I m a freshman boy. I want to study hard and go to graduate school. What should I do if my classmate

When we get to college, we will gradually remember the fulfillment of high school, and we are bitter and happy! University, some people say that she is not about learning but about being big. As the saying goes, there are all kinds of birds in the woods, this is not to belittle anyone, but when we are in the big dye vat of the university, some people will forget themselves, will forget their former ambitions, go to college, is to support the elderly.

University, pay attention to their own consciousness, you have a good sense of studying well, don't be confused because others laugh at you for not understanding you, they haven't understood yet, when they graduate with a diploma in hand, they will understand what they have gained in the past four years, when they experience the loss and confusion when they hand over resumes and are returned, they will regret it. Now, you have to recognize your own path, go your own way, and let others say it, as long as you feel that you are doing the right thing. For those former good friends, maybe they don't mean to laugh at you, intentionally reject you, they just want to comfort themselves in this way or pull you to play games with you, self-paralysis, in the end, it's just the inertia of their own thoughts.

If you can help them, talk more, if not, forget it, you have tried your best to be a good friend, but they still don't understand or even complain about you, don't worry, they will understand one day, believe you. Identify goals and stick to them!!

The hardest thing in college is to stick to yourself, the most afraid is to go with the flow, there is nothing wrong with studying, they reject you because you only care about studying and communicate too little with them. It's right to study, but don't close yourself off, don't participate in other activities, study when it's time to study, and actively participate in the dormitory or class group when there are activities, no one likes to play with someone who only knows how to eat books and has no other interests.

I suggest that you arrange your time reasonably, do things in a principled way, chat with friends more without delaying your own study, play ball and participate in group activities, but don't indulge in games that are easy to wear down people's fighting spirit, in addition to knowledge, friendship between classmates is also the most valuable wealth in your life.

When you say that, you don't feel like you're wrong.

It's his fault that one person ignores you, and two or three people ignore you, and it's their fault. But whose fault is it that all ignore you? College studies are a small part, and learning about interpersonal communication is also important.

It is also necessary to learn and learn, eat, drink, and play games with everyone. Society is not a one-person society, separated from the collective, lost friends, a person is nothing, and it is important to integrate into the team and the collective.

I don't know if you can understand that.

It's up to you whether the university chooses to sink or rise It's their business that they don't work hard As for rejecting you, thinking that you are a good student, they simply don't bother you, so as not to lead you badly, or they think that you are not all the way with him, if you mix up with your personality in the future, let them regret it, and finally advise them to go their own way and let others go.

Don't mind what others think, as long as you think you're doing the right thing. Everyone's values are different, I think, you want to go to graduate school is a very good idea, stick to your own ideas, there is no need to be wronged because of other people's opinions. Come on, I wish you success in your graduate school entrance examination.

Freshman year, after all, I just got out of the cage of high school, and it's normal for my roommates not to study, but it's wrong for them to exclude their classmates.

You didn't do anything wrong, and I admire your determination. Study hard and be your own ......Someday they will understand you! True friends will be proud of you......

If you want to go to graduate school, you don't need to push yourself so hard in your freshman year. Work on math and English......

You can set aside an evening or two a week to catch up with friends and have a chat, after all, friendship is also very important. You can play games with them and mingle with them, but don't get carried away. After all, your goal is to get into graduate school.

There is no wrong reason for seeking a higher level of knowledge. But I don't think you can always read books, and it's necessary to chat with your classmates once in a while, at least you know what people are paying attention to at the moment. Don't "turn your ears to what is going on outside the window, and only read the books of sages and sages", so that it is not good to derail from society and be no different from the Peach Blossom Spring.

Adhere to the ideal, study hard,

Change your approach to socializing.

It's completely true that you love to learn, and people who love to learn in general should be more popular, so this may not be the reason why you are excluded, it may still be the usual communication problem, (maybe you think about it more, they don't reject you, communicate more, treat each other sincerely, there will be no problem). If it's just because you love to learn and they hate you, is such a person worth being friends with?

It doesn't matter what they do, if you want to go to graduate school, then study hard, college and high school are different, and the relationship between people has changed, alas.

The future is your own, do what you want to do, and do what you want to do. After all, they are not with you forever, you read good books, you get a good job of your own, and the interpersonal relationship at that time is what you should value. If you are studying now, you should focus on studying.

That's right, it's yourself that matters, your beliefs are the most important, and sometimes you can change them, they just don't know what to do, and sometimes it's very empty to play games.

You're not wrong, everyone's life ideals are different, maybe they are jealous of you and don't have to take it to heart. Heaven is jealous of talents, not to mention them, I used to be the same, always the first to eat grapes, they were all jealous of me and rejected me, but then there was no more.

You are a piece of gold in the future, and they are a piece of in the future.

That's right, it's just that everyone's ambitions don't coincide, and you can go to everyone who wants to go to graduate school like you to review and discuss the problem together, isn't that okay?

Promising. Studying is not about studying seriously all the time, especially when you take the postgraduate entrance examination, and more importantly, you can devote yourself to it after you make up your mind about the exam.

It's all like this, they are jealous of you, you can tell you, in the future, your classmates will only praise you when they look back, and will not say anything else, bear with it, you study hard, and this is over.

Personally, I think you are not wrong, everyone has their own ideals. Maybe you are confused now, but the moment you succeed, you will understand that all your efforts have not been in vain.

You're right, since they ignore you, then forget it, the Tao is not the same.

Stick to yourself, you're not wrong. But also make time for communication among classmates.

Go your own way and let others say go.

No, but you have to communicate with them often.

Universities are like this now, there are so many real top students, it's more about experiencing a kind of college life. I just happened to be looking for a job, and to be honest, I regretted that I didn't have a good major in school. So if you are still a freshman and study your major, you won't have such a headache when you graduate.