Is there any way to discourage a child from dropping out of school?

Updated on educate 2024-06-04
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can take them to the airport, high-speed rail station, railway station and bus station to have a look, and those who don't have the ability are only worthy of squeezing the bus.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you can, you can find a factory for your child and let him work for a while. Tell him that you can only do this in the future with this kind of education. Generally, they choose to go back to school, but of course, they still don't want to go to school.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can let your child go to a factory first and try his life as a part-time worker, and if he feels that the part-time job is not easy at all, then his mind will be transferred to studying.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Take him to work in the factory for two months during the summer vacation, don't give him too much pocket money during these two months, don't take care of him, let him live in the factory, and experience what he will have to do for the rest of his life after not going to school, I believe the child will figure out whether he still needs to go to school or not.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you can take this junior high school child to work in a factory that is more difficult and tiring, and you can go and talk to him that if you don't study well, you will have to work in this kind of hard, dirty and tiring factory in the future. I'm sure he'll change his mind and study hard.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Children in the third year of junior high school are in a critical period, should be studying hard, but have the idea of not wanting to go to school, as a parent, must be very anxious, although parents are anxious, but must be calm, remain rational, to understand the reason behind the child does not want to go to school. Teenagers' minds are not mature enough, and they are easily induced by external things and ideas, and then make wrong decisions. Maybe someone in the class dropped out, or heard some information about the "uselessness of going to school", and it is more likely that the child has encountered a bottleneck in his learning and cannot see the hope of going on to higher education, and then has the idea of giving up on himself.

    No matter what the reason, parents should not be in a hurry to get angry in the face of their children's state, accusing or even scolding their children, this kind of excessive reaction will not help the children, but will strengthen the determination of the children not to go to school.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The child is in the third year of junior high school, that is, the child is about to face the test of the high school entrance examination, and the child's psychology has produced serious anxiety and wants to escape, what should I do? We can only rely on parents and teachers to untangle and untie children's knots through wisdom. Learning is a must be recited, but it cannot be carried out in a simple and crude way, let alone a forced way.

    Tell your children that any person will encounter some difficulties and ups and downs in the course of his life, but he must not give in and face them bravely.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Generally speaking, children suddenly propose not to go to school, most likely because the final exam is approaching and the study pressure is high; Some are caused by conflicts with teachers or classmates, parents who understand the reasons should not be impatient, and try to communicate with their children on an equal footing to untie the child's knot. If it is caused by learning pressure, try to do ideological work with the teacher, ask the teacher to give professional advice, and encourage the child to overcome difficulties and move forward bravely; If it is caused by a conflict, it is mainly up to the school and teachers to solve it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Ask him what he plans to do after dropping out of junior high school? Take him to experience the assembly line work in the factory, and you will know how happy it is to sit comfortably in the classroom.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is only 200 days away from the high school entrance examination, and the child suddenly said that he would not go to school, which is indeed a very troublesome thing, in recent years, he has brought several full-time children in the third year of junior high school, with good grades and bad ones, and he has been in contact with them. If you are under a lot of pressure, it is understandable that you occasionally feel bored with school, but it is not very common to say that you are not going to go to school. Therefore, as a parent, you must communicate with the school teacher as soon as possible to understand the reason for the child's emotions, the relationship between the child and the teachers of various subjects, and whether you get along well with your classmates.

    Now that the child has strong self-esteem, do not simply beat and scold the child. If you can't ask your child, you can also find someone that your child trusts to enlighten your child. It's really not good, take a few days off first, after all, the child's physical and mental health is more important than the high school entrance examination.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At least to communicate with the child, to find the reason for not going to school, last week a junior high school girl suddenly said that I don't want to go to school, I communicated with the child and found that it is the recent study pressure, mathematics, physics and chemistry will not be, class can not understand. Then there are ten students living in the dormitory, gossiping or playing games or poker every night, resulting in a late break, and the next day the class is always mixed and heavy, and the class effect is very poor. In addition, a few days ago, a certain aviation secondary school came to the class to publicize to the students, that they could go to school without taking the high school entrance examination, and they could find a job at an airport after they came out.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Parents should have a sincere communication with their children to understand their children's innermost thoughts, and at the same time find out their children's circle of friends and recent ideological trends from teachers and classmates. Find out the direct cause of your child's thoughts, help them solve their problems, and encourage them to set goals that work for them. This job is not easy, parents need to have strong inner support in the process of dealing with this matter, children at this age are really difficult to deal with, and they need to fight wits and courage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Children in the third year of junior high school refuse to go to school, most of them are not confident in their learning prospects, and they can't see hope and give up, I think it is better to let children persist until they graduate from junior high school, and junior high school students have a certain ability to understand themselves and judge their future. It is a common psychology to want to give up because of poor study. In this case, parents must not agree that their children will not go to school.

