Isn t it worth trusting again if you make a mistake?

If you are the girl who made the mistake, then I have to tell you that there are some mistakes that cannot be made once, and once you do, you will pay a great price. Even if your original boyfriend can forgive you now, then the knot in your heart will not disappear without a trace for a while, it will take a long time, and it is likely to become the fuse of the conflict between the two of you in the future.

If you still want to continue with your former boyfriend now, then you have to behave better and let him forget this unpleasant past as soon as possible, really, it hurts him a lot, and the dignity of a man is very important. In later life, you have to give him enough face. To be honest, if you want to be with him, you will have to live a tiring life in the future, this is the price you have to pay, and it can be regarded as compensating your boyfriend.

Don't make this kind of mistake in the future, it will ruin your happiness.

Wishing you all happiness!!

This is a social phenomenon. Sometimes people are too idealistic. Didn't take reality seriously.

In fact, this girl is also a tendon, new friends don't like it, old friends have mustard, so new and old friends don't want it, find a new one, why embarrass yourself.

It seems that a man's mistakes can be forgiven, but if a woman makes such a mistake, she doesn't seem to be forgiven.

Think about it for yourself ...

Since ancient times, China has said: "If a person is not a sage, who can do no wrong!" ”；Knowing that mistakes can be corrected, good is great" and "don't be afraid to change if you are wrong" and many other famous sayings teach people to have the courage to face mistakes and correct them in time.

But in modern society, in fact, it may be the same in ancient times: some people made mistakes, and they corrected them in time. However, others still can't forgive the mistakes they have made, and they will not forgive, so that the person who made the mistake will always carry a heavy psychological burden, which may not come from the previous mistakes, but is very likely to be criticized by others.

Therefore, I personally believe that whether a person can correctly recognize his mistakes and correct them, and whether he can correctly deal with the criticism of others, are the two points that people really have to face after making mistakes.

A person will inevitably make mistakes in his life. Some people love to lie, and some people have stolen from others. If you make a mistake, as long as you correct it sincerely, you are still a good child.

But it does happen that after you make a mistake, others don't trust you. For example, if you have lied, the next time you speak, others have to think about whether what you say is true or false. If you steal something and lose it in the next class, some people will look at you to see if you took it.

When a classmate finds a wallet and the teacher asks you to return it to its owner, the classmate will shout, "Will he return it?" "These are all signs of distrust of you.

Because others have fallen for you and suffered your losses, it is natural not to trust you. So, how do you gain the trust of others? First, you must have the courage to face up to your mistakes, and don't be timid and weak when you hear others mention your mistakes, and you don't even dare to raise your head. You can't stop walking because you fell once.

The best thing to do is for you to take cold words as a wake-up call, be brave enough to correct your mistakes, and do things with integrity.

Second, you need to have faith that your efforts will be effective. People who believe in bias are only a very small minority.

Third, you must have the will and patience, no matter what setbacks you encounter, you must never turn back, persist in forging ahead, and make achievements. Facts speak louder than words, as long as you make achievements, in the face of facts, no matter how biased people will have nothing to say. It is said that there was once a chemist named Victor Green in France, who used to wander all day long, did not do his job, and was looked down upon.

At a ball, he invited a countess to dance, and the countess said contemptuously, "Please stand away, I hate second-rate people blocking my view." This was a great disgrace to Victor Green.

After 5 years of hard work, he invented the "Grignard reagent" and won the Nobel Prize. Soon he received a congratulatory letter from Paris, addressed to the countess.

In the same way, if you make a mistake, correct it, and make a result, people will no longer doubt you and disbelieve you.

Everyone makes mistakes, so you don't blame yourself, don't regret it, you have to think about the problem from a different angle, it is precisely because you make such a mistake that you will be valued, if you don't make such a mistake this time, then you may make a more serious mistake than this in the future, so, since it has happened, then we have to look forward, estimate that this mistake can make you remember it for a lifetime, this is not a formal good thing from another point of view, so that you will not be able to make such a mistake in the future.

Whether you dare to believe it or not, a mistake is a mistake, and it will not change because of it. It is inevitable that people will make such and such mistakes in their lives, and it is not terrible to be wrong, but it is terrible to dare not face their mistakes, and even more so to cover up their mistakes.

If you are wrong, you must dare to face it, you must admit it, you must know that the mistake is in the first place, and you must correct the mistake.

If you want to turn yourself into a coward, then you choose to run away from your mistakes; If you want to be a strong person, then be brave and face your mistakes.

There is no regret in this world, if there is no remedy, it should be a threshold in life, and strive not to make the same mistake or not make a mistake next time.

I still have to believe it, accept the reality, and have the courage to face it.

It takes a bit of courage to admit your mistakes and learn to face them, but many people often don't do this wise thing until the end of their lives. But, in Emerson's words, "When each day is over, it's over, and you've done everything you can."

There will be some mistakes and stupid words and deeds mixed in unwittingly, so forget about them as soon as possible! Tomorrow is a new day, let's start the day with a pleasant, tranquil and high spirits, so that the kindness of your past cannot drag you down.

What went wrong? Is it fatal? If you don't die, you can change it.