How did you come to terms with your life after mediocrity?

Some people can only be an ordinary person in the end, whether you are willing or unwilling, this is a fact, but with a normal heart to accept yourself will live an easy life, contentment, what kind of ability to take what kind of road, everyone will change the society, with their own strength to tighten their own screws, this society will be better. Facing up to yourself, accepting your failures, and trying to do what you can do is what I think is the way to accept your mediocrity.

Thinking that one's own mediocrity is distant from the ideal. I really can't accept my own mediocrity, so I try to elevate myself to the ideal height. But if the ideal is so full that it is really impossible to achieve it, then adjust the ideal.

And those who are unwilling to work hard do not accept their mediocrity. The action has been accepted, and I want to do so much.

It's normal to accept mediocrity, most people think they're unique, but in fact they're just an ordinary person, but you have to be your own hero, have fewer short-term goals, set one or two long-term goals, and set more medium-term goals based on months, work hard for your goals in time and receive positive feedback, and you can stick to it.

I used to be unable to accept myself as I was for some reason, standing at a fork in the road and not knowing where to go, reality and dreams always hit my head and bleed. However, even if it is difficult, I have to go on bravely, life is short, so I must be true to my dreams, even if I fail, then I should have no regrets. Just like Jay's Daoxiang lyrics sing:

If you can't get the dream, you can change the dream, color your life brightly, and then paint your love with the color you like, laugh, success is not the goal, making yourself happy and happy is called meaning".

I've always heard a saying, if someone is the first, then why is that person not you, then I will also ask a rhetorical question, if someone is destined to be an ordinary person, then why can't that person be me? Everyone's qualifications, resumes, education levels, and ability to receive knowledge are different, so of course the height of life is different, some people are in power, and some people are mediocre. Sometimes hard work is necessary, but the result of hard work is not necessarily what you want to see.

You must know that each of us is just an ordinary person, and it is impossible to satisfy all of them. If you find your own shortcomings, then try your best to make up for them. Everyone's life is unique. I hope we can follow our hearts and live the life we want.

Because the word "mediocrity" is harsh, it means that nothing is accomplished, there is no interest, and even "unhappiness" in the mouth of many people, perhaps the vast majority of people are destined to be mediocre in their lives, but they are unwilling to admit this fact.

In today's era of rapid development, everything is pushing people forward, whether it is going to graduate school or changing jobs, any competition is telling people not to be willing to be mediocre. This is a common social phenomenon, because we are unwilling, so we need to keep rushing forward.

Medioccrity means that an unprominent, ordinary person does an ordinary job, does nothing all his life, and cannot become the kind of person who is noticeable. In fact, in this world, mediocrity and ordinariness are the normal life of our ordinary people, and many people come out of school and enter the society to find that there are many things that are more than enough but not enough. If you ask me if I will accept mediocrity, I will be very comfortable saying that I will accept mediocrity, because admitting mediocrity does not mean giving up on oneself and standing still, but knowing oneself, so that you can digest the pain in your heart, and you can live every day of your life in a down-to-earth, calm and stable manner.

Many people can't accept that they fail, can't accept that they are worse than others, can't accept that the house is smaller than others, can't accept that new employees end up being promoted faster than themselves, and so on. In this society with the rapid development of information and technology, people's values have changed dramatically, people are gradually moving closer to profit, and it is becoming more and more difficult for many people to accept the fact that others are better off than themselves, and they feel bored and indignant in the face of monotonous and trivial days. It is in the process of this comparison that I am unwilling to admit "failure" and my mediocrity.

When we are young, we have dreams and high spirits, but the huge pyramid of the real society makes us realize that we are just most ordinary people at the bottom of the tower, so we work hard day after day to find that many times we cannot achieve the success we want. You must know that mediocrity or mediocrity is everyone's choice, there is no right or wrong, no matter what class you are engaged in, you can live happily regardless of what kind of profession you are engaged in. Everyone wants to succeed, but everyone has a different definition of success, a net worth of hundreds of millions can be called success, and living hard but still living an ordinary life is another kind of success.

Because many people have too many desires and can't achieve them in real life, they can't control the gains and losses, and they don't want to admit that they are mediocre. In fact, most of us may end up living an ordinary and mediocre life in this short life, forced to accept competition in the workplace, and bear a car loan and mortgage, but we can't find a place where people feel comfortable, and we may not be able to shine in our lives, but we can all become the protagonists in our lives.

It may be that I feel that I am very powerful, and I also feel that I should have a particularly good life, so I can't accept my mediocrity.

Because there are many people who are mediocre, but their dreams are bigger, so they can't realize their dreams, and the psychological pressure is relatively high.

