Tell me about this relative! Can it be broken? 10

I really felt that it was too much, and it was broken, and without this relative, the earth still turned. Get a job and don't be here.

It's okay to break off with him, and don't let your relatives spoil your mood. It can also be broken.

It's broken, it's better not to do this.

can't be broken, because it's a relative, you can only maintain the relationship, and then according to the actual situation, find a set of ways to get along with each other, there will always be a solution, just say that you can get along as little as possible.

You didn't do well outside, and I think you should also think about whether you are doing something badly, and I don't think there is a reason for a good employee to leave whether you are a relative or not.

I think the relatives are relatively shallow to come in, and they have long since disappeared, so it will not be too much if they are not called Qianqian. We measure it ourselves.

You guys say that such relatives are really excessive, and you can choose to disconnect.

Although they are more excessive, but you have to think about it now, how not to have any head-to-head confrontation with them. If you need to break it, you can do it.

I think this period is quite excessive, if you really don't want to associate with him anymore, then you can cut off contact with each other, stop moving around each other and cut off contact, so that both parties may be more comfortable.

Tell me that this relative is too much to be judged. Continue. Did you go? You can't break off the relatives part. Because this is a love letter of knowledge.

I think under normal circumstances, it would be better to break off the words of such meaningless relatives, and it is not worth wasting time and energy.

Do you tell me that this relative is too much to be broken? As long as you feel that it is not suitable, what are relatives, if you don't deal with each other, it's okay, there are no rules, you have to interact often.

Broken, because the way he had such a seizure was very incorrect.

It's too much to have such a relative, you can also cut off it with him yourself, don't be with this in the future, family affection is really very, it's not necessary.

I think relatives, although he is your relative, but sometimes the contradictions between you are indeed irreconcilable, and if you don't want to go with him, then ignore him.

To be honest, I don't think there is any need for such relatives to have any more contacts, I think this kind of family affection is really not humane at all.

First of all, don't talk like that, because relatives are not obligated to do so. To help yourself, you should improve your abilities.

If you meet such relatives, of course, it is a more excessive thing, because such an economy does not treat you as a relative at all, so you should not contact them anymore, just cut it off.

I think he is really excessive, because this kind of person affects his state of mind.

Overestimating your relationship with others will only give the other person the right to hurt again and again.

This relative is too much, and he is too desperate to do things, and there is no need to socialize anymore.

I think whether such relatives have a paragraph should be based on your specific situation, if you still want to get along, then you can not if you don't want to anymore, then it will be broken, right? Because they're all not doing well.

If we don't want to make friends deeply, we don't want to contact them again, why make it so stiff?

I can't see anyone else better than her. From primary school to junior high school, my parents bought me a place in a key junior high school, but she didn't buy it for her daughter because it was too expensive, and her daughter scored more than 200 points in the high school entrance examination. The college entrance examination told me that it is useless to go to college, it is better to study a college and find a job, I ignored her, and now I have graduated from college.

Someone introduced someone to my sister on a blind date (my sister is older), she privately called ** to the man and said that my sister was not suitable for him, and said bad things about my sister behind her back, blowing, probably because her daughter and my sister signed up for the ** class together last year, and my sister lost 30 pounds and her daughter is still obese.

One of my distant relatives and two brothers, the eldest was very honest and simple, it was difficult to find a daughter-in-law at that time, and he married a daughter-in-law with a slight mental retardation, and the second two were very good. Last year, when the eldest was working on the construction site, he accidentally fell off the shelf and died, and the eldest daughter-in-law fell ill in a hurry and was admitted to the hospital. The foreman lost 350,000 yuan, and the two of them not only took away all the money, but also threw the eldest daughter-in-law in the hospital.

Borrow money and don't pay it back! I owe my family hundreds of thousands, buy a house and a car, obviously the family is living in other places, there are several sets of demolition houses in the local area, I have to buy a large apartment in a high-end community, the house in the southern region can't live for a few days all year round, people have to install floor heating, and the two cars are hundreds of thousands of dollars that are not repaid!!

