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Everyone has their own business, if you always count on others to do it for you, after a long time, others will dislike you, and at the same time, you will lower your personality. You should do your own thing, if you expect others to help you in your own things, what will you use to repay others' favors in the future.

There are two dilemmas in the world: it is difficult to reach the sky, and it is even more difficult to ask for people. There are two afflictions on earth:

Coptis is bitter, and it is even more bitter without money. There are two risks in the world: rivers and lakes are more dangerous, and people's hearts are even more dangerous.

There are two thins in the world: spring cakes are thin, and human affection is thinner. If there is fate, if you miss it, you will come back; If you don't have a chance, you will leave if you meet.

There is a reason to get together, and there is an excuse to leave. People who love you will follow you, and people who think of you will contact you. Life is like a dandelion, it seems to be free, but it can't help itself.

Some things are not that you don't care, but that you care about what you can do. There are no ifs in life, only regrets and results! Thousands of high-rise buildings rise from the ground, and life has to rely on yourself!

Helping others is a virtue, and for those who are helped, remembering this love is not also a virtue? Helping others is not to let others repay a favor, but just to make yourself feel at ease.

Yes, this society has to rely on itself, and others help for a while.

Indeed, you can't just ask for it.

Actually, there is no need to have so many ideas, it is good to be simple and help each other a little.

Yes, we rely on others to do everything and do not rely on ourselves, we accept the help of others, and we still need to pay it back in the future.

Rather, it is said that even the same person can have different outlooks on life, and some just don't want to cause adverse effects on others. In a word, there is nothing right or wrong many times, and the envy of Bai Shi turbidity steel chokes.

After working for so many years, although I haven't met many people and experienced many things, the accumulation of small things is also very important to your education, isn't it?

You have a good character in the company, and you do your job very well, but due to various reasons, you can also have doubts about your ability, and you will hold the mentality that it has nothing to do with you, and you can hide.

But when you encounter a problem, you think that with your own character, someone will definitely take the initiative to help you, but you find that there is not, then you are cheeky to ask for help from others, and people are also unwilling, at this time you will wonder if you have offended others?

Actually, no, no one is obligated to help you, helping others is helping yourself.

Even if the relationship is intimate, it is impossible to ask the other party to blindly pay, and any relationship needs to be maintained by both parties.

Since childhood, our parents have taught us to do our own things, how? Could it be that with a boyfriend and a girlfriend, you lose this ability?

Family affection, the reason why love is intimate is also that both parties are willing to change for each other on the premise of maintaining mutual respect.

The effect of force is mutual, and so is affection, if you are good to him, he will naturally be good to you.

I am a little girl who moves bricks, I hope you always have the appearance of your original intention, always have a grateful heart, and be helpful.

Summary. When everyone has difficulties in life, Ma Yun, Ma Huateng, and Liu Qiangdong are not successful in entrepreneurship all at once, they have also experienced many, many failures, but the most important thing is that you have experienced these things, is that you really want to start a business, want to do, you don't have to care about the result, the important thing is that you have this experience, you have this experience is enough, what the result will naturally be successful, what kind of natural will happen.

Even if your family doesn't want to help you, can you expect others to help you?

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Hello, Gao Gao's scum is counting to answer the question for you, the family must be the most willing to help us Liang Hongru's family is very special to him, so outsiders are even more reluctant to help him.

I just hit the family **, and I don't want to.

If the family is unwilling, then it means that your status in the minds of the family is not particularly high, and you may not be satisfied with the family before the trip.

I'll have to figure it out myself.

Then this situation may also be a test for you by your family, wanting you to grow up quickly.

Now, there's really no way around it.

I'll just ask you.

If you are short of money, you can apply for a loan in the bank, and if it is some employment behavior, you can find a good friend who plays around you.

If you have a question, it means that your mind is still very open-minded, and you have slowly envied Jianjing more than many filial people of the same age around you, and they may just think about it when they encounter difficulties, and they can't think of asking us at all.

This means that your brain, your thoughts, and your actions are all very mature and have beaten many people around you.

