How happy can you be with money? Are rich people really happy?

When a person who has no money but needs it very much. When he has money, he can do a lot of things, solve the problems of the family, solve the problems of life, solve the problems of the career. Solve all the problems. Then the person is happy.

I was so rich that I wanted two bowls of soy milk for breakfast, and I drank one bowl and poured one bowl. Even if you not only order an extra bowl of soy milk, but also a few more fritters, add an extra spoonful of sugar to the soy milk, it doesn't matter, if you have money, even if you add an extra spoonful of sugar, it doesn't matter.

I have the money to take a taxi and take two cars, one followed by the other, and I sat on my own. Of course, if you have money, you have to be broad, at least in taking a taxi, you must immediately show that you have money. Compared with office workers who rush to the company in the subway on a hot day, taking a taxi is already a luxury, let alone taking two cars at a time.

The happiness of having money is something you and I can't imagine, there is a saying called "money can make the ghost grind", which is applicable in today's society, not to mention that you can buy everything you want to buy, that is, relatives and friends dare not say anything to you because you have money, your social status has changed, and this kind of happiness of spending money without going through the brain to think about how much savings you have is really more important than anything! ‍‍

I'll be rich enough to eat yogurt and not lick the lid. Honestly, the yogurt on the yogurt lid is the best and richest in the whole box of yogurt. I can't even lick the lid after eating yogurt, that's really rich. As for how rich it is, it's simply beyond words.

Be a rich man. When he needs to have more money. There's still a lot that can be solved. You can invest, you can do charity, you can live a better quality and better life. Then this person is also happy.

Since I was a child, my family was not rich, I basically didn't have anything that others had, and my family education was also very strict. Before joining the job, the salary had to be given to the family for two years, and secretly talking about a girlfriend had no money to invite others out to play, so I found a reason to break up in a hurry. Later, when he became financially independent, he wanted to get back all the things he had left behind, but he found that the few cents in his hand were not enough at all, and he tried to make himself rich because he was full of panic about the poor life.

It's not happy to be rich, I'm worried about thieves, and I'm pretending to be low-key all day long! If you are worried that your relatives and friends will repeatedly borrow money from you and promote various products, you can only hide at home! Worried about the future of the company, desperately trying to feed a group of people!

Being rich is not the only criterion for being happy, but being happy can be the purpose of being rich. Therefore, there is no decisive relationship between whether people are happy or not and being rich, that is to say, the richer people are, the happier they are. Many people think that I will be very happy if I make a lot of money, but when you really make a lot of money, your troubles will not leave you, but those troubles caused by lack of money will be reduced a lot, but those problems that cannot be solved with money will make you more uncomfortable.

Now people are running around every day, running for money, for survival, in order to support their families, every day is very hard, and it may seem very tiring and sad to outsiders. But maybe after a tiring day outside, these people have a hot meal at home, and their wives and children are waiting for him, and the fatigue of the day is worth it. On the other hand, if you look at those rich people, who are busy as adults and don't see their families a few times a year, is this really happy?

After talking about the family, let's talk about feelings. Now many young men in the countryside can't find a girlfriend because they don't have money, no money to buy a house or a car. Actually, to be honestToday's young people will not be too poor as long as they are not lazyAfter graduating from college, I will go to class for a few years, earn a few years of money, and with the support of my parents, it should not be a problem to make a down payment, and the rest depends on the efforts of the two of them.

This day is also very promising, and it is more tangible through my own efforts.

Look at the feelings of rich people, they can be very rich or very monotonous. is so rich that you can spend a lot of money to fight for a smile, and you can change eight girlfriends a year, because there will be many girls who have money to post upside down, and who can tell the difference between true and false feelings. Is that a life really happy?

Is it really what you want? How many couples broke up because of Bundi, because the couple turned against each other after being drunk. Is it so happy?

Rich people have the troubles of the rich, and the rich have the troubles of the poor. Having money will make you happy, but it will also bring you painful things, so it is not that the richer you are, the happier you are.

The amount of money is not the criterion for determining whether a person is happy, and true happiness is also affected by many factors.

1. Health status, including a healthy body and a healthy personality.

A person's life is like a candle, if the candle does not flow oil but slowly runs out, you can live to be 90 or 100 years old; If the candle is hurt, blown by the wind, and it flows oil, then the candle may run out in fifty or sixty years, so that life itself is not harmed, and he has the greatest points of happiness in his life.

Second, the status of family affection.

Health and affection are two very important factors that affect people's happiness. In foreign countries, these two factors may account for 48% of the factors affecting people's happiness. The cost of marriage is low, but there is a huge net benefit to marriage.

Why is the cost of marriage so low, because the proportion of men and women is about the same, they both have needs, and the reciprocity of marriage is beneficial to both men and women.

These two articles make it impossible for economists to explain how low the cost of something with such huge benefits can be. Marshall said, "Even if he is poor, he can find the source of supreme happiness in family affection and religion." "So the impact of family relations on people's happiness is huge.

3. Economic conditions.

When we talk about happiness, we don't mean that income is not important, income can ensure our basic material needs, you don't have a certain income, you can't eat, you don't have a house to live in, and you can't talk about a happy life. Relative economic status reflects the relative standard of living and has an important impact on the psychological feeling of individual happiness.

Of course, since there is a cost to life and an environmental cost to GDP growth, there must be a reasonable limit, and it is not that the more money you have, the higher the GDP, the happier you are.

Fourth, professional status.

