l Will the children of divorced families be affected?

There must be an impact, and the smaller the child, the greater the impact, the single-parent family will have a lot of problems for the child, the world is a fusion of yin and yang, so as to balance, the woman's attitude towards the child, and the man's education of the child is completely different, the lack of which will cause imbalance, it is definitely not good for the child.

So there aren't many couples who don't divorce for the sake of their children.

It cannot be said that as long as the children in a single-parent family are inferior to both parents, because this is an indefinite comparison, the children are different, and the environment is not the same.

But let's just say that with such a child, if his parents don't divorce, he will live a better life.

The impact will be great! After all, children grow up every day, and the neighbors know some trivial things, and they will talk to the children, even if they don't say it, when the people in the village gather to chat, they will mention what the neighbor's house is talking about, so that the children will listen to it, and it will hurt a lot, because I have experienced such a thing (of course, my parents are not divorced) hehe......

You tell me? Wouldn't it? Do you want a divorce? Do you have children?

You tell me? Wouldn't it? Do you want a divorce? Do you have children?

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Legal Analysis: The impact of a divorced family on children is generally psychological, such as low self-esteem, and a discordant family environment can make children feel nervous about interpersonal relationships and a sense of loneliness.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 1085:After divorce, where children are directly raised by one party, the other party shall bear part or all of the child support. The amount of the cost to be borne and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

The agreement or judgment provided for in the preceding paragraph does not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent in excess of the amount originally set forth in the agreement or judgment when necessary.

Article 1087:In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by mutual agreement; If an agreement is not reached, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of the property and in accordance with the principle of taking care of the rights and interests of the children, the woman, and the innocent party.

The rights and interests enjoyed by husbands or wives in the contracting and management of family land shall be protected in accordance with law.

First, let's take a look at how the divorce of parents affects the children.

Parental divorce will inevitably bring a certain psychological impact to young children, children's three views have not yet been formed, can not mature to deal with life changes, parents divorce will bring what psychological changes to children?

After the parents divorce, there are five main psychological changes in children:

1. Fear.

Under normal circumstances, no child would want their parents to divorce, unless they live in a turbulent environment full of quarrels and scolding, so the first time children learn that their parents are divorced, they will have fear, worry about their future, and even more afraid that they will be abandoned by their parents, how they should live next, and so on.

2. Depression.

The divorce of parents is a huge family change for children, and children must adapt to the fact that their parents will not live together in the future.

If it is a peaceful breakup, it is fine, in case the divorce is due to a serious family dispute, after seeing the process of parents accusing each other, the child's life experience is not enough to deal with all this, and he will feel lonely and helpless, and fall into depression.

3. Loss of security.

Every child wants to have a happy, stable and healthy growth environment, where parents respect each other and siblings are harmonious and happy, which is an innate need for security. If there is a crisis in the parents' marriage, the children can feel the subtle changes in the family atmosphere, they will lose their sense of security, they will worry about their future situation, and they will worry about their parents.

Fourth, irritable and irritable, fragile and sensitive.

Due to long-term low self-esteem, insecurity and fear, children from divorced families have greater mood swings than children from normal families, and the environment and things they encounter are more complex and uncontrollable.

Therefore, many children from divorced families are sensitive, fragile and irritable.

Fifth, the inferiority complex.

Many children have strong self-esteem, care about the eyes of their classmates and friends, and are afraid that others will know that their parents are divorced.

In addition, when I saw my classmates picking up and dropping off my parents after school, but my parents parted ways, the seeds of low self-esteem naturally grew. This inferiority complex cannot be shaken off, and all children from single-parent families will have varying degrees of inferiority complex.

The above are the more common psychological problems that children from divorced families will have, but each child's life and growth environment are different, and the things they encounter are also different, so not all children will have the situations described above, and some will only appear individually or none.

The impact of parental divorce on children needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis:

1. Inappropriate marriage, after divorce, has a great impact on children, especially for children who grow up in single-parent families, their personalities are lacking, many of them are autistic, do not like to communicate with others, and finally lead to unsound personalities;

2. If the husband and wife quarrel for a long time or one party has long-term domestic violence, the divorce of both parties is more beneficial to the growth of the children.

After the divorce, parents should also take on all the responsibilities of parenting and education, try to put their children in a normal family living environment, so that children feel that their home is still there, and their parents still love them.

After the divorce, the parent who does not directly raise the child has the right to visit the child, and the other parent has the obligation to assist. The method and time of exercising the right to visitation shall be determined by the communication between the parents.

Legal basis

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1084.

The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. Where the parents of a child who has reached the age of two and cannot reach an agreement on the issue of support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.