I want my boyfriend to come and help me farm the land, but my boyfriend refuses, is it necessary to

There is no need to continue, because the boyfriend has no common goal with him, and he will not be happy in the future.

If your boyfriend refuses to help, it means that he doesn't want to go into your world, and there is no need for this relationship to continue. Romantic relationships that don't have a common goal and pursuit won't last. Because two people know each other and fall in love, they must have a common tacit understanding and a mutual affection, so that they can go further and enter a happy marriage.

I think that after being rejected by my boyfriend, it means that my boyfriend and I are not on the same frequency, and there is no tacit understanding in such love, and I will not be too happy in the future.

If farming is only an occasional thing that can be solved by asking someone to help, there is no need to ask your boyfriend to help your boyfriend's refusal, there may also be his reason, for example, your boyfriend has his own career or is busy with his own affairs, there is no need to sacrifice everything to help his girlfriend farm, as long as he really loves himself, then this kind of love can still continue, so after being rejected by his boyfriend, report a one-size-fits-all report, if you feel embarrassed and unacceptable, you can directly end the relationship, If you feel that you love your boyfriend or that your boyfriend loves you too, you can carefully consider understanding the reasons for his rejection and find a balance between the two.

When you fall in love with your boyfriend, you will have your own career and your own life, you shouldn't impose your boyfriend on your life and career, if your boyfriend wants to fit in, it's his business, if your boyfriend refuses, he also has his own ideas, because it's just that love hasn't entered the marriage, boyfriend, it's impossible to give up everything to follow his girlfriend's footsteps, if a man has no self or loses himself, such a man doesn't have much charm.

Therefore, if you want your boyfriend to help you farm but are rejected, you should think carefully, if you want to take farming as your main occupation in the future, he will occupy most of his time in the future, then your boyfriend will face separation or long-distance relationship after refusal.

It will make the relationship between two people weaker and weaker, the distance is getting farther and farther away, and it may end in a breakup, so such a relationship can end as soon as possible, if the feelings between two people are very deep, they can both pursue their own careers, and after marriage, one party will give up or work hard, as long as they feel happy, others will not interfere.

In life, many female friends are mostly from rural areas, so they need to go home to help with farming during holidays. At this time, female friends will think of their boyfriends and want to ask their boyfriends to help with farming, but they are rejected by their boyfriends, so female friends will re-examine this relationship. But it is not possible to judge the feelings of two people by this incident.

Although farming is a very common thing, everyone has the right to refuse. And in the process of falling in love, the other party is not an accessory to himself, so he has his own thoughts, and he has the right to reject female friends, don't be unreasonable, and don't think that the other party doesn't love you or that this relationship shouldn't go to the end. If you think about it from another perspective, if a boy asks a female friend to go home to help with farming, most girls will choose to refuse at this time, so you should also understand the psychology of your male friend.

If in daily life, the boyfriend is very good to him, and he respects his parents very much, he will come to see his parents if he has nothing to do, he will buy gifts for his parents, and even take care of his emotions, then such a boyfriend is very good. It is very likely that the reason for the rejection is because I have never planted the land since I was a child, and I am afraid that it will not be planted well, or I love cleanliness very much, so I don't want to deal with this soil. Female friends must understand their boyfriend's situation, if the other party is an authentic rural person, but rejects herself, then there is no need for this relationship to go on.

Finally, I want to say that everyone's thoughts about feelings are different, and the feelings of female friends are more delicate, and it is a wrong behavior to think that male friends don't love themselves because of a little thing. At this time, you can ask the other party the reason, if the other party directly says that he doesn't want to or has a perfunctory attitude, does not consider his own feelings, and speaks cynically, then the female friend should re-examine the relationship.

It mainly depends on the relationship between the two of you, if the previous relationship is very strong, it is because of this small problem, there is no need to break up, if the previous relationship has already cracked, from this point it can be reflected that the boy does not really love you, then break up as soon as possible.

I don't think it's necessary, he's more selfish than others, and such a boy won't be very happy with him.

This situation cannot be generalized, it is his right for the boyfriend to choose to refuse, and he may also have other reasons for refusing to help you farm, which cannot reflect his character problems.