What did you do when you found out that you were a spare tire?

Leave. There may be a lot of people who will say, can you do it?

Maybe that man is your true love, but have you ever thought about what he thinks of you? Don't let your love for him be a reason for him to hurt you.

I'm sure I'm her spare tire, but I can't let go of her, I'm fighting with myself every day, letting go or continuing to wait for her, deciding to let go, and the next day I'm reluctant, or continue to wait for her, torturing myself like this every day, I don't know why, maybe I'll really let go when I've saved enough and be disappointed.

A spare tire that does not seek to be turned positive is not an ideal spare tire.

Well, just be prepared, don't spend money, talk once a week and keep in touch. Then cast the net, choose the fish, and once there is one holding hands with you, release the others. It's a process of mutual selection.

Leave without explanation, go to someone who really cares about me.

I was compared to a spare tire, but I couldn't do it.

It's too hard to give up, I can't bear it, and I'll be deceived all the time! Maybe this is the true love of this life.

left decisively, I can only say that she chose the wrong person, or that I saw the wrong person, and they didn't have that heart for each other, no matter what, it was useless.

Give yourself and him a chance, after all, it's not easy to encounter, not to mention walking together again, just like this, everyone is unwilling.

I shouldn't have contacted him, because being together is because we love each other and trust each other, and if we are easily treated as a spare tire, there is nothing to save.

Just pretend that you don't know anything and be good to her as before, and if I'm not good enough for her to wake her up, I'll leave her.

As a man who broke up decisively, you have to ask me why, only I cuckolded others, and no one else cuckolded me.

There must be a reason, after all, I love him so much, I will ask him for clarification, I never believe that he will leave me for no reason.

Since you have chosen him, you have to believe in him, or it may be your own problem, try to solve it to save the situation, not that you can walk away without it.

Just leave silently, don't explain anything and don't need any explanation, if she really cares, she won't let go, she will come back.

I believe that people have feelings, no one will betray anyone without a reason, I just need a reason, a reason that can convince me, otherwise it will be endless.

Give her a chance to explain, no matter what happens, communication is the best way, not necessarily what it seems.

If you find out that you have become a spare tire, it must be a decisive breakup. Because he is a spare tire, it means that he is an alternative, he has someone he loves deeply, or he doesn't have a person he loves deeply, he is just playing with everyone. Such a person does not take his feelings seriously and is destined to be fruitless.

You need to break up in time and then find your new feelings.

I'll leave. I'm good, I'm good, I'm good and I deserve to be treated with sincerity. It's not my fault that I gave a lot to become a spare tire, but if I continue to feel this relationship, I don't care about myself.

Since you have found out that you have become a spare tire, it must be to leave him, because if he treats you as a spare tire, he thinks that you will never leave him, and then he will always revolve around him, then he will never really like you, so if you don't leave him, what are you doing with him?

Decisively let go, you will feel unwilling after letting go, but this has violated your three views, so there will be no result, only pay no return, so decisively let go is the best choice, so as to be worthy of yourself.

If you find that you have become a spare tire, you should take a serious look at the specific situation, analyze the current situation, if the other party doesn't care about you, just think of you when you need it, break up quickly, and stay away from him.

will be separated from each other immediately, anyone's feelings are worthy of respect, if the other party knows that he likes it, and does such a thing, it will definitely be separated.

I found out that I became a spare tire, and I felt that there was really no need to continue, and I should break up immediately, because he is not dedicated to your feelings. He doesn't really love you, he really loves you, and he won't let you be a spare tire.

Sometimes love is like that, it can humble you to the dust. But you never thought that there would be a woman or him in your life who would treat you as you wished.

If you can't get it, you should be free, your open-mindedness will become your capital, and no one wants to love someone who doesn't even love themselves.

may break up immediately, or immediately cut off all relationships with the other party, will not contact the other party again, and will make their own decisions.

If I find out that someone I like is using me as a spare tire, then I will just turn around and leave this person without looking back.

I would break up with this person directly, because this person is very unreliable and there is no need to waste time on him.

I will choose to separate, and I will also stay away from such people, because such people are very unworthy of my sadness.

You should leave the other party decisively, because the other party regards herself as a spare tire, and she also disrespects herself, and her own contribution has no meaning, so you should stay sober.

At this time, you must leave the other party in time, and you must break up with the other party in time, this is because with such a person, you will gradually lose yourself, and in the end you can only be hurt.

If you suddenly find yourself a spare tire, I think it's better to leave this person as soon as possible, this person has no bottom line and no principles in doing things, and if you continue, it is yourself who will be hurt.

First of all, we need to think, why do we feel like we are a spare tire? Because the other party has other ambiguous people? So why can't the other party have other ambiguous people?

Falling in love is a big deal, and I don't want to fall in love for the sake of falling in love, of course I want to go with the flow. And one of the things that goes with the flow is that you can choose. Going with the flow is certainly not about forcing others, or pushing yourself – I have a crush on you, or you have a crush on me, and that liking shouldn't be a burden, it's just a fact.

I'm willing to share it with you. You come to me to share your happiness and discomfort, even to share your boredom with me, I like you, and that's my honor. Who wouldn't want someone they like to come close to them.

Secondly, if you feel wronged, what have you paid? It's nothing more than saying I like you, it's nothing more than being on call, it's nothing more than spending a little money and time. You know that there are risks in investment, high risk and high return, so why do you have to promise others that you are completely risk-free if the return of love is not low?

Feeling that you are not taken seriously is boring, turning around and leaving, this is of course very chic, as if you are willing to gamble and lose, but then go back and blame others for not necessarily giving you to win money, you are a spare tire lost and deceived, it is more ungraceful.

