What is it like to have a father who has no interest?

Do you have a father who has no money? Are you sad? I really feel sorry for your father, raising a child who has no income and no upbringing.

He also criticized his father who gave birth to him. In my opinion, it is not easy for parents to have children. Although they did not give us a good living environment, at least they gave us hope for survival.

If I were your father and I knew that you were here to criticize your father, I would have wished that I hadn't let my wife conceive you.

If you think that your father is not promising, then you should go to find a promising. I'm afraid that no matter how much money people give you, you won't be able to take it. Besides, a child who is not related to himself by blood, and is a child who disrespects his elders so much, he can raise you, probably for another purpose.

Rich and smart people don't buy and sell at a loss.

Spending the money he earned from his own hard work to a loser is not his own.

How did your unproductive father raise you, was your father lazy and stealing chickens and dogs, or was he not able to support the wall without being evil. If not, just don't have any great skills, then Xiao Ke feels that you are already a rotten person when you say such things.

If your father didn't make your living environment very bad because he was lazy, then Xiao Ke wants to say that you have the qualifications to say that your father, he raised you to grow up just for you? How good are you? If you have a chance, let your father see it.

You think that if you say such things, you will have a clear line with your father, and you think that if you say such things, others will think that you will be clear, and others will only laugh at you, and they will only laugh at your ignorance.

Xiao Ke can't accept that others look down on his father, no matter how hard his father makes his life work, no matter how poor the family he gives himself, but his love for us is no less than that of a father from a rich family, he works hard to feed a family with his own hands, even if he doesn't know a big word, but he still calmly does not steal or rob with his own strength to feed you, so that you can live a warm life full of clothes.

What qualifications do you have to dislike your father, an old man who has worked hard to raise you, what ability do you have to look down on your father, you have the ability to make 100 million I will see, you have the ability to let your father live a rich life without working.

If you don't have the ability, you don't want to be reincarnated into a rich family. Others will only feel sorry for their father, it's really a long time to see, and the first time I see someone who looks down on my father is still here to experience.

My father is very unproductive, not only is he unproductive, he has no ability, but he also beats my mother, and I have no other impression of my father except hatred. For as long as I can remember, I have had a sense of fear of my father, he beat my mother, often beating my mother with a blue nose and swollen face, so that I saw him hiding, not daring to look at him, slowly grew up, and the communication with my father became less and less, he rarely went home, my father was like a stranger in my impression, there was no kind of concern between us, there was no missing, I had no feelings for him, there was not much intersection between us, as if I was not his child, he was not my father. <>

My father is very lazy, has no sense of responsibility, has no sense of family, has no interest, is selfish, and I think all the bad terms can be superimposed on him, it's really not an exaggeration at all, the family is about to open the pot, and he won't go out to make money, he will only say my mother, blame my mother for everything, beat my mother, beat my mother at every turn, this is what I hate him the most. As a man, he is nothing, he can't be high, he can't be low, he can't earn big money, he can't look down on small money, let me and my mother suffer with him, forget it, I don't know how to be grateful. His biggest problem was suspicion, which was a key point that led to the end of his marriage with my mom.

In 2006, my brother was born, which was supposed to be a happy thing, but who would have thought that the day after my brother was born, my mother returned home, and my father went to a family at the door to borrow a bicycle and go to the hospital to get something for my mother, but the old man was unwilling to borrow, and my father missed and injured people, and the old man died on the spot. This is undoubtedly a major blow to our family, my brother has just been born, and my dad is so uncompetitive and has such a bad thing. Later, my mother asked someone to find my uncle, anyway, she found all the relationships she could find, so she fished out my dad, and after my dad came out, my brother was already 1 year old.

My mother, a woman, in the confinement, not to mention how many grievances she suffered, in this year, how much she suffered, how many sins she suffered, just after giving birth, her husband had an accident, I know that my mother is sad in her heart, fortunately, my father came back, thinking that he would cherish such a family, no one expected. The first thing he said after he came back was not whether we were doing well, but how much money was still in the family, and then he kept asking my mother where the money was gone, who did he give it to, and he didn't want to think about how he got out, and my mother borrowed money everywhere in order to get my dad out. My dad was so frustrated, my mom told him that he didn't believe it, not that my uncle took his money, my uncle ran around for his business, he didn't say a word of thanks, and in turn bit you, he was not human, and since then, every time I quarreled, I would mention it, and sometimes I would do it, and then my mom left my dad.

The moment I left, I suddenly felt an inexplicable sense of relaxation.

Here, I hope that the majority of netizens, I hope that you will live better and better, and I hope that you will not have such a father.

It's helpless, but what can you do, but don't be overly sad about it.

If your father is not strong, then you will become strong yourself, why should you always count on your own family. I tried to count on my family, but when I saw the difficulties they had at work, I was really sad because it was so hard, so the only thing left for me was to work harder.

My parents are both rural and farmers, so I usually work at home as farming, and my mother's health is not very good, so more often I rest at home, because I can't do heavy work. Although my father is strong, he is now very old, and in the year of destiny, his vigorous posture has long been a thing of the past, but even so, he is still working hard for my life, looking for a job, and there is no complaint for the sake of our family.

