Why do rich people cry poor? What is the experience of a rich man crying poor in front of you

Among those who cry poor, a large part of them are "hiding rich and pretending to be poor". originally earned a lot of money, but calculated expenses in front of others, such as tuition, medical expenses, mortgages, etc., in the end, it seems that he is really "poor and white". Such people are the "false poor", and they cry out of self-stinginess on the one hand.

In the eyes of ordinary people, if you have money and I am in difficulty, you should help me, if you don't help me, then you have no conscience. Therefore, the richer you are, the more you love to pretend to be poor, first, when you meet those unreasonable relatives, it is difficult to help or not, it is better to pretend to be poor; Second, sometimes I lend money to a friend many times, but I don't pay it back, and I don't want to borrow money anymore, so I can only pretend to be poor, so it won't hurt the relationship too much. The so-called borrowing money is easy, it is difficult to repay the money, no one's money falls from the sky, they are all earned by their own efforts, no matter how rich they are, they can only help once or twice, no one is a savior, they can't help for a while, they are afraid, they help too much, they take it for granted.

It's not that rich people like to pretend to be poor, but that some rich people instinctively "don't leak money" and appear "poor". Since ancient times, there has been a saying in China that "wealth does not leak out", and many rich people do not deliberately pretend to be poor, mainly because their money is basically not revealed.

Rich people like to say that they don't have money because they are afraid that those relatives or friends will borrow money from him. Knowing that it is difficult for some people to recover the money they borrow, they will tell them that they have no money when they are rich. In this way, if there is no money and no one will borrow it, even if you don't offend others, you can protect your own money, which can be described as the best of both worlds.

Now there are more and more rich people, but they get rich overnight, and there are fewer and fewer rich people, but many educated, knowledgeable, and skilled people begin to rely on their knowledge to make money.

We Chinese pay attention to the golden mean, modesty is a virtue, and secondly, there is no need to show off everywhere.

Rich people say that they have no money because they are afraid of becoming the target of others, and this kind of person has a narrower pattern, just wants to stay out of the world, and only wants not to be in the company of the poor. This kind of person abounds in daily life, and he is the kind of person who doesn't ask about things outside the window and only cares about his own good life in his life, and he is not very likable.

There is a rich man who says that he has no money, he is a person with a broad vision, he looks down on money, that is because he has money, and making money is easy for him, so he doesn't care about money at all, and thinks that this money is nothing, compared to what he wants, this is nothing at all, although in the eyes of others it is a mountain of gold and silver. In fact, he has reached a height, a realm.

Rich people pretend to be poor because they are low-key, and they are afraid that people hate the rich and calculate, and poor people pretend to be rich because they are afraid that people will look down on them, and they are vanity.

Compared with richer people, he is also a poor person, he can't afford to buy a villa and decorate, he can't afford to burn oil, all kinds of expenses are bigger than you, and the money is not blowing in the wind, so you have to worry about it.

Probably because she didn't want these poor people to borrow money from her, after all, it was too difficult to borrow money now.

I am afraid that others will remember it, so it is better to use the money for your own use, and in this way, relatives will not come to borrow money from him.

Rich people like to say that they have no money, and they always love to pretend to be an uncle when they have no money, which is the normal state of life. Why? Because if you have money, you have self-confidence, and if you don't have money, you don't have self-confidence.

It's about a female colleague of mine in her 30s, and I can't say that I am really rich, but at least in our unit, no one should be richer than her, but at first sight, I will never think that her family is good.

Her clothes are always those sets, and they are not expensive, once a few female colleagues discussed clothes, one of them said that he wore more than 200 pieces, she said very sincerely: I am reluctant to buy such expensive clothes, and everyone else present is the expression below.

Thrift is not a bad thing, but I don't know how difficult her family is, but it's really not, so I'll talk about the situation I know: my parents are divorced, but my parents have assets, and they also gave her some, she has at least 3 houses on hand, both of which are single-family houses, the area is not small, and there are shops or something. My husband's family is average, but my father-in-law will give them more than 100,000 yuan every year, and her family still has a piece of land in the city.

But she gives people the feeling of being very childish, always crying poor before we are really poor in front of repentance, which is really speechless, and she especially likes to inquire about other people's fiber cloth is wearing ** to buy, but she never buys, it is the reaction just now, which makes us feel particularly guilty, and reflects on whether we are not qualified to spend money.

I don't know what kind of upbringing made her character, she often complains to me that she doesn't want to do this job, but she has to rely on this salary to support her family, and she can't help it. I was the same, I felt like I had found an alliance at the time, and later I learned that the clown was actually me.

Summary. I believe many people will say that people who have money and are also miserable must be suffering and don't know how to spend it, or they have too much money, they play too much with everything, and when they are tired of it, they will suffer.

I believe that many people will say that people who have money and are also painful to disturb the state must be miserable and don't know how to spend it, or they have too much money, and everything is too much to play and they will be miserable if they are tired of it.

Just like a person, he feels that his life has reached the peak, no matter how hard he tries, he will not have much effect, Yu Leadhu is beginning to enjoy life, life is very extravagant, decadent, degenerate, naturally for a long time, there will be a kind of trouble and pain. This kind of reasoning is like a person who likes to play games and doesn't want to go to work. Suddenly, Sun Chen doesn't have to go to work for a day, some people think that they can play games every day, so this person, after playing games for a few years, doesn't want to play, wants to go to work, why does Zezen have such a mentality?

Because everything, if you do too much, there will be a process of aversion.

People have this kind of cheap mentality, and when they have money, they will bring a lot of troubles to themselves when they have more money, for example, some people have a lot of money, they like to buy, buy, buy, and buy a lot of things for all kinds of use. Such as clothes, as a result, I don't know what clothes to wear every day, and I get up every morning to rummage through the cabinets, seeping this is boring and asking for trouble. Pei shouted Hui.

It's very simple, the rich pursue money, the poor pursue not starving, money can not be hungry, but not starving does not represent money. So the poor can get what they don't go hungry for, but the rich don't have to worry about money. The rich are tired when they have no money, and the poor are hungry or not, just food and clothing.

Rich people are so tired. Rich people have the pain of being rich, and people who have no money have the pain of not having money. The positions of the states are different, and many times they hope to be able to swap roles People who have no money in their pockets and no money in their hearts are not painful; People who have no money in their pockets but money in their hearts are the most painful; People who have money in their pockets and money in their hearts are the most troubled; People who have money in their pockets but no money in their hearts are the happiest.

Because the rich have money, the poor don't, so the rich get more chic than the poor.