I think it's better not to see yourself as a spare tire, or to say that it is not too early to think that the other party is the real life is the respect for the feelings of both parties. Love needs to be cultivated, love is like art, it needs both inspiration and exercise, don't think that with a little inspiration, you can be a master, and if you can't do it, you feel sorry for yourself. Respect a little love, respect a little bit of your own feelings, start with friends, learn to let the other party accept the dedication, learn to let the other party accept the intimacy, learn to accept the kindness of others, learn to understand the difficulties of others, learn to give each other freedom, also learn to examine the other party's quality, learn to give, and learn to keep a distance - don't be wishful thinking and feel like a spare tire when you fail.

You are the protagonist in your relationship, and the first step to learning to love others is to love yourself first.

I feel like I'm a spare tire, which means it's not 100% confirmed. I think, first of all, I have to confirm it, in case I misunderstand my lover because of my own worries, wouldn't it be a sad heartbreak in vain, and it will hurt the feelings between lovers.

Therefore, I think it is necessary to verify it, at this time you can do all kinds of small actions, such as often looking for a lover to go out on a date or get along with each other recently, you can tell the other party that you have encountered some problems and confusion, or you are very confused, and you can even say that you are very sad, and hope that the other party will accompany you more.

If the other party agrees without hesitation, and really does what he says, and will spend a lot of time with you, then maybe you are too worried.

But if the other party is always looming, sometimes taking the initiative to accompany you, sometimes disappearing, and when you express to the other party that you need him very much, the other party always finds all kinds of excuses to avoid it. If it's really too busy at work, it's a different story, and if it's obviously an excuse, then you really have to think about it.

If you can be sure that you are already a spare tire, then you should think about your next step, whether you are willing to be a spare tire and wait for one day in the future to turn positive? It's better to break up sooner rather than later.

I want to say that the chance of a spare tire turning positive is relatively small, and don't you think it's a very cheap and time-consuming thing? Why do you want to spoil yourself so much?

Of course, you can also have a showdown, talk directly to the other party, talk about your future, if the other party is vague and completely irresponsible, then this kind of lover is better to leave as soon as possible.

If during the conversation, the other party is very serious about you, has considered your future, and is not casually talking, then you can tell the other party your expectations, such as when you want to prepare for marriage, or buy a house together, etc., so that you can see the weight of your other party's mind, and then consider whether you want to leave or persevere.

Finding out that he is a spare tire, how should a boy fight back beautifully?

Whether it is a positive tire or a spare tire, you like him, this is a fact, it is your own choice, it is your willingness, if you can take the initiative to put him down, then you let go, if you can't let go, then feel at ease to be a spare tire!

It's up to you what you think! If you are willing to make a spare tire, then go on, and maybe one day you will be in the position. Or leave her, forget about her, and start a new relationship.

When the opportunity comes, don't care about the reason, we just go forward, and we will go further. Once you have a ticket, you should be concerned about how you go next and how far you can go, not whether other people are getting their chances.

What you say is only necessary, not complete; also try to let go of feelings, recharge and learn, and accumulate knowledge and strength; Then wait until the person who loves you or the person you love, and then pursue it again ...

Give up the pursuit. Otherwise, it is you who will hurt deeply.

Give up decisively, you should have a little dignity in life, don't give up like this.

What should you do if you really like someone, but they treat you as a spare tire? I believe that many boys or girls have encountered such problems, if you meet such a person, it is better not to be too easy to pay sincerely. Not only in love, but also in other relationships, there will be similar problems.

What should I do if I find out that I am a spare tire?

1. If you really don't want to lose him or have worse conditions than him, you might as well spend your time pursuing it. 2. My own conditions are very good in all aspects, and I must learn to let go. 3. Learn to indulge in what you want.

How can you tell if you are a spare tire? 1 He was always late. 2. You are personable and courteous, but the other party does not buy it and does not appreciate it. 3 He can't appreciate your sense of humor, you can't amuse him at all, brother, hurry up and settle the bill.

If you find that you are a spare tire, of course, you will turn around and leave.

In a relationship, what is more terrible than the non-person you love is that the person you love uses you as a spare tire. If the other party doesn't love you, show it to you directly, then he is still a sincere person, at least give you a good time, and don't let you continue to waste time. If the other party doesn't love you and wants to hang you, it's definitely scum, and it's normal to be disappointed, after all, people who really like you don't take yourself seriously, just use it as a spare tire, and anyone is sad.

But after being sad, you have to feel lucky, say goodbye to the wrong person, and you have the opportunity to meet the right person.

After saying goodbye to the wrong person, the most important thing you can do is to improve yourself. As the saying goes, "things gather by like, people by groups", if your own ability can rise to a higher level, then the people you will meet in the future will be more excellent and high-quality. If you are always complaining, disappointed, and stuck in an unrequited relationship, your life will become more and more miserable and hopeless.

Therefore, from the moment you say goodbye to the "scum" people, cheer up, do what you like to do, read more books and study, and work hard to polish your favorite skills to the top level, when your spiritual realm climbs to a new level, you will find that some of the tribulations and setbacks in the past are small things in life, and there is no need to worry about it.

When you get better, the people you meet will be better, don't be disappointed, be glad that the scum gives you the opportunity to become better. I believe that you are better, in the future, you will meet someone who really makes your heart and your heart moves, people of the same frequency will always resonate, and interesting souls will also attract each other, I hope you will meet another partner who fits with the soul as soon as possible.