My aunt and grandmother too, annoyed to death! Speaking from a young age, I really saw that my parents were too weak, when I was a child, I said that I was disobedient and that I would grow up to be a thief, and then I graduated from college all the way and found a good job, and they said that I would be fired one day sooner or later! I also said everywhere that in fact, because the psychological shadow they gave me when I was a child was too heavy, I haven't been to their house for several years!

Go once a year for the New Year! It's disgusting!

My uncle, borrowed my house to live, said that it would be repaid in a few years, but it turned out to be more than ten years, a few days ago he wanted to get back he asked us to give him 600,000, and we had to buy him a house, we said why, he said that he only has two daughters, no son to provide for the elderly, and we want to be responsible for the elderly.

When you are good, you put up what you want to be their stuff is their thing, and it's a relative. When you are not good, the one who hurried over and stepped on you was also a relative. Disgusting.

My aunt is my grandfather's sister and daughter-in-law. It's choreographed on the side of my boyfriend's family, and it's hard to hear. I've only seen them once in a few years, and I didn't know that human jealousy could make people so vicious.

He also licked his face and slapped ** to my house to show goodwill, and finally told them that he would not interact with them in the future. Good and evil will be rewarded, and a few days after this daughter-in-law had a car accident, her son had another car accident.

When I was in elementary school, my family still had some money, and the old man was a steady person at that time. When I came back, the uncle came to borrow money and said that he had borrowed 50,000 yuan for the packaging repair project, and said that he would repay it in 3 months. The old man gave the uncle the money for the purchase and the revolving payment, and then ...... three months and three monthsIt dragged on for nearly 4 years, and then the old man had no choice but to sell his collection of jade and motorcycles to plug this opening, and the poor at that time even had to eat to be helped by others.

I wanted them to pay back a little first, but they were beaten out, and the family ate and drank spicy food, and the family went out to visit relatives. Our family drank cabbage soup during the New Year, grandparents said that they couldn't care about it, and then the old man worked hard to earn back the current family business, and now people still have the face to come to my house and want us to borrow some more money, and I am also thinking about the old man who sold it before and then redeemed it for double the price. The old man also wants me to let my uncle's family come to my house now, I basically let go of my beans (rottweiler) leash and take things into the room at my own risk.

My uncle is much richer than my family. Recently, one of the more disgusting things about my uncle is that he digs a pit and grows lotus root in the foundation behind my house, and he wants to hollow out the foundation of my house. For others, he was busy harvesting crops, and he didn't work himself, so he called my parents to go and collect grain for his family every year.

There are too many things like this to talk about.

I have a friend who lent me 400 yuan in 98, when I just graduated, 400 yuan is equivalent to my pocket money for two months, and I haven't paid it back until now, 03 years, I asked for it once, she actually said, do you mean it? Do you lack the four hundred dollars? I'm embarrassed to open my mouth to ask for it, but no.

I went, I was really shameless to such a point, my thick skin was so fresh and refined, I was also drunk, I didn't want 400 yuan, I broke off my relationship, and I never contacted me again.

Relatives are often not as good as neighbors, my dad and brothers are three, ranked second, my dad returned to the countryside when he changed jobs in 78 years, and he took the allowances and discharge money he had saved, and returned to the village to buy bricks and timber by himself, and he asked his neighbors to build three tiled houses together, and married my mother to his home! At that time, my uncle had been living in a grass house, and then my uncle begged my grandmother to do ideological work for my father, and wanted to exchange his grass house for my family's tiled house, and my father said that all things, including the homestead, were made at his own expense, and he didn't ask for a penny from the family, so he refused on the spot! Later, my grandparents, uncles, and even my aunt were hostile to our family, saying that my father was so kind to my mother and my three siblings that he didn't listen to them and didn't beat us.

My dad is also quite a man, and he directly said that my own daughter-in-law and my own children will love them, and I want you to take care of them! Later, our family didn't interact with them when they had nothing to do, and then my dad only came home once a week when he worked in the city, so he left my mom to take us in the countryside, and sometimes they had bad ideas to bully us, and my mom was more shrewd and blocked back, and she didn't take advantage of it. Later, when my grandparents were old, my mother gave me pocket money, but my uncle and uncle never gave it, and I regretted what they did back then.

