My boyfriend said he likes bland love

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Let's break up! Me and my ex-boyfriend are like this, he is also my first love, I am as naïve as you! In fact, there is no need to go down like that, it is you who will be hurt at that time, you can endure it for 3 years, 5 years and 10 years, but can you endure it for a lifetime?

    If you can stand him like that, just go ahead! Think about it for a lifetime!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    What else does this kind of person want him to do"? Is... I can't figure it out, you.。。

    There is indeed a plot of first love, but if it is because it is the first love, it is difficult for you to take it into your life?

    Sister, eh.。。。 Forget it. Eight months is not a long time.

    My boyfriend also wants bland feelings. But that's a dull life, not an excuse for himself,,, you can find someone better to love you. Don't get confused.

    Still begging him to be reconciled? We girls really have to live our own lives and have our own dignity. We can tolerate and tolerate, but we just can't let others trample on our dignity!

    You're not good to yourself. Who cares about you? Who cares about you?

    Don't blame me for speaking straight. That's what reality looks like. Are you compromising and useful?

    For a while, you put up with it. But how long are you going to do this?

    I'm willing to cook and do laundry for him, but the premise is mutual respect... Sister,You're older than me.,You'd better think about it yourself.。。 Although it is the first love.

    However, this relationship is really not worth putting yourself in, remember to have our own life and space. LOVE YOURSELF ... Keep your distance.

    Stay away, he will realize your goodness, in order to realize your importance...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you truly love him, make peace with him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You guys broke up, right? You don't love him anymore, do you? So why force yourself??? It's not very hard if you two are like this all the time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In the relationship, it is not easy to really be able to afford to let go, sometimes it is not that we can't let go, but we don't want to let go in our hearts, a person always has to take a strange road, see unfamiliar scenery, listen to unfamiliar songs, maybe at some inadvertent time, you will find that the things that you originally worked hard to forget are actually easy to forget, but you don't want to forget. Boyfriend thinks it's okay to fall in love ordinarily and plainly, are all boys like this? Not all boys are like this, every boy has a different view of feelings, and the way of loving someone is also different.

    One. Plain love is the love that many people pursue.

    In relationships, many people hope that they can live a dull life with their partner, and I think that a dull life will only make life swallow each other's feelings. Over time, two people together are like a family, they can't feel the magic of love, sometimes we have to warm up our love, Qi Wei once said that every man has the potential to become a husband, and we must continue to explore these potentials. Otherwise, it is difficult to find your own feelings in life, and the feelings are slowly lost.

    Two. Not all boys like a dull life.

    In fact, many boys still have a sense of ritual in their relationship, and when it comes to some festivals, they will buy small gifts for their objects, or go to the world of two with each other. Boys want to be bland, maybe they want to be bland, but that doesn't mean all boys are the same. If your object is a very plain person, we can also change each other, boys can change, provided that the other party is the person you love very much, and is willing to become a better version of yourself for each other.

    The above is just a personal opinion, so do you think all boys like to have a more bland relationship?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think that in the process of falling in love, plain is the most real feeling, and there is no need to find vigorous, but the more plain and real the more secure.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Most of them are, after all, life is brought in, and there is nothing wrong with being ordinary, and those boys who don't want this kind of love are 1 very attentive people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Can't generalize, this depends on the actual situation and their own character, my boys may need to be bland, and some boys need vigorous love, as long as they find the right one for themselves, they will be very sweet.

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