Do you have to be enemies after breaking up?

Updated on healthy 2024-06-25
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No, we once loved each other deeply. Is it interesting to be an enemy ? That man is too ungraceful, isn't it?。。 Points are points, so why bother?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Not necessarily enemies after a breakup, but definitely not friends, maybe just strangers.

    When two people fall in love, when they are in love, they can't wait to become a person, but when they break up, the relationship between the two people is more confusing.

    Some people may hate out of love, and turn two people into enemies。I don't want to see the other party good, even if I hear good news about the other party, I will feel very uncomfortable.

    "If you're well, it's a sunny day, and looking at the weather, you should be hanging. "Perhaps this is the most powerful curse for the breakup lover, all the good news for the other party is bad news for me.

    Some people become strangers after a breakup, and both parties no longer appear in each other's lives。This kind of person has no connection with each other, and the two people have become two parallel lines from then on.

    I'm the kind of person who never saw each other again after breaking up with my first love, and we never got in touch again.

    I don't want to know about the other person, good or bad. I can't treat everything about her with a plain state of mind, as long as I hear from him, my heart will always ripple.

    As it is now, two people do not disturb each other, and do not affect each other's lives. Just let all the beauty and sadness stay in the memories.

    There are also some people who become friends after a breakup, I have a very hard time understanding this kind of person. Obviously in love with each other, obviously hurt, but after breaking up, you can pretend that you don't care about everything about the other party.

    Obviously, when he heard the news of the other party, his mood fluctuated greatly, but he pretended that everything was as usual. Obviously still have fantasies about each other, but they always don't say it.

    In this way, the two people miss everything in love and everything is slowly erased by time, until they can no longer remember each other's appearance.

    After the breakup, the heavens are divided。You go to pursue your happiness, and I go to find my fate. Don't be an enemy after a breakup because you once loved each other, and don't be friends after a breakup because you have hurt before.

    Maybe passers-by are the best ending after the breakup, so that everything will slowly dissipate in time

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.

    Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.

    What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.

    Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not necessarily so, many people become enemies after breaking up, probably because the reason for the breakup is not particularly peaceful, so they have a dislike for each other, and they will fight each other every time they meet, most people who break up peacefully will not become enemies even if they can't be friends, but at least they won't become enemies, so there must be some reasons for becoming enemies after breaking up, not necessarily like this.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, after the breakup, I don't think it must be an enemy, after the breakup, you can be a familiar stranger, two people can forget each other in the rivers and lakes, I think it's good to do this, after all, two people have loved each other, so there is no need to be an enemy, in that case, I think it is possible to make your heart will not have too many contradictions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Couples don't have to be enemies after breaking up, because after all, there were such good years, how could they hum right away? Unless the breakup between you is not because of incompatible personalities, nor because there is a conflict between the two of you, but because there is a betrayal in the middle, in that case, you must be very annoyed, but you don't have to worry too much about this matter, just treat him as a stranger.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It doesn't have to be an enemy, after all, it's not easy for the two to start a relationship, and the two have been through so much together. Personally, I feel that if it weren't for the kind of face-tearing breakup, there would be no need to be an enemy, and it wasn't the kind of breakup because of a matter of principle, and there was no need to be an enemy. When we meet in the future, it's okay to get to know each other, say hello if you want to say hello, and pretend to be a stranger if you don't want to say hello.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not necessarily an enemy, in my case, more like a stranger. If you feel that it is an enemy, there should still be something to let go, maybe because of the breakup, you have not been able to let go, so you have always wanted to take revenge on him at a certain moment, hit him, in order to relieve the hatred in your heart. But when you really let go of this person and have no love or hatred for him, he is actually a stranger to you and can no longer arouse any emotions in you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There can be many kinds of results after two people break up, and the worst thing is that two people become enemies after breaking up, and this kind of enemy brings great harm to each other, because each other knows too much privacy of each other, and sometimes there will be extremes, causing long-term and huge damage to one party. We should avoid this outcome. My favorite outcome was a peaceful breakup.

    It's okay not to interact with each other in the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After breaking up, it doesn't have to be an enemy, no matter what the final result is, that is an experience in your life, I personally think that any experience has a certain truth, and you can't be yourself if you don't have any experience, so it's good to be okay after breaking up, and you also had good memories when you were together, so since everyone said goodbye, then go back to your own track, live your own life, and treat each other as an enemy is actually tired of yourself, It may not be that the other party will remember you, so there is no need at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You don't have to be an enemy after a breakup. First of all, there are various reasons for breaking up, some are because of each other's incompatible personalities and they can't live together. Some are because their parents interfere, but in fact, two people love each other and have to separate.

    Such a person will not necessarily become an enemy. Since you have chosen to break up, you should let go of the right and wrong in your heart, there are many things in love that are not right or wrong, don't worry too much! No matter what, we once loved each other deeply, and for the sake of the beauty in our hearts, don't be like enemies!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    There's no need to say that you have to be enemies, but you really can't be friends. You can be a stranger, I don't want to have any dealings in the future, there is really no need to contact again after a breakup, I always think that those who can be friends take their current and ex to eat together, won't this situation feel very embarrassing.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not necessarily an enemy.,Unless there's an irreconcilable contradiction.,Otherwise, they'll be remembered.,I have this kind of friend around me.,The two broke up.,But it's still not deleted.,It's okay with each other.,Become friends.,But it's not the kind of special good friend.,You can only say a few words to each other.,Anyway, it's generally a remembrance after a breakup.。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Lovers who originally loved each other, in the face of a breakup, may have unavoidable reasons, or have unspeakable reasons and still want to be a pair of friends after the breakup, wouldn't they bring everything in the past back to their lives? Why bother? Of course, I don't approve of breaking up and becoming enemies and enemies, slandering each other, and wanting to kill each other.

    When you see your former lover living happier than you, will you be jealous? When the former lover is excited to bring the new lover to make an introduction, even if you pretend not to care, but the taste in your heart ......

    Why do you bother to find a yellow lotus to chew yourself? If the life of your former lover is not happy, your old love plus compassion will definitely think a lot ......After all, you used to be lovers, and you used to have a good love life, in the letter, in the face of the frustration and confusion of your former lovers, will you lend a helping hand? Will you fall into that emotional vortex again?

    Gautan Mountain. In the end, everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with the old love, what will the new lover think in his heart, the thread is broken? The new love must be dissatisfied, and what is even more terrifying is that in the suspicion and justification, a geometric relationship is generated. Of course, there are some successful socks, but it always sounds like there is a slight embarrassment.

    has never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Looking at your former lover, kissing me and me with others, and rejoicing, you will definitely have a ......Why bother making your own drama for yourself and for them? If you've already broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that borders on friendship?

    It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away, and welcome a new period of life.

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