My boyfriend has an older brother who is eight years older than him, and the family conditions are a

Everyone wants a comfortable life. There's no shame in creating your own. In fact, no matter what the older generation thinks, the person you want to spend your life with is the person you love.

The car is nothing more than a substitute for transportation. Housing, to be honest, is really not good without a house. I think you have to communicate with your boyfriend in the first place, and blindly self-consciously thinking will only amplify negative thoughts.

There are examples of this in my own life, but there are also children this year. Complaining is complaining, but this is the so-called happiness. The goal of working together can make the relationship stronger.

Imagine if someone else would love you so much? Will he love you for the rest of his life? As the saying goes, when a man is rich, he becomes bad, and when a woman is bad, he is rich.

In life, what we envy is that the little couple hitches a bicycle and laughs happily. Instead of envying the beautiful men and women in those fragrant cars. In fact, although the comfortable life is your own, how long can you be comfortable?

There is more money than the heart, but the heart is greater than the money. In your heart, you still care about your boyfriend, don't be carried away by negativity. Look before you leap.

Don't do anything you'll regret.

This is a practical problem, depending on your relationship with him, I think Chinese generally attach too much importance to material conditions, marriage two people struggle very well, boys must have potential.

Since you are so painful, then leave, if you really love each other, even if there are difficulties, you will be willing to bear it with each other, how can there be so many smooth winds and rains in your life, what is called bitter and what is called sweet, to experience it with your heart, it is so painful before you are married, but don't wait until you end it and regret it, you have some vanity, no one wants to suffer, his mother thinks this way because she has been living a hard life, if you love him and his family, you should feel sorry for them, Even if you suffer a little hard, you are willing to work hard to change the status quo, two people work together to make money, life will improve, this kind of thing, is cold and warm self-knowledge, you are so painful to ask, I advise you to find a concierge as soon as possible to find the right home, remember to go simply, don't hurt their hearts.

It's not easy to meet a person who loves yourself in your life, your parents love you and you should give yourself yourself, illness is not to raise you and you have everything, it's not like this, love your child to give her freedom, leave the sadness to yourself, the child will feel guilty if he is sensible, he will take care of his parents, he doesn't care how far away he is, as long as he has parents psychologically, I don't think it's meaningful to be filial to be around every day.

You sincerely express your intentions, and you have to keep in mind the years of nurturing kindness. It's not that adoptive mothers can trample on their feelings casually. People are emotional, and if you were your biological mother, you might not be able to live now. Be grateful.

I hope you keep your love, and thank your parents for their years of nurturing grace. That's all a person's life, it's all wealth.

I really hope you have a happy life.

Before you got married, every boyfriend was good to you, and after getting married, they have changed greatly, just like you said, your boyfriend is unmarried and pregnant with two children, so why did his former girlfriend leave, you can't listen to him unilaterally, he is now in order to make you happy, and besides, don't worry about getting married, you can't hide the bad look after a long time, are you willing to be a stepmother? Would you rather watch him and other people's children every day? Girl, how old are you?

Before getting married, every man will be very good to you and work hard, but after getting married, it will be very different, have you ever wondered why his ex-girlfriend can leave behind his two children? And he's so poor, what else can he do but be nice to you?

I am also against my parents, and I had no choice but to break up yesterday.

If you are not afraid of a man without money, you are afraid that a man will not be angry.

This eighty percent is only temporary. When you really marry him, the cruel reality is merciless.

What a man, worthy of your love.

Maybe he finds it enjoyable to watch you! That's a kind of love too

The business of two people is a lifetime, think clearly.

That's not suitable, just separate early.

Which one do you want bread or flowers?

When parents are looking for a partner for their daughter, they want to find a boy with good family conditions and good character.

So, the parents' approach is understandable.

It mainly depends on the parties, if you have thought about it, you just like him, then other people's opinions are secondary.

If you don't have a lot of income, you can also work together. If you have a stable income, you will not be able to live a bad life in the future.

