It s so painful to lose hope in a love marriage

A woman's marriage is equivalent to a second reincarnation, no one can influence your choice, the initiative is in your hands, maybe you have been talking to your first boyfriend for a long time, so you haven't completely forgotten him, forget some of your happy things, in fact, you can control the happy moments with your current boyfriend to recall the unhappy moments with your ex-boyfriend. This makes it easier for you to forget the previous ones as soon as possible, and you are in the past, so there is no need to think about it. It's even more impossible to reconcile.

In fact, it is enough for a woman to find a husband who loves you. As long as the economic foundation is stable, there is nothing to ask for. If you are a very realistic woman, your current boyfriend will definitely not be able to meet your needs.

After getting married, women have the heart to compare.

I think you're an assertive person, you're doing the right thing, and you're thoughtful. Although the lover of the first love is unforgettable, it is not necessarily the best person, and there is no need to be nostalgic for him. Everyone has advantages and disadvantages, some people are only suitable for being lovers, not for husbands, you also understand, but the relationship is a little bit unbearable, which takes time.

Excellent men will attract bees and butterflies, and I believe that your current boyfriend is the most real.

Guo Jing and Yang Kang, who do you like, everyone has the answer, don't be Mu Nianciyou.

Haha, just kidding you. Hopefully you'll want to open some.

I think. You don't deserve to love such a person, after all, he is too stingy. If I were you, I wouldn't be able to stand it.

How can there be a man who doesn't spend money, and every time I go out with my boyfriend, every time he spends money generously, although we don't go for money, but at least it looks like this man is worthy of your love. Later, I slowly learned to save him money, and when we were in love for 100 days, I still remember that I didn't ask him to buy me anything, but just asked him to take me to the place where we first met, and to reminisce together to love you bit by bit.

Hope the answer is satisfactory.

Forget about your ex-boyfriend, a selfish man who personally doesn't think it's right for you and not suitable for marriage.

The current boyfriend is actually very good, let's look at his advantages more, at least you won't suffer if you marry him.

If it really gets to the point of disgust, it is recommended that you calm down for a while, and consider whether he is suitable for you and whether you can accept living with him for a lifetime.

Don't think about anything first, and tell your current boyfriend that you want to be quiet alone for a while. Calm down and have a good rest, especially when you are quiet, you still know what you want most.

Personally, I don't think your ex-boyfriend will give you happiness, and your current boyfriend needs to be verified. I believe that there will be someone who is suitable for a girl like you, especially a girl who will protect herself, it is easier to get happiness, it is your will always come, don't be discouraged, be hopeful about life, come on

Neither you will get the happiness you want if you marry them. (especially your ex-boyfriend) because of your own problems.

Love and marriage are like the relationship between loyalty and filial piety.

I want to open up a little and smile calmly. What will pass.

I wish you all the best to find your happiness soon.

You should treat love and marriage differently, everything should be carefully considered!

Hope is the spiritual pillar of a person, and a life without hope is like a painting without color, a delicacy without salt, no matter how delicate it is, it is tasteless. How can a woman who has no hope of marriage be happy? Disappointment in your marriage is mostly disappointment with your partner, but your partner's reaction to you is also based on your own performance.

Improve yourself in all aspects.

Now is the era of free love, most marriages are decided by themselves, two people who originally had a relationship foundation from love to disappointment, what is the reason for this, it is better to find the reason from yourself first. If you are disappointed in your marriage, focus on reinventing yourself and improving yourself from the outside to the inside. A man is always curious about new things, and your changes will definitely attract him again, his attention is on you, and your relationship may be able to go further.

Find yourself something meaningful to do.

Sometimes you feel hopeless about marriage, and it may be due to boredom with life. And marriage is originally a part of life. Some people are married and raise children at home, and the girl who once dominated the workplace has become a woman who is busy in pots and pans all day long.

It is difficult to get a sense of accomplishment from these repetitive trivial things day after day, and over time you get tired of it. Therefore, finding something meaningful to do not only distracts the daily energy, but also realizes self-worth, and there is hope for life when you are in a good mood. If you don't think you know anything, go for it.

There is no skill to always have a preference, love a line to do a line is the most ideal state. It's never too late to learn.

Speak to him what is in your heart, and listen to his thoughts.

Husband and wife are both one and independent individuals. No one has the ability to read minds, and no matter how close two people are, they won't know your intentions if they don't communicate or express each other. And women are naturally sensitive and thoughtful, sometimes you think he doesn't love you anymore, but in fact it's just because he's in a bad mood or busy lately, and he can't take care of you for a while.

So women don't always guess with a little clue they think they have. It's better to find a free time to talk to him, so that he can understand your distress and understand his true thoughts. The moment you decide to marry him, you give yourself completely to the other person, don't you?

The love in the past does not mean that there is no one, maybe it is just a dull period, as long as the two pay attention to communication, they can pass it smoothly. Sometimes communication is often the most effective way to save a marriage.

There are still a lot of true love in the world, but your own fate has not yet arrived, maybe you can meet the person you love at the next intersection, and your own mentality must be correct, and loving marriage still accounts for big data.

In fact, there is no need for us to give up our true love because of some things, after all, marriage is very important to our lives.

I think you should concentrate on your career and make yourself excellent, so that you can have a good love.

Everyone will have the right to love someone, and this is a person's instinct, it may be that you have encountered too many breakup events, so it will lead to a loss of hope in love, I suggest. You shouldn't be in a relationship anymore at this time, you can go out more to improve yourself, and then spray more excellent people to start falling in love again.

Then don't start a new love for the time being, and then start if you feel that you have love, you can usually watch some loving TV or movies, so that you will be really emotional, and you will naturally love others again.

That's because you haven't met the right person, so you feel hopeless. You should empty yourself, stop thinking about these things, and go with the flow.

Then choose to break up, after all, there is no hope, and being together is also a promise, which is not very good for both parties.

I don't want to continue to fall in love for a while, try to live alone, adjust my mentality, and when I really meet someone I like, I will find that love is very good.

Then work hard and don't fall in love for a while. In this way, you will enrich yourself.

The questions are all painful, love, marriage, and one thing, from the beginning.

That's the reality, let it go