I want to talk to someone I like

Say hello first, chat normally, get to know each other, and then tell him what you think.

I don't know who you like, and I don't know if you agree to talk to me, I don't know if you like it or not?

Here's how to chat with someone you like:

1. Understand each other and find out each other's interests

As the saying goes, "know yourself and know your opponent, you will not be defeated in a hundred battles", and when chatting with the person you like, you must first understand where the other party's interests are?

Understand what the other person likes, what kind of person they are, what their personality looks like, lively, quiet, and cold.

You have to learn to put a label on the other party first, and when chatting, you can be in a good sense of proportion.

2. Know how to be proportionate, and don't touch on topics that the other party dislikes

When you chat with someone you like, of course, you want to express your love and make each other happy.

What if in the process of chatting, I don't know where the other party's reverse scales are? Once you accidentally touch it, let alone chatting, it is likely to block you.

Therefore, when chatting, get to know the other party first, and know how to handle the balance when you speak, which will make the other party feel your politeness and cultivation, and will increase your influence points.

3. Be clear about the purpose of chatting, and don't always say something that you don't have

When chatting, we must not only know how to grasp the proportion, but also clarify the purpose of chatting, what is the purpose of chatting, and people are not talking aimlessly.

If you speak unscrupulously, it is easy to offend the other party and make the other party disgusted.

With a clear purpose, it will bring the relationship between the two people closer, for example, chatting is to catch her, so how to catch her? Then say more words of concern, words of praise.

4. Know how to chat humorously, praise and encourage each other in a timely manner

A lifeless way of chatting, no matter how capable you are, is the terminator of the topic, and no one wants to chat in a static, old-fashioned, and unfunny way.

If you want to chat freely with the person you like, then, you must learn a humorous way of chatting, speaking with a sense of joy, and the other party has a smile on his face when he listens, that is a successful way to chat.

However, you must know how to praise and encourage the other person in the chat, when the other party shows you his skills, you should think of praise, and when the other party fails, you think of comfort and encouragement.

5. Be good at using emojis to resolve embarrassment

When two people chat, it is inevitable that there will be some awkward topics, at this time, you must learn to use emojis to express your thoughts.

Funny memes can not only dissolve the cold scene, but also increase the interest of two people in chatting. But you can't use memes all the time, or people really won't know what you're talking about.

6. Be good at listening and let the other person be the protagonist

Especially boys, don't tell girls the truth of life, it will only make you a loner.

When you find that the girl is just posting a few emojis, indicating that she is listening, you have to turn the topic to the other party in time, it is because the girl is no longer interested in chatting with you.