How did a guy find out he was a spare tire?

How to tell if you are a spare tire.

In fact, not every relationship is actually a happy relationship, maybe a person will treat the other party as a spare tire, just be with you temporarily, and then look for the person in his heart.

How to judge whether a boyfriend treats himself as a spare tire, first of all, we have to analyze it from three aspects.

The first is to see your boyfriend's whereabouts, whether you have all of them, for example, he goes to socialize, or he is at home, you know, if your boyfriend treats you as a spare tire, he will be very mysterious, every time you tell you is working overtime or on a business trip, and then you have no way to know his pure whereabouts, and the place where your boyfriend takes you must not be a place with many people, and will not even take you to meet your parents or some of his good friends.

Because the guy is willing to take his girlfriend to meet his friend, I think it's just facing this relationship, if he can't even do this, then it's very likely that you are just a hidden spare tire.

The second is to see how two people get along with each other, generally speaking, men and women in love must have endless topics, and both parties are actually very interested in everything about each other, if the communication between the two of you is usually you talk a lot, and the other party is just answering, then I think it may just be your wishful thinking.

The third is to see what your boyfriend's attitude towards you is, if your boyfriend's attitude towards you is hot and cold, and he will never pay for you, you will always pay silently, maybe sometimes your boyfriend will be very enthusiastic about you, but sometimes he will be very cold to you for some reason, and even don't tell you his whereabouts, etc., I think you have to think about it carefully, see if this man really loves you, women don't be too blind in love, Sometimes we should look at things with our own hearts.

Then it depends on the boy's attitude towards you, if he has a very good attitude towards you, and also cares about you, and at the same time there will be no other friends besides you, it means that he really loves you and will not treat you as a spare tire.

If this guy loves you very much, often introduces you to friends and takes you to meet family, it means that he does not treat you as a spare tire, and vice versa.

If a guy uses you as a spare tire, he usually won't talk to you during the day, and the frequency of chatting with himself is only once for a long time.

Judging whether a boy treats you as a spare tire, it can generally be seen from the usual behavior, when the boy is not concerned about you, just want to escape the problem, do not solve the conflict between you, usually accompany you with very little time, and give not much care, so that you feel very helpless, do not want to coax you to be happy, but maintain a very ambiguous relationship with you, in this case, most boys are using you as a spare tire.

If you want to know if a guy treats you as a spare tire, it's actually very easy to tell. Because guy, if I were to use you as a spare tire, he would definitely be like this to a lot of people, not unique to you. During the day you are just one of his many fishponds, so the real liking is you, is the preference, and you are the exception.

Sure enough, life is not Yushen has the feeling of intimate interaction at the same time, maybe there are a lot of spare tires among you, like this kind of boy, I think it is better to improve your ability, in this way, don't hurt other girls.

If a boy treats himself as a spare tire, he will definitely not pay for himself, let alone consider his feelings and thoughts, and will not respect himself. Because the boy didn't intend to be with him at all.

If you want to remarry in a different place, then you don't have to think about whether to be a spare tire, because people will change, and people's feelings will also change, only continuous maintenance. And separated love can't be maintained, and it's just to want to maintain it. Separated love is not needed at all, what is love?

Love is together! If there is no love, what is the talk of remarriage? What to talk about spare tire without spare tire?

From my current experience, I still think that if a guy really likes you, he happens to know that you don't hate him, he won't wait for you to speak first, and you can't hide your like.

If he has you in his mouth and heart, you specify that it is not a spare tire, and if he has someone else in his heart, you are a spare tire in this case.

How can you know that a boy treats you as a spare tire, then, in this case, you must know more about him, and then see how he usually gets along with other girls.

Look at whether there is a difference between his attitude towards you and his attitude towards other girls, whether he confesses to you about everything at that time, or whether he is hiding it, whether he talks to other girls when you are away.

If a guy treats you as a spare tire, that boy's love for you will be erratic and you won't feel safe.

This situation depends on how the boy treats you, if he has a good relationship with you, he cares about you very much. I'm going to care about your feelings, too.

See if his attitude towards you is hot and cold, if not, but always has an attitude towards you, then it is not to treat you as a spare tire.

You can observe how he usually feels about you, whether he is hot and cold, and whether the guy often chats with the opposite sex.

If you want to know if this guy is using you as a spare tire, take a look at all aspects of his case.

First of all, look at how this boy feels about you, what is his attitude towards you? If the attitude and feelings towards you are perfunctory, then you will definitely be treated as a spare tire.

If you want to know if a boy is using you as a spare tire, then you have to observe the boy's daily behavior to see if she does the same thing as others?

Spare tire is lonely, no self and sense of existence, when a person is reduced to a spare tire, it means that the feelings are never forced, can not pick up and can not let go, of course, some spare tires can finally keep the clouds open to see the red sun, clear the clouds and see the moon, but some spare tires can not be with the people they like, girls must not be spare tires, you can't afford this kind of thing, let's understand the specific performance of boys as a spare tire for girls.

