Work and love in real life, after work, will people treat love more realistically?

What's wrong, no confidence? I can see that you are quite responsible, but you also have a little inferiority. If you have a tempting person, don't give up, otherwise you will regret it later.

As for what you said, the reality is also on the one hand, you can confess to others generously, and you won't even have the right to confess if you have financial difficulties. You can say to someone you like, "I love you, and I can't afford to provide you with good material conditions right now, and you won't stop me from loving you for that reason."

I will work hard ... When the conditions are a little better, I will let you be my girlfriend. "After that, it's your practical actions, work hard, play hard...

Work hard and strive to raise another person, hehe. This is the most positive method, and I don't know if it will help you. It's certain to feel uncomfortable, but don't be discouraged, it's useless to be discouraged, hurry up and work hard.

What you say is incomprehensible.

Are love and work conflicting? If these two words are simply spoken, it should be impossible to contradict each other.

Unless there's something else between your love and your work.

I don't know what's holding you in between, but if you really love, love deeply.

For the sake of love, it's worth letting go of something.

If you are hesitating, then, this is not love, since it is not love, please let go.

The key is that you must have self-confidence, work hard in society with confidence, and boldly pursue the person you like, so that you can have a double harvest in career and love.

Love can be there without money, and life can't be without money, the ** of money is to have a job.

If it were me, I'd work hard and love would put it aside.

As long as the love without money can persist, it is even sweeter than the love with money! More loyalty!

You are very lucky and happy, you can work together to create the future.

Love and work together.

In the future, you will have your own little universe.

There is no doubt that people will be more realistic about love after work, and pay more attention to material life than campus love.

First of all, compared to the 18-24 age group on campus, working people are in love at the age of 25 and above, and have begun to gradually achieve financial independence. Once you have a certain financial situation, it is normal to have requirements for your other half, especially girls, who may not be able to accept boys who earn less than themselves and whose career prospects are not so good. Secondly, when you are over 25 years old, many people have to start thinking about love for the purpose of marriage, and when you get married, you have to consider many practical issues other than love, so it is normal for falling in love to become more realistic.

In work love, lovers have each other's educational background, income requirements, family conditions and career planning, especially many people begin to take into account the other half's household registration, free time at work, and education of their children. Otherwise, there will not be so many people in first-tier cities who give up high-paying jobs to make a hukou in order to get a dry job. Many girls no longer yearn for the sweet love of campus idol dramas, but instead require certain material security.

Therefore, the influence of the family and the people around you will also be uncensored, so that everyone will gradually be assimilated. In fact, it is just a matter of what stage people think about what they should consider, and the older they get, the more realistic they may become.