    Encourage your child to persevere. If you don't go to school, you won't even have a junior high school degree in the future, and your job search will be affected.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Introduction: If parents want to discourage their children from dropping out of school, they should talk to their children.

    There are many children who don't want to go to school, so parents should think about who caused this kind of thinking to their children, whether they put too much pressure on their children and made them not want to continue to go to school. Many children have their own thoughts and ideas when they are young, so parents should consider their children's ideas, and they can't let their children be all directed by themselves, so that children are unwilling to listen. If you see that the child really doesn't want to go to school and the child wants to do something else, you can also educate your child from other aspects, so that the child can obey his own command, let the child know that he is for the good of the child, and many children can also have their own goals in the class, then parents must be happy to see the changes in the child, and must know that the child has grown up.

    If you see someone isolating a child with the whole class, then you need to find the reason to see what kind of problems exist in the child, and make sure that the child gradually integrates into the class and makes a lot of good friends.

    Many children will have psychological problems, then parents should communicate and communicate with their children well, can not let children appear annoyed, if the child has the idea of dropping out, then parents should not let the child really drop out of school, must establish an image for the child, no matter what kind of decision the child makes, parents should not be afraid, must know the child's thoughts, treat the child, educate parents must learn that the school must learn to guide the child, many children have Internet addiction when they are young, Then parents must let their children remember to improve their children's rebellion, so that children will not be bored with school, and do not let children have early love behavior. Many children often do such and such things when they are young, so parents should talk to their children to see what kind of situation their children have, and they must learn to help their children and let them adjust slowly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Family members should actively guide their children, and then they should also let their children realize the importance of learning, let their children develop a good study habit, and usually encourage children to give more attention to children, improve children's self-confidence, and let children slowly fall in love with learning.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents can take their children to see the lives of some people, so that children can realize some of the effects of learning, so that children will dispel this idea.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Follow these few steps:

    1.If you want to talk about staring at your sister, then you must know the real reason why your sister wants to drop out of school at this moment. There are both superficial and deep causes, and if you only understand the appearance and fail to grasp the deep cause, you cannot be effectively convinced.

    For example, my sister wants to drop out of school because she wants to support herself, and this is the reason for the appearance. My sister is at the age of going to school, but she has to do things that don't match her age, and there is a deep reason behind this.

    It needs to be found in order to be able to do a good job of persuasion. Otherwise, even if she agrees with you at the moment, it will be repeated soon.

    It's called: Know what's there, what's nothing, what are the internal and external causes?

    2.If you want to convince your sister, guess Zeyan needs to adjust her sister's emotional state first.

    Without a good emotional state, there will only be a confrontational mentality, and convincing Kesui Yu Neng will fail. How do you adjust your sister's state? Sincerely agree with her opinion and say the benefits of her thoughts.

    Then gently say the deep reason, so that you can adjust your sister's emotions.

    It's called: Push open the door of emotion and pave the way of reason.

    3.Name some of the good things that my sister thinks like this, and then talk about some of the bigger disadvantages. Guide your sister to look at the problem from a different perspective and give her the fullest support.

    It's called: You're not fighting alone, you're with reinforcements.

    Through the above steps, you will be able to convince your sister smoothly.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Take her out to see, Liang Xiaodou went to the prosperous places of the big rubber mill city, went to the poor places in the countryside to see, and told her that no matter boys and girls, the best way for ordinary people can only be through studying the book.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Give her an example, teach her by example, and encourage her a lot.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The heavenly spirit spirit and the earth spirit spirit are too high, and the old king will soon appear.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Many students feel that school is very boring when they go to school, and when they are in middle and high school, they want to drop out of school and go to society, but we must also know that society is not as good as we imagined. Today, I would like to tell you how to guide you if you want to drop out of school in junior high school.

