What should a girl who marries far away be wronged in her in law s house?

Girls who marry far away must learn to be independent, be angry for themselves, and must not endure themselves, which will make the other party gain an inch, and also develop their own careers, so that they have a way out.

Communicate with your husband in a timely manner, let your husband negotiate with your mother-in-law, the more you are wronged, the more you want others to look at you with admiration, and use your own actions to prove to your mother-in-law that you can.

I think that for girls who marry far away, if they are wronged, they should communicate more with their husbands, and they should talk to their husbands more so that they can comfort you.

Summary. Don't get angry, distance yourself from your "in-laws", and distance yourself. According to rural customs, after a son gets married, he has to separate from his parents.

The daughter was bullied by her in-laws, and she should find a way to let her daughter and son-in-law be independent and stay away from her parents-in-law as soon as possible. In-laws are relatives without blood, and they don't know enough about each other, and they don't need to know each other deeply. Therefore, as a mother's family, instead of confronting your parents-in-law, it is better to keep your distance and not be too dense in your daily interactions.

If there is a conflict between the husband and wife, even to the point of divorce, they should be separated for a period of time and calm each other down. Look at the attitude of both parties, and then make the next step.

Don't get angry, distance yourself from your "in-laws", and distance yourself. According to rural customs, after a son gets married, he has to separate from his parents. The daughter was bullied by her in-laws, and she should find a way to let her daughter and son-in-law be independent and stay away from her parents-in-law as soon as possible.

In-laws are relatives without blood, and they don't know enough about each other, and they don't need to know each other deeply. Therefore, as a mother's family, instead of confronting Min Buri's father-in-law and mother-in-law, it is better to keep a distance and not be too dense in daily interactions. If there is a conflict between the husband and wife, or even to the point of divorce, they should be separated for a period of time and calm down with each other.

Look at the attitude of both parties, and then make the next step.

Don't tolerate it all the time, protect it in principle. There are family rules, and the state has national laws. According to the degree of defeat of her daughter's bullied Cheng Pao, she chose to pick up the "law" to protect herself, which is much better than the two families "tearing each other".

Moral issues should be preached in accordance with the rules of morality. Family meetings can be held to discuss future living arrangements. Blindly tolerating it turned into connivance, which fueled the arrogance of the in-laws.

The contradictions in the children's small families should be moved to defeat Zen with affection, and the dust should be reasoned with knowledge. Don't tear your face until you have to, and you can't use force to solve the problem at any time.

In the eyes of parents, whether it is a son or a daughter, it is their own heart. Don't think that your daughter is married, and the money you spend on your daughter is making wedding dresses for others. In fact, whether the status of the female Xian Xian Xing'er in the Po Pai Gao family is high or not has a lot to do with the backer of her mother's family.

If the daughter and son-in-law want to buy a house or a car, because the funds cannot be turnover, they need to borrow some money from their parents' side, at this time, the parents can borrow as much as they can. When the daughter needs help after giving birth, the mother's family can go over to help, after all, it is also her grandson. When the in-laws see that their daughter-in-law's parents are willing to contribute both money and effort, they will naturally not look down on your daughter, but will respect your daughter more.

In this way, the mother's family will not ruin the uproar and worry that her daughter will be angry in her in-law's family, and let her daughter have a higher status in her in-law's family.

There are four necessary conditions for girls to marry far away, and they will not be bullied if they do any of them.

Condition 1: The relationship between the two parties must be good, and it is best for the man to care more about the woman.

Feelings are the foundation, the man should care more than the woman, so that the status of the new family will not be very low, when a person suddenly enters a strange family, it is necessary to be cared for, concerned, respected, the man cares more about the woman, and the man's family will also care more about the woman.

Condition 2: The woman must have financial ability and must not follow the man with her bare hands. Hail ruler.

The woman must have the financial ability or the strength to make money, so that when the man is unhappy, he will not say, spend my money and live in my house, you are not satisfied.

Because men are more realistic than women, women must have financial means. So that you will not be underestimated.

Condition 3: The woman's own personality is extroverted

Starting from herself, the personality of a woman who wants to marry far away is best to belong to the extroverted type, extroverts are sociable, have a strong ability to adapt to the environment, have such a character, marry in a strange city, with a "self-familiar" quality, it will be much easier to mingle with the people around her, and it will not be so lonely.

Condition 4: The woman's parents should show their attitude, and if necessary, they should make a note and notarize it.

Many girls' parents have almost no requirements for their daughter, who has been raised for more than 20 years, and only needs one thing for their daughter's boyfriend - be good to her.

In fact, if you marry far away, as long as both husband and wife work hard to operate, the problem is not big, and when you encounter confusion, you think about it, why did the girl marry you thousands of miles away, why don't you go to her hometown to work and live. Therefore, empathy is the easiest way to solve problems. I hope that all male compatriots will cherish the person in front of you, especially the person in front of you who is willing to sacrifice for you.

At this time, you can't call home, and you can't confide in them, because it will only make them more worried, so you can relax yourself and find your usual good friends to vent.

If you choose to marry far away, you must know that if you are wronged, you can only swallow it yourself, your parents and brothers are too far away, and the whip is out of reach, and what you say is just to make them worry, in addition to swallowing your own grievances, otherwise the grievances are so big that they tear their faces.

You can talk to your friends or girlfriends, and try not to tell your parents about things like this, so that they don't have to worry.

You have to learn to calm down, you can go to your mother's house for a few days to recuperate and recuperate, and then go back to your mother-in-law's house, so that the contradiction will be quickly resolved, after all, there is no overnight feud between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

I think if we are wronged, we have to endure it ourselves, we can't tell the people in our own family, if we tell the people in the family, the other party will be very angry and worried about us.

I am also married far away, and when I am wronged, I usually digest it by myself, or tell my husband about it, and it is better to say it than to hold it in my heart.

You can choose to talk to your husband and ask your husband to talk about your mother-in-law for you, as long as your husband is on your side, your mother-in-law will not be angry with you.

I think I can tell my husband. Or go back to your mother's home, only your mother's home is your best haven.