What is it like to have a lot to say but can t find anyone to say?

Sometimes, after being autistic for a long time, I really feel that I am the only one left in the world. I was affected by the family environment, and my parents were not good at communicating and expressing, and I didn't like to talk to them about anything since I was a child. When I grew up and had friends, I talked to my friends.

But now that I'm in college, I'm far away from those friends, and I'm slowly losing contact, and I feel like they've changed. Became aloof and selfish like some of the people I knew in college. I'm afraid that I'll be like that, because my personality is too simple, I don't know when to say anything, I don't like to talk about my condition, I don't like to talk about my condition, I get hurt, I'm in a bad mood, I'm frustrated, I don't talk to anyone, because I tried to tell others that their indifferent response is really sad.

I wanted to talk to my mother, but a ** called and suddenly wanted to cry, and told her that it was okay. Because I found out that I was a sophomore in college, I shouldn't worry my family anymore. Therefore, those tangled sorrows and hearts hidden in my heart are always slowly digested by myself with tears after everyone has slept.

I really, I feel like the older I get, the happier I get.

In fact, everyone is like this, the older you grow, the more you experience, the more lonely you become. Some people may not think too much about these things. Sentimental people will be more lonely.

There are many ways to vent, just vent unpleasant emotions, and as for those things you want to say, you can write them down and turn them into long-term words, show them to yourself, and show them to people who have similar experiences. After a long time, you will find that there seems to be something that is not said and is not a big deal. Even if you speak out, the only one who can really solve the problem is yourself.

When encountering some things, the change of mood will make you choose to bear it silently. Tell others about your own affairs, you are not sure whether others will help you or laugh at you, it is better to digest it slowly by yourself. Sometimes I attribute my changes to changes in the external environment, but I am a cheerful person who doesn't like to press my heart for anything.

However, after a person has repeatedly hit a wall, he knows that it hurts, and he will change it. Cheerfulness can also turn into silence, because it is self-preservation. Choose an environment that you feel comfortable with, a happy life, don't think that you can change the environment, and it is good to keep your heart.

People who don't speak their hearts will be very depressed, and my head will think a lot of things, and then I have no place to confide, and over time I feel uncomfortable and upset, and I feel that I have become more and more cautious, because when you have negative emotions, it is a bit troublesome not to say it.

I always thought that I was good alone, but since I traveled alone, I found that I was actually not very good, because the scenery I saw, the interesting things I encountered and all kinds of rich experiences that no one could share with me, no one could talk to me, and some just sighed by myself, "It turns out that this place is also very beautiful, and it turns out that this place is also how it is." There may indeed be people who like to live alone, this is definitely there, after all, it is not surprising what kind of people will appear on such a big earth, but people will definitely have a way of life, so a person who has been lonely for a long time can really do everything he wants to do indifferently.

I may not be accustomed to the hope that I will take the initiative to get people to my heart and lungs through me, only to find out later that this is impossible, in general, I am the most reliable, in other words, no matter who it is, it is impossible to empathize, you can tell others about your difficulties but you can't expect people to help you solve it, purely to find some comfort, so it is best to find a friend.

As I get older, I don't seem to need to talk anymore, probably because I can't stop and listen to each other at any time. However, when you really encounter difficulties and need help, those who stay to accompany and support each other silently are still precious treasures worth cherishing in life.

In fact, I feel the same way about what you said about chatting with someone, because when I'm in a bad mood, I also feel that there is no one around me who can talk to the kind of taste, and I'm really hungry and uncomfortable, but everyone is an adult, so you have to understand the appropriate venting, so what you have to do is to put your unhappiness in** in a conversation with**, you can also go online to find a chat on the Internet, in fact, you can talk about unhappy things with unfamiliar networks to talk about better things

It's also a blessing to have someone who can listen to yourself quietly Sometimes there is nowhere to put a lot of emotions in this reed Lots of languages have nowhere to flow It's better to take a walk alone What to share with the night breeze, share with the flowers and trees, and share with the moonlight It's just a search, and the weather is cool Don't catch a cold.

You can write it in a blog or a log, or a personalized signature, then you have to find it one by one, it is best to understand it slowly, your confusion is encountered by many people, which means that you have grown.

She must have her own reasons for not speaking out.

You can talk about it here, I can hear from you!

Express it in other ways, such as shouting loudly, writing in a journal. Wish.

If it's hard to hold back, you can find someone to talk to! I'm an amateur psychiatrist, if you don't mind, you can talk to me!

Thank you! I don't know if you're a man or a woman, but you can talk to me, we don't know each other, and you don't have to be afraid that I know what you're thinking

Hope you help

I'm a female drop

Through a friend's QQ**Something like that!I'm sure you can get in touch with him

Actually, it's not a difficult thing to do. If you just feel lonely, it's still easy to find someone to talk to, whether it's a colleague at work or a friend in life, it's easy to have a topic to chat with, but it's not easy to find a confidant, a friend who can really talk about everything. Or find a boyfriend and girlfriend, you can also relieve loneliness.

If you are very withdrawn in your life, you usually stay at home. Naturally, no one will say. As a withdrawn person, if you can't stand loneliness, you must have the courage to speak up in your daily life, and you must be able to tolerate the shortcomings of others, so that you can find friends.

If you really feel that you don't have a common language with the people around you and can't integrate into the surrounding environment, then simply look farther, try to please the current environment, jump out, try to change the environment, maybe there will be a different surprise.