1. I will only care about you verbally

The boy treats you as a spare tire shows that he never takes you to heart, when you need him the most, he will never be by your side, when you are more seriously ill, he is only verbally caring, let you drink more water, take some medicine to eat, otherwise go to the hospital, to put it lightly, try to ask a sick person, no one is with him, how to go to the hospital, it is obvious that the boy does not care about you, you are just his spare tire, and a few words of concern to you are like a great reward.

2. Only talk about your own affairs

If a girl chats with a boy, the other party only talks about their own things, ignores what you say, and will not keep your words in mind, such a boy must treat you as a spare tire, he loves to ignore when you speak, and when he takes the initiative to chat with you, he completely treats you as a listener, as if he is not interested in your affairs, and will not "waste" time on you, then the girl should stay away from him.

3. Unclear about your relationship

The most obvious manifestation of a boy treating you as a spare tire is that he is not clear about your relationship, and he will not introduce you to friends and relatives as a girlfriend, he just wants to maintain an unclear relationship with you, and your contribution is taken for granted in his eyes, and he will accept all your good to him with peace of mind, but he will not confess to you. Boys sometimes get along with you like a couple, but sometimes they don't look like a couple with you, like this kind of boy 100% treats you as a spare tire, so girls should be careful when they encounter this situation, don't lose their hearts and bodies.

A boy who is single-minded. It's actually quite understandable about this. Because such boys are single-minded, it is not easy for ordinary girls to get into their eyes.

And once a girl he likes appears, even if he knows that he is not someone else's "dish", he will use his hard-won emotions on that girl. If that girl is emotionally hesitant, or likes to play ambiguously, or is willing to enjoy someone who is pursued. So this boy at this time has actually become the "spare tire" of the family.

Give fantasy boys. Such a boy, even if he knows, it is impossible for him to get together with the girl he admires, because he gives fantasy and always thinks that he still has a chance with hail limbs.

For example, what if the girl he likes has a long-term love for him, for example, if the girl is lost due to setbacks in the process of finding his other half, for example, because the girl is older, she retreats to the second best thing and throws the peishi hydrangea to herself. All of the above will be such boys unknowingly, intentionally or unintentionally becoming "spare tires" in their fantasies. A boy who admits to death.

Such a boy believes that as long as he is sincere, as long as he perseveres to the end and does not give up, as long as he is very well invested in both material and emotional terms, there will always be a day when he will see the light of day and impress that girl. Don't you know, it is his emotional mentality of "going all the way to the black" and "not crying when you don't see the coffin" that finally made him a "spare tire".

To sum up, boys who have become "spare tires" may not know that if the relationship between men and women is "hot with shaved heads", rather than the willingness of both parties, it will lead to one party being in an active position emotionally and the other party being in a passive position. And the "spare tire" is undoubtedly the alternative side, which is in a passive position. Even if the "spare tire" becomes a "positive tire" for some reason, I believe that their marriage may not be happy.

After all, the choice of a girl to turn a "spare tire" into a "positive tire" was made in desperation, not out of true love.

It's generally the kind of boy who is special and lacks dedication.,And this kind of boy is particularly single-minded when he treats the girl he likes.,The character is that kind of gentle and considerate.,This wide liquid is the most likely to be used as a spare tire.。

Boys who grovel to girls and have no ego are easily used as spare tires by girls, and such boys are very pitiful.

Generally, this kind of boy is very kind, and he has no purpose for girls, he just likes it, and it is easiest to become like this.

First of all, there are some kinder and more docile boys in Hail Mountain, and they will meet all the interests or requirements of girls, and then they have no temper and are more humble in their love life.

I think that kind of personality is more introverted. Very focused on feelings. Even some of the more cowardly boys are easy to become spare tires.

Those who are not good at expressing their feelings, and are very cowardly, and have no ideas of their own, are very easy to be used as a spare tire by others.

Only those who are submissive, dare not express their emotions, and have average or even no potential are the best candidates for a spare tire.

I only like a girl, and I have been silently paying for him, and her words are holy decrees.

What kind of boy is easy to be used as a spare tire? No matter if I'm too honest a boy, it's easy to be used as a spare tire, because girls like to find such a person to marry.

The more honest the boy, the easier it is to be used as a spare tire, and being honest means being easy to control.

It's easy to be used as a spare tire.,It's a boy who believes in girls' sweet words and has no opinions.。

The more timid and weak boys are the most likely to be used as spare tires because they can't parry.

I have always felt that the reason why such a boy is more likely to be used as a spare tire is because of the infinite kind of infinite thinking about Brother Slow, a girl is a good boy, and this girl will do whatever she says.