I think we have to learn, although many times it is difficult to accept, including myself, just like career and family, the younger we are, the harder it will be to accept mediocrity, because we are unconsciously comparing ourselves with others, your classmates, your friends, your colleagues, and even your neighbors, and everyone is born to need recognition and praise from others, so when we are faced with some of the heights we hope for in life or work, When we are faced with a life compared with others and no one else is chic, this kind of mentality that does not dare to be mediocre will begin to make trouble in our hearts, in fact, why do the old people who have passed half a hundred rarely have such thoughts? On the one hand, we are young, on the other hand, we have experienced, when we have experienced a lot of things, from small illnesses and accidents, to the cycle of life and death, after experiencing once, we will grow up once, and when the experience is mature, we will know what kind of life we are pursuing, I can accept mediocrity, but I don't accept going with the flow, I hope that I have been working hard and fulfilling life, and have always sincerely loved the people I love, our parents, our children, and each other, so even if the living conditions are not very rich, The job position is not very high, but peace and health may be more important than the rich, we see other people's lives are one-sided, because we can't see the troubles behind them, maybe just see the extraordinary side, some people admire, some people envy, in fact, mediocrity because of the word excellence, so there is no melocrity, everyone is outstanding, so why can't the word excellence use the word mediocrity? Therefore, I think that even mediocrity is enough to be satisfied with my current use, to live a hard-working and happy life, to be safe and healthy.

Above, for reference.

People should accept mediocrity because most people are ordinary people.

By "mediocrity", you actually think that you are what you are in the eyes of others.

Can mediocrity be shaken off? I think there's a way.

1. Build self-confidence.

You have to be confident in yourself, and this self-confidence is not blind, but well-founded self-confidence. You can recall a time when you were growing up when you felt good, or when you were happy with yourself. If you can't find it, then start setting a small goal for yourself from now on, stick to it, complete it, and then raise the goal and complete it again!

Inspire your self-confidence through positive events.

2. Find your strengths.

3. Believe that change is forever.

People change, even if you don't do anything, you change, but most of the time it gets worse. So if you take action and continue to move towards the goal, you will definitely change, if the power of progress is greater than the inferior nature of laziness and other human nature, you will see your own growth and progress, maybe the process is very long and hard, but as a life that is only once in a lifetime, it is worth fighting.

For most of life, we are just ordinary people.

Isn't it fun to live in the moment and live your life well?

Wang Xiaobo wrote in "** Times" that life is a "slow hammer process". Accepting one's own "mediocrity" is also a part of "being hammered".

In fact, the idea of "longing for non-mediocrity" is very ordinary in itself.

We all have such and such highlights in life, but in the end, we do our best, but we just live as an ordinary person.

Pu Shu sang in "Ordinary Road".

I was lost, disappointed, lost all directions, until I saw that the ordinary was the only answer."

Is ordinariness the only answer? How do we accept our mediocrity?

Question from a psychological little mushroom:

Do you need to live a dull life and accept a mediocre self?

My work performance is average, I work hard, but I'm always good and not elite, should I accept a mediocre self?

"The meaning of life" is a false proposition.

How to spend this life" is something we need to think about.

One psychological high-quality person@summer Cai Xinyu.

The key to solving this problem is to ask yourself: What is it that my heart wants? How am I going to spend my life?

If I feel that I am in a small town, working every day in a company that is not very big, I can reap the value and meaning of it. Well, it's also a good life;

If I work hard every day and have a good income that seems good to outsiders, but I often feel anxious and empty, I feel that this is not what I want. Well, it's not a good life either.

The assumption of the meaning of life is itself a false proposition. Life is about the meaning we give, the meaning of recognition, and neither your lover nor your friends can help us accomplish this mission.

Next, what we need is courage.

I believe that the landlord must have more pursuits in his heart, otherwise he would not have asked these questions. Then we need to have the courage to face our inner thoughts. Should we change ourselves or fulfill ourselves? I think we should do it.

Finally, we need to act.

Actions can start with a specific action. We don't need to quit our jobs in righteous indignation, pack our bags, and start far. We can start doing things slowly and making mistakes where we want to go.

For example, I'm interested in fitness trainers, we can learn more about fitness first, try it, and if we can continue, if not, we can come back.

You will find that as soon as you start to act, you will gain something different, and reality and ideas will intertwine to present a better future.

Nowadays, young people will have a mediocre way of expressing "self-recognition" in chatting, such as "as long as you become waste, no one can use you", "we waste is like this", and so on are not uncommon in chats between young people. But how many of the people who use these chat quotes or emoticons actually feel like they're mediocre? The reason why they use mediocrity to describe themselves is more of a self-deprecating way for contemporary young people under the pressure of life, and a kind of deformed resistance to social pressure.

But people's consciousness will be subtly affected, at first it may just be used to laugh at yourself, but if you describe yourself like this for a long time or live according to this attitude, you may unconsciously make yourself subconsciously feel that you are a mediocre, if you encounter some problems in life or other aspects, you may amplify this consciousness, and over time you will make yourself feel that you are really a mediocre talent.

So we have to reject him from the beginning, we can admit that we are ordinary, but we have to reject mediocrity, even this kind of thinking we have to reject. Some people on the Internet will tell you that life is born to live, but I tell you that they are a **, I believe that life is what Gao Xiaosong's mother said, "Life is not only about the front of you, but also poetry and distance", which is the "spring flowers blooming facing the sea" that Haizi yearns for. So teenagers, there may be a lot of unsatisfactory in life, but there are also a lot of good things worth looking forward to.

Mediocrity is an attitude of rejecting beauty, and we are in the best time of life, mediocrity is not for teenagers, in this wonderful age we should be heroic and forge ahead. We can't let the best years of our lives destroy ourselves because of mediocre self-deprecation. Let's go up, boy, take advantage of the sunny sunshine, take advantage of the scenery.

We may eventually return to mediocrity, but we must not be reduced to mediocrity.