    As parents, we must let our children realize the importance of learning, if the child has dropped out of junior high school, then, the child can not find a better job in the society, because many jobs now require a relatively high degree of education. Therefore, if our children graduate from junior high school, they may be illiterate in some jobs, and their children can only participate in some jobs at the bottom of society, which will make children feel very tired. Especially like now, many children grow up in honeypots, so children can't endure hardship, so there is no way to do the lowest work.

    Therefore, as parents, if we should work hard to let our children go to school, so that we can see the hope of the future.

    If the child really doesn't want to go to school, then we need to let the child learn a technology, if there is technology, it is enough to eat, and it is not so difficult to find a job. You can let your child learn something that they like, and in this way, you can also let your child stick to it.

    I think that no matter what, it is necessary to let the child stick to school, so that the student can have a good future. Even if you are messing around in school, if your child has a good diploma, it can be a stepping stone to many jobs. If our children can't even get on with it, they will definitely not be able to stick to it in the future.

    Because many students also dropped out of junior high school before, they may have dropped out of school before they even finished junior high school, and now they are always looking for a job, and a job can't last long.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What to do when you drop out of junior high school, the state advocates nine-year compulsory education, you must study hard, and the current society either has technology or academic qualifications, and you can't endure the hardships of study, and you will have to endure the hardships of life in the future.

    So it's better to read well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    To make children aware of the cruelty of society, you can help children find a particularly good school, create a good learning environment for children, encourage children, and don't put a lot of pressure on children.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There are many such ways. It is necessary to reason with the child, to let the child accept the reality, so that the child can experience life.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It can cultivate children's interest in learning, make them feel that learning is interesting, and positive guidance may make a difference.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are ways for middle school students to drop out of school, which is very inconvenient. Parents must have patience and confidence.

    1.Find a child to talk seriously, why the child is not good at learning, find the reason, you must open your heart, at this time you must be in a hurry, and you can't reach it quickly. Really stupid macro is to hone patience in the case to.

    Ask if your baby can't learn? Or the difficulty factor is very high, and then lose self-confidence. Or are some people bullying you?

    If you make a mistake or make a mistake, you won't blame it, and you won't lose your temper easily. What are the difficulties Mom and Dad must help you, so that the baby can completely solve the scruples and tell the real reason in his heart.

    2.Take effective countermeasures against the main causes. If you are not interested in learning and training.

    Unwilling to learn. Just find them a dirty job to do. Let him feel the hardships of the work.

    It's okay to do other work, apply him to make him do it, and see if he can support himself. See what could be easier than studying.

    3.If you feel that professional knowledge is very difficult. You can find a teacher to tutor, you accompany the child to learn together, you have to ask if you don't understand, and there is no doubt about the improvement immediately. Inspirit.

    4.If there are some people in the school who oppress children, it is necessary to communicate emotionally with the teacher and get the help of the teacher and the institution. If it really doesn't work, look for direct evidence alerts.

    5.If it is any other reason, it needs to be analyzed in detail on a case-by-case basis. Be sure to explain the pros and cons of dropping out of school with your baby.

    Move people with emotion and convince people with reason. Earnestly teach. Pay attention.

    More assistance. Multi-motivate. Boot right now.

    It is very likely that there are many people who want to say, what is the era now, how can there be some people who do not study after graduating from junior high school? Most of the ordinary high schools, every junior high school and high school, have many students who have graduated from junior high school and do not study, and it is true that it ends just to be able to carry out nine years of basic education.

    But it doesn't mean that this kind of student will have no prospects in the future, after all, 360 lines 360 lines, maybe into the right line, the same can also spell a bright future. But speaking of which, or to persuade college students who have graduated from junior high school and don't study, they can read as many books as they can, and there is no disadvantage.

    What's more, there are too many people with high diplomas in the future, and the diplomas are too low, and the work that can be used in the industry is all about hard work or very tiring work, although the salary is likely to be high, but the same must work hard, and read more books, the same is also to invest in diligent and hard work.

    Naturally, every family will undoubtedly have its own circumstances and difficulties, so because I don't understand, I have to persuade a lot. If you don't study after graduating from junior high school, or if you need to learn some trades or "professional skills", it is very easy to find a job, and there is a profit that is not too low

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