I m a high school student, how can I be confident

Typical lack of self-confidence, hehe has a saying that confident women are the most beautiful, you are men, and self-confidence is also the most handsome.

Besides, since many people say that you are good, you should be good, and you have to believe in yourself.

Regardless of beauty or ugliness, don't pay too much attention to appearance, you will only find trouble for yourself, what about painting, if you feel bad, continue to work hard, don't be afraid of painting badly, just work hard.

What to do? So the first start by walking, keep your head up and your chest high, there is nothing to be afraid of, you just live yourself, why care about the evaluation of others? Right?

Second, start to try to help your classmates draw some pictures, don't ask for perfection, draw what you feel at that time, and you will be successful!

If you want to live happily, you must first know why you live, of course, for yourself, if you have to give yourself so much burden every day, why should you live. Just smile and be brave enough to show yourself, your joys and sorrows are your own, and don't care what others think. Besides, even if you're perfect, it's impossible for everyone to like you, so just dare to be yourself! Come on.

Everyone is not perfect, there are advantages and disadvantages! If others just jokingly say that you are handsome or that you are good at drawing, then you don't have to worry! But I think you should be very good, but you put too much pressure on yourself, so you can't be confident!

In fact, appropriate modesty is still desirable, but there is no need to grieve yourself like this! Be kind to yourself! You have to find out that you are so good, and then secretly praise yourself in your heart! Hehe!

Accept the invitation of your classmates to draw for them! Be confident!

Girls say that you are handsome, that is really handsome! If you have a strong point, such as drawing, then basically no one will dare to say anything about you. Because others are neither handsome nor can draw.

1. Wear beautiful and decent clothes, clothing is a sharp weapon, it can instantly make people look tall. Dress up for important occasions, important meetings, and when you're in a bad mood. Studies have shown that when people wear beautiful and appropriate clothes, their self-confidence will also increase, and they will walk with their chest held up and their heads raised unconsciously, and a high-spirited and full posture is more conducive to making decisive decisions.

As the saying goes, there is a reason why a man depends on his clothes and a horse depends on his saddle.

2. Try to make bold decisions, whether it is work, study or dating your boyfriend, take the initiative to be the one who takes the idea, such as how to do work quickly and well, go to that movie today, don't always say "whatever" and "okay". This kind of talk has an image of not being responsible, and over time, it will produce a sense of non-existence, and in the long run, people will become unconfident and always follow the steps of others.

3. Don't seek perfection, enhancing self-confidence should not be a sinful thing, don't work hard to make yourself confident for the sake of self-confidence. Also, you must not idealize everything. Allow yourself to be a person who sometimes makes mistakes.

As the saying goes, if you know how to advance, you should also know how to retreat, and sometimes retreat is just to prepare for the next step.

4. Seize the opportunity, what you were worried about before, you can try it with a new idea, don't go all the way to the dark, don't hit the south wall and don't look back. It can be said that most people who lack self-confidence are very stubborn people. Don't say it's convincing, even if you hit the south wall, you won't necessarily have your head.

If you're not so stubborn, sign up for a class or join a health club to get some exercise. Make a difference in your life, even if it's a little bit.

5. Learn to forgive, many people are very demanding of themselves, and they don't know how to forgive what they have done in the past. If you are obsessed with your past failures or mistakes, then you will not have much left in your self-confidence. The right thing to do is to admit your mistakes or mistakes and forget about them.

6. There is another way to set a role model and enhance self-confidence, and that is to find a super confident person to be your role model. If you can make friends with someone who is very confident, that's even better. People are animals that can imitate, the so-called close to Zhu is red and close to ink is black, if there is a very confident person around him, under the influence of his (her) infection, the unconfident person will gradually become confident.

7. Learn to be grateful, and be grateful to others or oneself for being in a peaceful state of mind, and a peaceful state of mind will produce self-confidence. Learn to make a list of things to be thankful for, especially those strengths or qualities that stand out to you.

8. Surely, ask yourself some questions often, and then yours is "I'm very confident". Over time, it is very good for you to boost your self-confidence. This is called positive psychological suggestion.

9. Pay attention to pay, there is an old saying that there is a good saying, there is a need to pay. Remember this saying, if you want to get something in life, you have to give first.

10. Take a risk, when you do something you didn't dare to do before, you will find that there is nothing great about doing this! This is great for boosting self-confidence.

Everything, you have to do it hard, do it once, and you won't be afraid the second time. If you succeed once, you will know that you are not weaker than others.

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First of all, you must be a person with self-confidence.

In this way, you can be a good middle school student.

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