity, the golden stone is open! If you give up like this, maybe at some point, you will regret that you easily gave up on someone you care about! Hold on a little longer, maybe things will get better! >>>More
Fate, haha, do you know fate? Your grief can be resolved by fate, but it is ushered in by more sad thoughts. Those who have a shallow understanding of fate will lose their future, and those who have a deep understanding of it will be indifferent to everything. >>>More