The live in nanny came, did I give her money to buy groceries by herself, or did I take her with me?

Whatever she wants to eat, she goes to buy it.

Oh my God, you are in that supermarket for only 60 yuan a day, my husband and my children plus the nanny and the four of you, we are almost 100 yuan a day, sometimes more than 100, and it is not good to eat, sometimes it is not a soup to fry some green vegetables, and it costs so much money to make soup, ask her if she can make beer duck, will she make pig's feet, they all eat some ordinary dishes, in fact, we know that she will pit, but we don't know how many pits, after all, we have to trust people first, But once my husband went to buy vegetables by himself during the holidays, and since the dishes of more than 70 yuan can be eaten for almost two days, it is becoming more and more wrong.

Dear, how much salary do you pay her a month?

Hire a nanny at home, and if you have to pay for groceries every day, aren't you too troublesome? It should be a one-time payment of a few days' living expenses, and it is more appropriate for the nanny to deal with it cheaply!

It's best to give it every day, but it also depends on the specific situation, if you are troublesome, you can also buy a handy elf for her to use, bind your own Alipay account, then she will use this scan code every day to buy food, and you can also know how much money is spent every day.

Different employers have different styles of doing things, so there will be certain differences in the way they pay the babysitter.

The first is to go grocery shopping yourself. Many employers may not let the nanny buy groceries, but go to the farm once a week to buy a week's groceries and come back. The disadvantage of this is that the dishes are not fresh enough!

The second type: give full authority to the nanny. Come over in the morning and bring it directly to buy good food, and ask me if I have no money to take it, how much is it at a time.

The third way, buying groceries in the supermarket, is reimbursed by virtue of receipts. Vegetables in supermarkets are more expensive than vegetable farms, but fortunately, there are reimbursement vouchers, and through small receipts, you can grasp the flow of money.

If you have time, buy it yourself. If you don't have time, you have to buy it from a nanny, and the price is about the same. Everyone has selfish intentions.

Probably the price of vegetables varies from day to day.

It depends on trust. It is too troublesome to pay every day and make the other party feel bad, and it is easy to have unclear accounts every month, or it is better to give it once a week, and it does not have to be too detailed, so that the nanny feels that it is best to be a member of the family.

It's best to give it every day, but it also depends on the specific situation, if you are troublesome, you can also buy a handy elf for her to use, bind your own Alipay account, then she will use this scan code every day to buy food, and you can also know how much money is spent every day.

Personally, I don't think she is a part-time worker, and she can be given a month.

Since you know how to ask everyone, you must not want to do it in your heart, so you stayed for the sake of **. If you feel that you need such a salary very much, and you can bear it, you do it, because the master sees it when you work with emotions. If you feel that you can bear it anymore, then quickly withdraw and change to another one without special requirements, even if the wage is lower than before, and your self-esteem is back.

As the saying goes, kneel to heaven and kneel to parents. Human beings are dignified, and they cannot value their freshness and lose their personality. Babysitting is a respectful job. Being a manure digger is also a respectful job. It is inevitable that years later, when I look back on that year, I feel very ashamed.

Then your host is a little insulting, she wants to enjoy VIP service, that's all the feudal thinking of the past, you don't want to do this here, and then the salary is high, that is not the best of both worlds, you can see for yourself!

Self-esteem and autonomy, neither humble nor arrogant, I believe you will find a golden way to reconcile the hardships and embarrassments of being a nanny. Strive for wealth with diligence and win dignity with wisdom!

Answer: Nanny is also a human being, Yan Yan is equal, there is no distinction between high and low, your master asked you to kneel down and shine your shoes, this is immoral, and it does not respect people's personality, and he himself is not worthy of being a human being.

If you want dignity and a high salary, but you don't have this kind of job, then you can only choose to obey according to the current situation. Unless you have some other good job.

Understand the reason why she asks you like this, see if there is a solution, if it really doesn't work, it's better to resign, you can't give up your dignity for money.

See if the salary she offers is worth it. You know, it's not people who kneel, it's money.

If you don't want to make money, then stand up and get out of this house and change it.

In fact, it is normal for my nanny to change my shoes and socks every day, kneel to wash my feet and massage my feet, and have to kowtow to me every day.

Or earn, I have met a hostess before, to kneel down to change shoes, but also to massage her feet while watching TV, if the nanny is tired of massaging the owner's feet and legs, let the nanny lie on the ground, the hostess put her feet on the back as a foot pad. Then I rested enough and continued the massage.

When washing the feet and massaging, it also depends on the posture of the hostess's feet, for example, the upturned big toe means that it is time for the massage, and the ten fingers apart means that it is tired, and the hostess does not need to say it.

And the hostess punished the nanny very harshly, and your master didn't want you to wash your feet, right? So it's okay.

Feel free to ask questions if you have any questions.

It's okay to change your shoes on your knees, are you making a big fuss? As long as it's not a deliberate insult.

I want to go and you say this contact me next.

If it's very high, leave what you want, and everyone will carry it

People are equal, don't you want your dignity for money?

Why should you kneel to shine her shoes?

Oh, the first time I've heard of it! Let's go for a "queen" feeling like a hostess! I can't find a sense of existence in my life, and I make up for it in the nanny.

Weigh the pros and cons and grasp it yourself, if you want to make money, don't want to save face, let go of your self-esteem.

It depends on your attitude towards money and dignity, even Han Shin has been humiliated by his crotch, if you uphold the concept that the customer is God, this requirement is actually nothing.

In today's society, for the sake of money, as long as you don't break the law and commit crimes and touch the bottom line of morality, let your dignity go aside.

Human dignity comes first, money comes second.

Otherwise, you will be looked down upon, how will you be a person in the future?

Not afraid of being ridiculed by others?

What should be done, the hostess naturally wants to enjoy it when she goes home. When the nanny should first help pick up things and bags or something, then take the initiative to kneel down to help the hostess take off the high heels and change into slippers, and then carefully wipe the high heels clean, including the soles of the shoes, and finally put the things and shoes in the cloakroom, and then wait for the hostess to be instructed.

No, she pays you, you provide their services to them, but this does not include degrading and insulting, you are just a worker who pays for your labor, and you are not a slave in ancient times.

Yes, my nanny didn't ask her to kneel, she always likes to kneel all day long. Are they all back to the past now?

No, I'd rather have no job than no dignity.

It will be more annoying to give it every day, but at least there will be a number of food money every day, and she will not spend 50 yuan on meals a day.

I think that if you get along with the nanny and see it the same as the family, it doesn't matter how you give money.

==This kind of thing can't be prevented, but it's better to ask for older money, of course, every day.

So stingy, the nanny is also suffering with you, I really feel sorry for the nanny.

For the sake of livelihood, it is better to endure it, kneel, recognize your humility and the nobility of the hostess, and serve it well, after all, people have money and like this feeling of being a master, if you don't kneel to serve her, there will always be people competing to kneel to serve her, or bear with it.

People are under the eaves and have to bow their heads. No one wants to do some menial work, but life forces you to do it.

It depends on what you think, if you respect your respect, advise you not to do it, if you like money, then keep doing it.

It's about how you look at it, and if you feel self-respecting, you want to leave.

Or do you decide whether to do it or not!