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If your boyfriend dislikes it, then don't talk to him, you can choose our birth in anything, parents can't choose, and no matter what your parents are, we should be filial and respect them. Boyfriends will dislike their parents' work, then the future life will bring a lot, and troubles will affect the relationship between husband and wife, so it is better to divide it as soon as possible and find someone who can love you and accept your parents.
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In fact, it should depend on how your relationship is, if you have a good relationship, your boyfriend will not care about the family. Your parents may have their struggles, or they may be in poor health. Be considerate of your parents!
Your boyfriend won't mind your parents if he loves you. The hard work of the two of you has to be tested in the future, what your parents give is the backer, and what you fight is the country. You two work hard enough, good enough, I believe that your conditions must be very good, so that your parents can also enjoy you.
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Hello friend, judging from the situation you described to him, your boyfriend is in love with you, is living with you, and should have nothing to do with your parents.
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If your boyfriend truly loves you, he won't dislike your parents and family. If he dislikes your parents and family, it is better not to get along with such a boyfriend.
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Parents inspect their son-in-law to see their character, to see if they are self-motivated, and to see if they are really good to you. If you blindly value the man's conditions, a dignified man will work hard, but when you are developed in the future, you will also look down on you and your parents.
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I think that since he is your boyfriend, he will accept all this from you unconditionally and will not dislike you. If he dislikes you, then he doesn't really love you, so don't do it! True love doesn't look at family conditions!
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It depends on whether your boyfriend has deep feelings for you or material conditions, if your relationship foundation is good and the other party doesn't pay attention to these, then you definitely don't mind.
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Most men don't mind what their girlfriend's parents do, but they care if their girlfriend herself does a serious job! As long as it's not stealing, I won't mind.
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If your boyfriend loves you, not only will he not dislike your parents, but your boyfriend will also honor your parents.
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Whether you will dislike it depends on whether you are attracted to him, he pays attention to you and is really looking forward to it
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If your boyfriend is really nice to you and really wants to be with you, these are not a problem, and it is the two of you who live together in the future.
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As long as you and your boyfriend are genuinely in love, don't care about your parents' work, otherwise it won't be true love.
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No, it doesn't matter if your boyfriend loves you whether your parents have a job or not, if he loves you, that's not a problem.
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That kind of boyfriend can be kicked, he is interested in your family background, not you.
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A boy who really loves you, even if the girl's parents are street sweepers, they won't dislike it.
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It depends on your boyfriend, if you have a good relationship, you must be talking about friends.
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Depending on who your boyfriend is, people with higher material requirements may dislike it.
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It is filial piety to the son, and he will not dislike it.
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Your father and your mother are right, but civil servants are not everyone can get in, civil servants are not immutable, before the nineties they all said that being a worker is easy to learn some skills, after so many years workers have become meat on the chopping board to be slaughtered, civil servants have become fragrant buns, you are looking for a boyfriend, maybe his current income is not as much as yours, and in a few years this matter is not clear. Emotion, status, and matching economic interests, what do you want, this is a dilemma, maybe you find a civil servant who can live a beautiful life; But civil service is a high-risk profession. A man engaged in construction and civil servants in the secular concept is a Riba man in the spring and snow, although he can't bring you any rich material conditions, but you are definitely the queen in his heart, and your life may be very fulfilling.
I once participated in a survey on the divorce rate of cadres at the department level, more than 80% of female cadres chose to divorce their husbands after being promoted, these divorced good husbands include taxi drivers, workers, teachers, social existence determines social consciousness, the choice of these women to enter the profession when they divorced, they have visited some men, some are still childhood sweethearts, and their interests and even social status make them strangers. I don't know if you will be promoted, and you should think carefully about it from this level.
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First of all, I would like to express my understanding of you and of your parents.
As a father and mother, the greatest wish is to see the stability of the child, and I do not want the child to suffer. Why does mom nag you and don't nag others, because she loves you and worries that you are not doing well, so you have to understand their love for you.
The only advantage of a stable career is stability, but there are profits and losses in business, and the gray income of civil servants is relatively high, which is okay.