I also took out a loan, but I couldn't get it, and then because I failed to start my own business in the first half of the year, I am now short of money, and my life has become my own difficulty.

When everyone has difficulties in life, Ma Yun, Ma Liquid Wu Huateng, and Liu Qiangdong are not successful in starting a business, they have also experienced a lot of mistakes or failures, but the most important thing is that you have experienced these things, you really want to start a business, want to do it, you don't have to care about the result, the important thing is that you have this experience, you have this experience is enough, what the result will naturally be successful, what kind of natural will happen.

The main thing is that now I am penniless, and eating and lodging have become a problem.

You can borrow money from a friend or take out a loan, which can help you.

Or you can apply for some grants, which will be paid out every year.

When you're in trouble, not everyone will help you, even if you usually feel like you're on good terms. Anyone who has a little social experience will be aware of this, and let go of illusions about others. It is precisely on this basis that we need to reconsider and position the expectations of others from a utilitarian perspective.

First, if someone else is willing to help you, either you are a person who has the value of helping, and God judges that he just wants to help you, or both. Whatever the reason, this person must be his own person, and it is best to include such a person in the basic market, cherish it, manage it well, and become a reliable ally of himself in the future.

Second, if others are unwilling to help me, don't be surprised, don't be angry, and don't let emotions cover your eyes. The more this time, the more you need to think about two questions clearly:

From my own standpoint, what kind of problems do I have that cause others to look on the wall at this time? Is it because the strength is not enough, or is the personal charm not enough? If it's the former, don't blame others, it's not just for yourself when you come out to mix, it's best to try to make yourself stronger; If it's the latter, sum up the lessons well, work hard to cultivate your character, and improve your personality charm.

Standing in the position of the other party, pushing back at this time is nothing more than wanting to wait for the price to sell. That being the case, if I can give him the price he wants, then give it to him, and as long as I have a profit, the exchange is worthwhile; In addition, I can also use this to recognize a person, which can be regarded as killing two birds with one stone. If I can't give him the price he wants, then I can only keep my mouth shut and admit it, and I can't show the posture of repenting and scolding the street.

However, in the future, I will adjust my strategy towards him, neither have illusions nor resentments, and pull as much as I can, but never go into my safe zone.

Summary. Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer for you Yes, the person who said to help you may not necessarily help you, maybe the friendship is not deep, and others are also going back on their word, it's normal, maybe he is just casually saying polite words

The person who says to help you won't necessarily help you.

Dear, hello, I'm glad to answer for you Yes, the person who said to help you may not necessarily help you, maybe the friendship is not deep, and others are also going back on their word, it's normal, maybe he is just casually saying polite words

A person who says he can help you, but when you talk about the substance, you ignore it, not just talking.

Kiss, what do you look at in this way, he may have difficulties and can't help, do you think he has the ability to help you?

If he doesn't have the ability to help, then you can forgive him, if he has the ability but doesn't help, it's not a bad thing to recognize the person's true nature through this matter

I didn't know if he had the ability, and when I said I didn't need help, he ignored me, saying that I looked down on him.

Kiss, he may be too inferior.

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He thinks too much, and there is a little problem in his heart

This is admitted, a very simple thing can be complicated to think about.

Kiss, then you don't have to take it to heart what he says, for this kind of person is not worth it, he should also be more pitiful, and want to prove himself in front of his friends, but he can't do it, and he <> a rake

Beat a rake upside down and say that others can't do it.

Indeed, as you say, alas!

Alas, if you don't make this kind of friend, we are not a psychiatrist and can't help him, maybe he doesn't admit that he has a problem in his heart

Poor and infuriating

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Summary. Hello, this situation is a product of modern life is a normal manifestation, you need to relax and treat these boring things and people correctly, these people are not worthy of deep friendship, so you don't have to worry about it. Have a great day!

In modern times, some people ask you to help, and you keep helping, and in the end, if you don't help, others will hate you. Some people say that when someone asks you to help, you don't want to help, wait until you are in a good mood.

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