In addition, there are many times when we face loneliness in life, and sometimes, we have to try to get used to them, and even enjoy loneliness, if you don't want to be a kitsch person, many times, it is normal to not find someone to talk to.

So, put up with what we can endure, and if we can't, change the way, or change the environment, and make a change!

It's okay to talk to yourself... Find out what you need. Sometimes contemplation is the best way to know oneself (meditation).

There are things that you can't tell anyone! If it were ordinary, it would be possible to tell others! Some things still need to be talked to someone! Otherwise, I always press in my heart not to hold back my illness!

It's not that you can't find someone to talk to, it's that you don't trust others

First of all, let's think about this question, why is there no one to talk to? Have you analyzed what causes it? How to solve such a problem?

It's actually very simple, and the most important thing is the mentality. What is the problem of mentality? Secondly, let's think about it, if there is no person who speaks, is there really not?

Parents are the most selfless, so at least parents can talk, classmates help each other, solve problems together, isn't it okay to have a good chat? Remember, if you are good to others, others will be good to you, so a positive and optimistic attitude is the most important thing. A bad attitude is completely self-inflicted, so to maintain a good attitude to face every day of life, help each other, make progress together, and become friends, isn't it just a good chat?

So the key is to have a good mentality. Finally, to sum up, how could there be no one to speak? In fact, as long as you have a good attitude, be positive and optimistic to help others, and solve problems together, isn't this a good friend?

Aren't good friends able to chat more and talk more? At the same time, in later life, if you learn to make more friends, won't you be able to have more friends to talk to? How can I make more friends?

Sometimes I feel this way, so I need to change it slowly, and I can take the initiative to chat more.

Let me analyze this from the perspective of ordinary people.

You may lack the ability to think visually, and no matter how much vocabulary you have, you may not be able to weave a picture in your head.

People often communicate with each other by means of visual thinking. When we encounter a situation, we first form a pattern in our brain, and then our thinking will start from this pattern and move down. If we lack the ability to think visually, we will often feel that our brains are empty and boring when dealing with people.

The ability to think figuratively is also big and small, some people can only take care of small scenes, and some people can take care of larger scenes. When I say the scene, I don't just mean the social scene, but he can integrate many things and scenes together to observe and deal with them, and this kind of person generally has the advantages of being optimistic, positive, friendly, patient, responsible, and quick thinking.

Your focus should be on how to improve your visual thinking ability, rather than wasting your mind on "whether you are good at expressing yourself or not". There is no other specific exercise method, only more observation. Observe how your mindset changes, what causes it, etc.

Observe what others are concerned about, what they need, how they are doing things and dealing with problems, etc. Also, when reading and studying, you should also pay attention to adding some image thinking into it. One way to do this is to improve your ability to think deeply, and at the same time combine thinking with concrete images.

Autonomy is the most important, and there are two realms of having something to say and saying that there is nothing to say. What we want to achieve is that there is something to say, but whether we want to say it or not depends on the specific environment. Therefore, it is not very useful to blindly exercise eloquence without improving inner autonomy.

If you don't break through in other areas, you might as well try these methods. I'm sure you'll be able to improve a lot. Best wishes!

Tell us more about what they're discussing. Be bold, ask more questions they understand, talk more about topics they understand, and slowly communicate with them and you will be able to speak naturally.

Introverts are afraid to speak up.

Unreasonable will be laughed at by others?

1.Because people like pride, feel that they are strong, and ignore the consequences2It is enough to have a confidant in life3

People always like to regret, but before that, they didn't know that there was no regret medicine to take in this world4It is impossible, we want to progress, progress has to pay, in the process of moving forward, we will encounter other troubles and dilute the previous troubles 5People want money, power, etc., and human desires are endless; Only in the midst of setbacks can we grow, and this society is the law of the jungle, where the poor get poorer and the rich get richer.

If you have anything on your mind, you can tell me about it" o<

The question is how to say it, 2 years ago, I drank wine and I was a friend of a friend who took us to sing, there were 3 men, I had drunk too much, and I was a little nonsense, and I was afraid that I was in danger, so I might have said that the name of my husband friend was my husband, and it was a very powerful character, haha I just said it out of the idea of protecting myself, and I just said the conversation without anything, and the man may know the name of my husband who made up ......People are not bad, I feel, but I have been scared recently, and suddenly remembered this, I wondered if the person I fabricated at random could know, I once went out and said that I was his daughter-in-law, so embarrassing, answer hello, you don't need to worry about these at all, first of all, it has been so long, and the other party may not know the boy.

I know the question, but I'm afraid that the man will say to my friend, "Oh, ah, your friend said that his husband is and who is ......."It's not a good thing for my friend to go out and preach to me, but it's been 2 years, and I haven't heard of it, and my husband friend doesn't like me going out and talking nonsense.

Answer: I understand your feelings. But after all this time, even if your friend goes to talk to the guy, the guy won't necessarily believe it, and maybe think your friend is fooling him.

It's been a few days since I asked a question, I can't eat well, I can't sleep well, I feel wrong, I shouldn't talk nonsense, I'm a mess of my own psychology, I'm a little sorry for my husband's friend and daughter-in-law, answer pro, what you said is not unreasonable [hehe]. It would be embarrassing if the other person knew, especially since he was also a friend of your husband's [covering his face].

I didn't mean to ask if it was, but I made it up so that the man could see it, [smiles].

Question: If you are a friend of my husband and you hear about this, do you have to ask me ......?If he hadn't asked me, he wouldn't have known.