My girlfriend has a big temper and is self respecting, what should I do?

I used to be a bit like this, especially when I was unhappy and depressed, and the more my ex-boyfriend lost his temper and became impatient with my shortcomings and accusations, the more I went against him. Later, they broke up when they couldn't get along. After the breakup, after reflection, the situation improved slightly.

Then I have faith and refuge, and I am more deeply reflective. But it is long and difficult to change my life, but fortunately, my current boyfriend has the same beliefs as me, and he has a gentle personality, and he is always kind and friendly to remind me, enlighten me, and help me. In this way, the personality gradually improved.

I can understand the pain of the landlord, because I and my ex-boyfriend didn't let anyone go. If you really want to be with her, you might as well use your patience and love to embrace her and help her. Everyone loves to talk about the truth, but the listener is rarely sensible, so he can't listen to it.

When your tantrum again, don't clash with her, it's best to gently appease her anger, and when she is calm, if there are any constructive suggestions and reasoning, you must talk about things on the matter, and the tone can't be tough, so as not to anger her again. Everyone will be willful and have self-esteem, maybe your she is stronger and more sensitive, and you need to compromise and be considerate in a timely manner.

I wish you all happiness o(o

It depends on whether you really want to live with her, and if so, the manhood that puts you at home comes out and has a good chat with her.

I have to say that you have a really good temper, you deserve to be bullied, and most women seem to like men who can control her.

What did you do before? Now... Hope.

Does she love you? I didn't see that she loved you. The most important thing for two people to be together is to tolerate each other. I.

See that you tolerate her in everything.

It's not right for a buddy to be like this, although a girlfriend is meant to hurt, but it depends on what is going on. That's right.

What is right and what is wrong is wrong. If you blindly accommodate her, she will slowly think that everything is your answer.

The. Some bad habits won't change for you, I think it doesn't matter if you want such a girlfriend or not.

Finish. As for always telling you to break up, I don't think it matters if she has you or not, if I really care about you, I'll do it.

I don't think she'll ever say that to you, whether it's a joke or something else. If you really can't put it.

Now, you're just waiting to see if time can change anything.

Maybe it's still too small and not very qualitative. If time can't change anything, I advise you one.

It's good for a girl like this to treat her as a friend, don't be a wife, or you'll die a miserable death.

it? Throw it away after, there is no need to get used to this kind of vexatious woman.

Hehe, I didn't finish reading it, but half of it, your girlfriend is the same as my girlfriend, we also met in college, and now it's been more than 2 years, I'm from the north, she's from the south, I'll give you some advice, first of all, when she wants to lose her temper, you should be able to feel it, you don't have to conflict with her, you have to learn to follow her, or break the topic away, understand this yourself, in short, don't stand on the opposite side of her, and how women are made of water, in fact, you have to go and experience her good to you, you can't say that she will only lose her temper, willful, you have to experience Maybe you don't understand things in the same direction as you accept them, but you have to take your time to understand that and your girlfriend always says to break up, and I don't think you should put up with that, because if you say it, no matter how joking it is, it will have an impact.

I'm the questioner, and what I said on the 3rd floor is very similar to my current situation, and now she doesn't apologize, and I'm afraid that she will ignore me, so I apologize after less than two minutes after every fight, whether I'm wrong or not! Now I don't know what way to solve it! Is there any good way to do this?

Look at your loose appearance, women are like springs, if you are weak, he will be strong.

That's the way a girl is, she often loses her temper and it means it's your fault. Sometimes tantrums are also a kind of fun.,Maybe in the eyes of others, having such a girlfriend will feel so happy.、If you find it annoying, let it go to me.。

Brother, we are in the same situation, I am already planning to break up after the New Year, so I have been pampering her, tolerating her, even if there is a future, I will not be happy, seriously, I have been with my girlfriend for a year, I am too tired, she was very good to me at first, and after that, it became more and more excessive, I was really fed up, even if I didn't reply to the message at once when chatting, she was always angry, I didn't understand,

Children are temperamental, irritable, and willful, all caused by their parents. First of all, when everyone in the family is disobedient and makes mistakes, the education caliber should be the same. If the family adopts the method of "one person sings black face, one person sings red face", and someone comes out to say good things and protect the child, it will definitely cause the child to take advantage of loopholes, not correct mistakes, and cry even more.

In the long run, the child is willful, temperamental, irritable, the parents have no authority, the child does not listen to anyone, and it is especially easy to get sick. But if all the people in the family are educated consistently, in the face of mistakes, all take it seriously, the child will be restrained, become well-behaved, after several times, the child knows the attitude of the parents, will listen to the words of adults, obediently admit mistakes, will not be noisy, tempered, willful problems will be changed, and the body will be better.

If you have a problem with your education method, try to speak well and reason with him first, but it really can't be done, as long as you don't die, you will be beaten to death, otherwise this life will be wasted.

To love someone is to accept all of her (including her opening a room with someone else), if you can't accept it, it is better to choose to break up, because it will bring you a lifetime of damage. Love is sweet, if you enter into marriage, many problems are unacceptable, and the life of two people is not good.

Brother, there must be a bottom line in life. I can't accept cuckolding.

The word "self-esteem" in Buddhism, first of all, Shakyamuni Buddha said when he was born, the meaning is probably the world, my Buddha is the most noble, of course, now the meaning has changed.

This kind of personality should be related to childhood experiences and education. The personality caused by the over-doting of parents. It is also related to the only child.

Sometimes, you should consider empathy, that is, to put yourself in the other person's position and think about others.

Family environment, parental influence, innate.

The mentality is good, but that's a sign of your childishness, you don't dare to look up, you only see the side of you.

Take a little more hit, and go outside to see more.

Again, let it be.

Say that you are enthusiastic, cheerful, affinable, helpful, others are very happy with you, will create an atmosphere, and are a happy baby. Have a positive attitude, do things very boldly, very confident, if it is relatively quiet, it will give people a very down-to-earth feeling, it is very comfortable with you, and it will not cause trouble.

Lack of tidying, lack of people who can conquer them.

Those who have conceited psychology and conceited character habits are mostly arrogant, self-respecting, and arrogant. They often overestimate their own abilities and lose their self-knowledge, so they have a self-inflatemented conceited temperament when dealing with others. The conceited person likes to exalt himself and belittle others, sees himself as good at everything, but sees others as useless, and always thinks that he is better than others in everything.

I only see myself as good, but I don't see myself ugly, I only see others ugly, but I don't see others ugly. Often willful, stubborn, self-respecting, arrogant, arrogant to the extreme, always want to impose their own will and views on others, knowing that they are wrong and others are right, they are unwilling to change their attitudes, accept other people's views, and stubbornly hold on to the end. Conceited people are self-centered, only care about themselves, rarely take the initiative to care about others, are not close to others and are estranged, always start from their own interests, do not take into account others, do not ask for help from others, are very arrogant and cold, always lack enthusiasm and friendship, forget that others owe him something, so they will be high and have few friends.

Conceited people are not empty and conceited, they are generally a little conceited, that is, they are indeed superior to others. But conceited people often exaggerate their strengths, and the humble people who are not conceited often hide their strengths, and after inflating themselves, they become complacent, unable to see their own shortcomings, nor can they see the strengths of others, and after they are empty, they become more vulnerable and powerless.

The conceited person always regards himself as very tall and important, especially emotional and irrational, and always overestimates himself and underestimates others when he does things, and it is inevitable that he will succeed less and fail more.

The shrewd, the wise, and the humble will not be conceited. To be a man, we should avoid conceit, and put our character first.