When I was a child, I felt that my father was a mountain to me, and whenever I was in trouble, I could find him and let him help me solve my problems. I still remember that when I was a child, my family was very poor and had no money to buy a toy gun, so I made trouble with my father, pestering him whenever I was free for a while, Dad buy me a toy gun, Dad buy me a toy gun.

Maybe my dad wanted to buy a gun for me at that time, but our family was really poor at that time, so my idea of letting my dad buy a gun was naturally impossible, but my dad didn't want me to be so sad, so in the end, my dad made me a toy gun.

Yes, I hope I think about it now, the toy gun my dad made for me was the best toy gun I've ever seen, not one of the best.

And now, I'm able to support myself, and I think part of the reason for this is because of my father, who would still be gnawing at old age if he hadn't given me a sense of crisis.

So when the people around you can't hold an umbrella for you, you have to learn to hold an umbrella for yourself and make yourself stronger, instead of blindly complaining about others.

If the father has such a character, it will be difficult for the child to have a big future in the future, and I hope you are not among them.

1.Habitually the father of the locust acre in the nest.

The first is those fathers who are habitually indulgent, leaving all their bad tempers to their families and even their children. The grievances received outside are all vented to the people around them, which will definitely lead to psychological shadows for the child. Over time, the procuratorate will only make children fear and bored with their fathers, causing a gap between parents and children.

Not only that, but it may also lead to psychological problems in the child, becoming sensitive, lonely and inferior, and even under the bad example of the father, the child becomes a person with low emotional intelligence and hinders the child's future development.

2.Fathers who do not have time for their children.

There is also a kind of father who works desperately outside the home, just to provide a better living condition for the family, but neglects the education and companionship of his children. They may want to create a good standard of living for the family, but the impact on the child is extremely detrimental, in the process of the child's growth, the father's company is very important, and the father's education is indispensable.

Children who have been without their father's company for a long time will definitely have a lack of security compared to other children. Children have a psychological gap, are eager to seek comfort from the outside, are easy to rely too much on others and trust others, and finally let themselves be hurt, and may be frustrated in their careers and marriages, and it is difficult to make a big difference.

3.A father who is always too his children.

A father is always too strict with his children, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of his children. Some fathers firmly believe that filial piety comes from under the stick, and they are very strict with their children, and even use their own high requirements to regulate their children, allowing their children to live under high pressure all year round, without giving their children any encouragement.

Although this father's philosophy and starting point are good, it will only lead to two outcomes for the child. The first is to make the child rebellious and work against his father, and the second is to make the child lack self-confidence and become useless in the future, hoping that you are not such a father.

Take a look at the above performances, have you hit? In order to let children become excellent talents, in addition to letting children work their own, parents must also learn to reflect on themselves. Spend more time with your children in your daily life, master the right way to cultivate and educate your children, and finally, I hope that every child can grow up healthily and become excellent.

Then you will try to be productive. It's his business that your father is incompetent, as long as you have a good life.

The father has no ability and no interest, so he will make himself capable and promising. Filial piety comes first, and his father is still his father, and when he has the ability to do something, he naturally won't feel that his father has no talent and no ability.

A person can choose anything, but he can't choose his parents, a good living environment was created by your parents when he was a child, but when he grows up, it's your own business, there is no need to envy others, such a life needs to be created by yourself.

As the saying goes, heroes don't ask where they come from, how can you still bother with whether your father has the ability when you are capable enough? If my father doesn't have the ability to let us win at the starting line in our lifetime, we have to work hard and strive for opportunities to improve ourselves, so that our parents will be proud of our ability.

Even if your father doesn't have the ability, you raised you so big, as a child, you shouldn't blame your father, what you can do is to work hard and change the fate of yourself and your family.

Get him a job. Help your father find a job, don't just do nothing all day, everyone's ability is limited, you shouldn't be so demanding of him.

I think that our father no longer has the ability to give us life, and we can make our parents live a better life through our own efforts.

Many children look very obedient and sensible when they are young, but whenever they encounter problems, they always retreat and have no responsibility. And many parents will worry about their children, afraid that they will be timid and afraid of things, and they will grow up to be unproductive. In fact, what parents don't notice is that these behaviors of children are actually formed under the subtle influence of parents.

What kind of parents will raise what kind of children, and the reason why children are timid and afraid of things is that the father accounts for a large factor. If your children often live in such an environment, then it is inevitable, so as a father, you should pay attention and don't let your children affect their lives because of you!

In the eyes of the child, the image of the father is majestic and authoritative in the heart, but if your father is arrogant and unreasonable, and has violent tendencies, then it will only have more negative effects on the child's psychology.

Fathers, in the eyes of children is sacred, we should use this to educate children correctly, instead of using this to control beating and scolding children, so that their psychological damage will only get bigger and bigger, so let's not be an arrogant, unreasonable, violent father, but give children more care, so that they will grow up healthier.