Now that our family conditions are better, they have begun to deliberately praise us! That's why it's like a relative!

My aunt, my father was not at home because something happened, my mother took me to my grandmother's house for the New Year, I was only seventeen or eighteen years old, my uncle gave me two hundred New Year's money, I reached out when I gave it to me, my aunt knocked off my uncle's hand, and now I still remember. His son, no matter how tight my money is during the New Year's holidays, I should give a point. Bullying my dad for not being at home.

I will never forget this kind of relative! I'm going to fight anyway.

My uncle! Because my grandmother's family is patriarchal, I spoiled him very much when I was a child, but now I beat my wife and parents, as an uncle for 20 years, I have never given our family New Year's money, the only thing I remember is very clear, I gave me 20 yuan when I was a child, and then asked me to go back.

My husband's family in northern Shaanxi, rural relatives especially like to celebrate the birthday of the elderly, calling all relatives and friends. The New Year's reception is even more lively. Then the reckoning began.

The girl doesn't want to take it, and the younger son lives with the old man and serves the old man, so he doesn't need to take it. The third child has a debt and can't take it. Why should the eldest sister-in-law take it if she is widowed!

At last. My family has taken it all. Now they've planted apples and bought a car!

Alas! Once upon a time, this person in our family worked outside, so I got used to it. They are also used to it, including the elderly.

One year when we moved to a new house, they came to see the house in a group, and it was suddenly cold, and the person in my family lent money to buy a padded jacket for everyone. We also earn wages! The old man is gone.

I decided to let them get out of the way!

My aunt's own daughter was indecent, and in turn scolded my sister who was pulled out by her daughter, saying that my sister took her daughter badly! My aunt's daughter is unmarried and pregnant, after the child is born, the family has no money, and she wants to buy a Mercedes-Benz with face, counting on my aunt to raise a child and a car, and the car loan must be repaid. My aunt did it herself, made my cousin angry, and always beat me up to let me and my sister go to their house to put out the fire!

I was 21 years old in '07 and was in college. My parents' business failed, and the family was in the middle of the road, and they really couldn't get a few hundred when they were in trouble. That year, my grandfather was hospitalized for bronchitis and needed his children to pay for medical expenses, and his three sons and three daughters each had to bear 500.

During this time, I took my girlfriend (now daughter-in-law) to visit my grandfather. As soon as I entered the ward, my aunt pulled me out to the stairwell of the hospital, and she asked me if you brought your 500? I said I didn't bring it.

Then she said you didn't bring any money, so what are you doing here? It was cold eyes, sarcastic language. I'm embarrassed, I'm sad, I'm having mixed feelings.

I bowed my head and said I had come to visit my grandfather. She said you better hurry up and think about the money. I turned to leave, and I saw my daughter-in-law standing at the top of the stairs.

That would really leave me in tears, it was helpless, it was sad, I couldn't say it clearly. In short, it's sad. My daughter-in-law was still a student at that time.

When we walked out of the hospital, she handed me five pieces of 100 yuan and told me to go and give her the money. That's our responsibility. At that moment, tears welled up in my eyes, shame, and gratitude were intertwined.

Eleven years have passed, and I am grateful to this great aunt, who taught me a life lesson. In a material society, money is not everything, and it is really impossible to have no money. I am also grateful that my daughter-in-law was there for me when I was so difficult, and I will always be good to her.

In the winter of my junior year of high school, my father injured his hand and the family had almost no income, and my mother was at a loss, so she tried to pick cabbage in the field every day and came back for me and my younger brother to eat, and the family was ......in great difficultyOne day at noon, when I entered the door after school, I suddenly smelled the smell of meat, and my youngest uncle came to greet us, and we were very happy! I thought he knew that my father was injured and came to see us, but later I found out after dinner that he was here to collect our debts, because my brother and I went to school and borrowed 2,000 yuan from him .........Since then, I have understood that the so-called relatives are like this!