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Buddies are the kind of people who don't say anything and can do things with each other; And confidants are the ones who can mainly talk to each other, can talk to each other, and are very comfortable with each other after talking. Buddies rely on each other on the basis of events, while confidants rely on each other on the basis of hearts.
I don't think you and him should be forced, because forcing it will only hurt each other. It doesn't matter if you're buddies, confidants, lovers, or whatever, as long as it's a relationship that makes each other feel comfortable. Good luck!
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Since he's going to be a buddy with you, it means that he already knows what you think. Don't ask anymore. It's the best ending.
Be your buddy, and you can talk and laugh together. What to say. If you really want him to be your boyfriend, maybe you can't even be friends.
It's going to be embarrassing. Good luck!
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Hello buddy. You can say anything, don't worry.
It's not good to be a confidant, and he won't tell you some things, so wouldn't that be even better.
And buddies are for life!
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There are two situations with you being buddies.
The first is to really treat you as a very good friend, friends can be eternal, lovers cannot.
The second is to really dislike you, comfort and comfort you.
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Of course there is a difference!
It's good to be a buddy!
What to do when sad?
It's not so easy to say a confidant, take your time! -
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Confidants between men and women have two meanings: one is between two people, which is an ordinary friend relationship; And the other meaning is that between two people, it is a relationship between lovers, that is, the relationship between lovers; Therefore, in life, the true meaning and the meaning of the representative are completely different.
1. A confidant is a best friend
In social life, there are many people who will regard their best friend as a confidant. Being able to become a confidant means that between two people, it is no longer an ordinary friend relationship, two people can be heart-to-heart to enlighten Yuxiang, and they can do everything without saying anything; It can be done in the face of difficulties and shared in blessings. So a confidant can only be said to be the best friend; But best friends don't have to be confidants.
2. Confidants do not refer to lovers
In life, in general, a confidant does not refer to a couple. The knowledge of the opposite sex refers to the fact that two people can have a common topic, have the same hobbies, and can also confide in each other and become each other's listeners. The only difference between a couple and a couple is that there is love in the heart, but it is not spoken.
Therefore, a confidant between the opposite sex is actually no different from a lover.
There is no pure friendship between men and women
Men and women are two creatures of different genders, and there are various relationships between them, such as parent-child relationships, teacher-student relationships, classmate relationships, co-worker relationships, lovers' relationships, and husband and wife relationships, but they cannot be pure friendship relationships. As for the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, there are relationships called "confidants" and "girlfriends".
There is no pure friendship between adult men and women. When a man and a woman maintain a close friend relationship, one of them will definitely have the idea of "turning her into my boyfriend".
If this idea does not come to fruition in the end, it is nothing more than two reasons: one is that the liking between the two is one-way, and one party does not like the other; The second is that the other party has certain characteristics that he can't accept, so he overturns the idea of wanting to be a lover with the other party and takes a step back to be friends.
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Male and female confidants are a kind of friendship between friends and friends. The two sides accept each other as confidants, give them the opportunity to confide, rely on, and even admire each other, and develop a third kind of love in addition to Dongzhen and family love-confidant love.
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Summary. Hello dear! [Love] male and female confidants are the relationships between men and women who understand each other thoroughly, oh What is the relationship between men and women.
Hello dear! [Love] male and female confidants are the relationship between men and women who understand each other thoroughly, except for the omission of family, love, and friendship, there are more emotions than friendship and a little less than love, which is called the fourth relationship. It belongs to friendship, and it is the highest stage of friends of the opposite sex, that is, "confidantes" or "confidantes".
In social relations, there are usually three kinds of relationships between the opposite sex, one is family relationship, the second is love relationship, and the third is friendship relationship. In this kind of emotional search, it cannot be regarded as a return of love, it pursues spiritual equality and exchange, which belongs to the highest stage of friendship with friends of the opposite sex, that is, the real confidant between men and women.
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Summary. A confidant is a friendship relationship between two people who understand, trust, support, and respect each other, but does not involve romance and sexual relationships. The relationship between a man and a woman can be a purely friendship relationship or a family relationship similar to that of a brother or sister or sibling.
A confidant is a friendship between two people who have a mutual understanding, trust, support, and respect, but does not involve romance and sexual relations. The relationship between a man and a woman can be a pure friendship relationship, or it can be a family relationship similar to that of a brother or sister or sibling.
This relationship, built on shared interests, similar life experiences, and values, can provide emotional support and psychological comfort to each other.
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The friendship between the opposite sex is difficult to explain, and sometimes one party endures to suppress the dress and be a good friend, because the other party still doesn't love him, so he has to pretend to be just a friend of him. It's hard to say that I don't have an idea in my heart, and I don't have an opportunity to do a substitute one day. Such a confidant or a good friend of the opposite sex, even if he likes the other party, he will not say it, what he is afraid of is that if he says it, the friend will have nothing to do, and he is afraid that the other party will no longer pay attention to himself, so he pretends to be a good friend anytime and anywhere, and once he has the opportunity, he will push the boat down the river and turn positive.
There is also a situation where there are confidants and good friends of the opposite sex, that is, lovers are not very satisfied with each other, so they will look for or meet blue faces outside to make up for the lack of spiritual communication or care in life. If the quarrel between the oak and the orange fruit is unpleasant, the role of this good friend of the opposite sex outside may be to call out the person who has a drink and chats with him.
Even if one party doesn't have an idea in his heart, the other party may have an idea quietly, and it's easy for things to go wrong at such a time. Because one party has been waiting for the opportunity, and the other party is in a troubled or vulnerable time, when he is dissatisfied with the one at home, so he chats with his confidant to the emotional place, and feels that this person is better and more sensible, it is inevitable that he will be really moved.
Therefore, in the quarrels of many lovers, there is this one: you drink tea, eat, chat and play with the opposite sex outside, although you don't actually cross the line, but it seems to be better than us together, so what am I? You say you're just good friends, but why am I still so uncomfortable?
Well, if you can't understand this kind of discomfort, then from another perspective, I also have a lot of good friends of the opposite sex outside, and I am also happy to meet with them for a long time, eat and drink tea and play together, will you feel uncomfortable? Will you accept it?
If we don't care, if we give each other so much space, will we let those who pretend to be our good friends but actually like to have a crush on us wait for an opportunity to invade?
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Summary. What kind of relationship is a confidant of the opposite sex.
Pro, in addition to what a confidant of the opposite sex looks like, 1is more intimate than a friend, each other is like a relative, either like an elder brother and a younger sister, or like a sister and a younger brother, everyone cares about each other and can snuggle up to each other, Zheng Chun but without the slightest thought. 2.
Get along with each other like relatives, will maintain frequent communication, will help each other with ideas, will care about each other, will give each other a warm greeting, buy gifts, and will also pay attention to each other's lives. 3.Seeing that the other party is in difficulty, he will stand up as soon as possible to find a way to help the other party solve it, and even be more anxious than the other party4
Say anything to him.
In fact, there are very few simple confidants, and some of them have some admiration, but they don't pierce the layer of window paper.
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