Modern adults spend one-third of their time at work, and their life situation is closely related to their professional situation. Moderate labor, creative labor, and harmonious labor organization contribute to the generation of happiness, while high work pressure and less leisure lead to lower happiness.

5. The influence of social conditions on happiness.

A just, democratic, safe, equal and harmonious social environment has a positive correlation with happiness, while a repressive, closed, discriminatory, confined and unjust social environment, especially the current unfair distribution, has a significant adverse impact on the happy life of the people.

6. The impact of ecological environment on happiness.

The ecological environment is the fundamental condition for human beings to survive and live a happy and happy life. A harmonious, elegant and vibrant ecological environment is of paramount importance to human health, well-being and happiness. In modern society, the ecological environment has become an important variable that restricts human life and health and people's happiness in life.

It's not true that people will be happier the richer they are, but they will definitely not be happy without money, so it is okay to have a moderate amount of money, not to be particularly special, and to achieve economic freedom.

Why is it that there is more and more money, but people are more and more anxious, and the more unhappy and happy?

Everyone wants to get high returns with little or no risk. But everyone forgets that the risk itself is the consideration of the return, and the higher the return, the greater the risk!

But the essence of an individual's aversion to risk is the fear of losing assets that they already have that do not match their abilities. When one's own ability is insufficient, having more wealth will only strengthen one's sense of crisis. We can never completely avoid risks, and the only thing we can do is to constantly improve our ability to create value, and make ourselves more valuable, not richer.

Everyone has a conscience and knows themselves, how many pounds and taels they weigh, and their hearts are like mirrors. If you have more wealth than you can afford, you will be worried, you will be worried about losing. If you can't solve your worries, you want to have more, but this will widen the gap between your ability and your wealth, this gap is the index of our worries, the larger the index, the greater the degree of worry, then you want to get more, because of the ability to get it, you start to be anxious, worried and anxious, this is the legendary bipolar disorder, and it is also why modern people are richer and more unhappy.

Therefore, if you want to truly achieve happiness, you must recognize the true influence of wealth on people. The material conditions required for a truly happy life are very limited. For example:

No matter how big a house you own, all you really need to sleep at night is a two-square-meter bed. Think about it seriously, the big house we bought is for ourselves? Or is it for others to see?

The purpose of showing others is nothing more than to make others respect and look up to themselves. But the real strength of people is our character and ability, performance and contribution; Those who don't have the ability to follow you just because of money actually want to take advantage of you; The rest of the people's true feelings about you are nothing but envy and jealousy, and hatred! Whether this kind of big house really needs to be thought about.

Only by lowering one's expectations of wealth, pursuing a minimalist life, pursuing a limited, high-quality life, constantly improving one's ability to create wealth, and enriching one's spiritual life, can one truly make oneself a down-to-earth, self-confident life, and obtain true happiness and joy!

Not necessarily. In some cases, money does not buy happiness, affection, love, friendship are more important than money.

Of course not, it's just that the rich will have a lot less troubles, and many ordinary families are worried about money all day long, but feelings can't be bought by money.

No, some happiness cannot be bought, and rich people are not necessarily happy.

Not necessarily, because money is not everything.

People always think that when they have money, they can do anything, and it is true that many things can be satisfied after having money, but there are still some things that cannot be obtained, and you should have some experience of these yourself.

If you have money, you are a grandson, if you have money, you will be a grandson, if you have a grandfather, don't be a grandson, having money can make me very happy and very happy, because you may not be able to experience it because of a sense of security.

In this society, money is the only very important thing, and some people even associate money with happiness, so is this perception correct? Do rich people really have more happiness?

In fact, I think this kind of thinking is wrong, first of all, people's desires are endless, that is, when you see something, you want to have it, and what really brings you happiness is not when you have it, but when you feel truly happy in your own heart, such as the happiness brought to you by family and friends, this is the real happiness from the heart. Sometimes if you have too much desire for money, you will make your life very unhappy! Feel tired!

And for the wealthy, they may be a little better than ordinary people in terms of material. But their mental pressure is also very large, they stand on a high place, so they face greater risks, although money brings them happiness, but the risks behind them need to be borne, how much they need to bear the responsibility of how much money, sometimes even become a slave of money. This perception of money is also incorrect.

Therefore, the richer you are, the happier you are, each of us has different pursuits, and after ensuring the material life, we should pursue our true happiness, rather than being obsessed with money!

Happiness is a luxury for an adult.

Some people work 9 to 5 in a state-owned enterprise, with an annual salary of 200,000 yuan, free time, can accompany their families, and can do what they like, this is happiness.

Someone in the private company often 996, desperately to make money, time to sell to the company. Running for life, working hard for the future, no matter how hard you work, your health is getting worse and worse, housing prices are getting higher and higher, and the whole person becomes unhappy.

For the sake of money, in order to pursue the life they want, in order to be able to give their other half a better life, some people are not happy at work, they just think that money is important.

And a rich second generation will never pay attention to whether it is important to be happy at work or money, but more concerned about whether he is happy.

For stressed adults, being happy is always a luxury. Because if you stop, life won't make you happy.

Not necessarily. There is a saying that the poor have the happiness of the poor, and the troubles of the rich.

Whether rich people are really happy or not is directly related to their three views and mentality when they are rich. Because happiness is spiritual pleasure, spiritual satisfaction, a very comfortable feeling to enjoy from the inside out, and a happy and happy state of mind of people. Happiness comes from the form of joy that comes from all the satisfaction you get in your daily life or work.