What does it mean to live in a good three-story house without living on one floor?

Are you living on the first floor now?

You want to build four floors on top of that, right?

After getting the certificate, let him get your person.

There's a good chance that they just want to play with you.

This kind of person has intentions, but don't hand it over yourself. If you hand it over early, he won't cherish it, and he thinks it's okay for you to play like the girls who play outside.

It's better to tell you the answer, so as not to be a tragedy.

No one can say anything bad about this kind of thing.,Feelings.,Personally.,If you think it's compatible, you can see it everywhere.,If you don't get along, no one knows who's like.。

What kind of people believe it, please stay away from it, be careful with words, hurt a lifetime, no regrets, take medicine.

The point is whether you like it or not, and is he kind and upright?

This person is unrelatable, and does not know how to respect others.

Girl, judging from the story you told, you are very kind, and most of the time you look at the good side of others and review the bad side of yourself. You are a good girl, don't have any burden, you deserve to be cherished by all boys, and now this social atmosphere that pays attention to asking for a house and a car with a man, you don't know how rare you are.

From the words that your boyfriend blurted out in a quarrel, coupled with his parents' previous performance, his parents are more difficult to get along with, from his son's point of view, maybe yes, it is completely for the sake of his son's future life, but it is too utilitarian. If you live with them, you will have a hard time. Before getting married, my in-laws began to dislike this and that, so I can imagine what will happen in the future.

And your boyfriend is not a particularly responsible person in character, he may not be able to maintain you in the future, and you need to take care of him. Do you feel like the family life you aspire to?

When I was in school, my teacher told us that we had to see three generations to find a boyfriend. Although the argument is relatively old, it is very pertinent. The attitude of your in-laws is directly related to your married life, so be sure to find a harmonious and tolerant family.

And you are a single parent, so you should be relatively insecure in your bones, you should find a responsible boy, and you will be happy to be able to share the ups and downs of the future with you. You can't marry yourself off in a hurry just because you want the warmth of your family.

Hope you are happy!

There is such a pair of old enemies, girl, I am really sorry for you. Everyone will think about saying that the girl suffers with the boy, afraid that the boy will not give her happiness or something, like this kind of old man who is embarrassed to make a man climb the dragon and the phoenix and dislike the woman's family background and love the rich is really ridiculous. Are they poor and afraid, or do they think that their sons have no interest and can only eat soft rice?

Think about it yourself, if the man's family has always held this attitude, I'm afraid you won't have a good face when you get married, and you will be aggrieved. His own conditions are good, why worry about not finding a confidant?

Also, now I am thinking about other people's houses and cursing the people who died in my own family, obviously with low morality and quality. It doesn't stick to the edge. It is said that the small people in the market are lifting them!

In fact, your situation in China is not an exception, is a common phenomenon, I also came from this situation, think back then, my family is rural, 2 brothers, my brother got married and bought a house, my brother is an employee of a state-owned enterprise, sister-in-law also has a job, and there are no children, but I just graduated from college, and I didn't happen to have a child, so I had to get married, my wife's family was also very poor, and I couldn't take care of us, we didn't have a house at that time, and our income was low, and I only relied on one to support it, but no matter how hard I survived, Three years have passed now, and although it has been a lot late, I have gained the most important things in my life, a wife who loves me, a lovely son, a well-paid job, and a share that affirms my work. I think it's worth it.

If you believe that your boyfriend can bring you happiness, believe that he can persist for you, believe that he is an uncarved jade, I bless you to be together, if none of the above is true, I advise you to bear the pain and cut your love, after all, your parents are only external factors in your love, and whether you are happy or not is not what they say, and whether you are together is not something they can decide.

So much bitter water, finally spit it out, should be a lot better. It's divided, or still, if the parents don't agree, they will always disagree. Nothing to explain.

He couldn't have convinced his dad to agree. 26 is not a small age. It's better to find a suitable one.

You two have to have a good exchange, you two talk about your opinions!