So far, I'll give you advice:
First of all, you have to calm down (abandon your boyfriend's words and parents' words, and calm down yourself) carefully analyze whether your boyfriend is the kind of person who is flexible, can talk and do things, and can do great things in the future, if you think it is, stick to it! Collect some successful examples, such as Gates, such as Lao Yu, etc. If your boyfriend is not like this, then I advise you to give up decisively, because no matter how good the love is, it can't last without bread (this is the truth).
No bread is okay now, but promise to give it to you later, and if you're not sure, a long pain is better than a short one. When your boyfriend's business grows, he may not only give you bread, but also hot pot. But if he failed, he couldn't even afford to drink porridge.
Therefore, you must judge in advance whether he can give you hot pot or porridge in the future. The former insisted, the latter gave up. Don't complain about being too realistic, you can't live if you're unrealistic.
Hope it helps.
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c a waste of my time looking at such useless stuff of yours! It's very right with the words of the first floor Cheap! If I had said it, it would have been even harsher!
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Actually, I think so. Two people together. It's the sincerity that matters. Inner song. Mom and Dad. You can listen to it. Listen aptly.
If you really think he's good. Work is not a problem. We can fight together in the future. You have to know that missing is missing. Since it's the right person. Just cherish it, I think.
Talk to your parents calmly. After all, they're doing it for your own good, right? They will understand you too. Fate is not afraid of all kinds of difficulties.
It's just over a year, though. If you want to stay long, I think you can be a little longer. As for work. He can take his time.
It's important to have a good heart.
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I'll admit that your parents are really cheap.
It's shameless.
Society is too realistic.
It's too snobbish.
Is love really worthless?
Two people love each other, and they will live a dull life in the future.
Isn't that okay?
It is not necessary to marry a civil servant. There are a lot of civil servants. There are also bad ones, and there are good ones, depending on the backstage.
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I'm passing by being disgusted by my boyfriend's parents and sisters.。 I don't like that 157 is not high enough, and my boyfriend is 174. I don't look good, it's the first time in my life that I've been said that.
I don't like my family, I don't like my zodiac, and my birthday is not good. This feeling is just two words: sour.
The solution is nothing more than to communicate with him and help him come up with ideas together, if he doesn't act and has the idea of retreating, then there is really nothing to save. Such a person who has no opinion and can't be the master, and marrying him will not be happy.
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A few years ago, my ex-boyfriend's family was like this, thinking that I was delaying his son, and I couldn't look down on him in every way, and I had to beat him up for a date and toss him back. This experience of being disgusted by her boyfriend's parents is really terrible, especially if you haven't met yet. When I was young, I thought that as long as there was love, nothing was a problem, but later I realized how naïve it was.
It turns out that what doesn't like you at first is not as important as their first impression, even if it's wrong. And the attitude of your boyfriend, I can't judge it as negative, at least I don't feel positive, I can't coordinate and communicate with my family, I think this thing is quite terrible, his family doesn't approve, his attitude is not firm, don't communicate, things will be difficult to do. The subject himself said that he was more than enough in all aspects, and such an excellent person has every reason and ability to choose a person who is right with him and treats you well and takes the problem seriously.
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is being disgusted by her boyfriend's parents, and she is disgusted with height, weight, lack of college student vitality, and all kinds of superstitious factors. I happened to be studying abroad on an exchange, and when I knew the news and broke up because of this, I was devastated, crying in class, crying when I walked, and I was almost crazy. But when I returned to China, I still got back together, because I still felt for each other, and I could clearly feel that my boyfriend had become more assertive and manly.
Although I still didn't know when I would break up when I got back together, I was still willing to believe that I could go to the last step. I think all the problems depend on the man, as long as he is responsible and brave enough, the parents are not a problem at all.
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Before I got married, I was also disgusted by my in-laws, who thought I was ugly and short (height 155), forced my husband to break up with me, and severed the relationship between father and son, but my husband did not compromise and handed over the keys to the house, and he didn't want his parents to be with me! After more than half a year, his parents compromised, and then they got married, and now they have two children, and they live very happily, and my husband is looking at me for everything.
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"My boyfriend's parents and I dislike each other, hehe, I dislike them mainly because they dislike me, I think my face is too small, I don't do housework, I can spend money and spend their son's money, and I don't stick to their family money, but I don't care, your son likes me, and you continue to find things like this, which can only make it difficult for your son, I don't care if you look down on me"
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I have never been disliked!! They were amazed at how I could have fallen in love with their son
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