1 Everyone has self esteem, but how can we defend it? 5

As long as the country attaches importance to human rights, its legal system must be related to human dignity, such as legislation on civility and courtesy, focusing on spiritual needs, and whether cultural education guides a good and civilized social atmosphere. In terms of the latter, it is very clear that it is a matter of minimum ethics and moral cultivation, and everyone has the right to be respected, but the corresponding obligation is to respect others. Together, the two are self-esteem.

I think self-esteem is first and foremost a confidence. First of all, we feel from the bottom of our hearts that we are people who deserve respect, so we should cultivate something that is "respectable" in ourselves. If a person who has no skills and no knowledge doesn't even have an excuse to respect himself from the heart, who can he expect to respect you?

Self-esteem is a second skill. Would you respect someone who is incompetent for no reason? I don't, I have to respect a person, that person must at least have an eye-catching thing, or a certain sport is particularly powerful, or a connotation, or superficial is good-looking.

Whatever it is, you need to have at least one place that makes others feel good.

Self-esteem is also an interpersonal skill. I used to be a very simple person, I didn't dare to look directly at people when I went out, I was very shy to speak, and I felt like I was shimmering, and I didn't expect everyone to be noble enough to consciously respect a shrunken person. So I tried to change myself, and now I like to interact with a lot of people, although I still don't have any special skills, but my efforts are still seen by everyone, and everyone acquiesces to them.

There is no such thing as hatred for no reason, there must be something that makes others uncomfortable, but you don't know it.

There is no love without a reason in the world, and the love of others is a reflection of the accumulation of one's own connotation.

The above is a contemptible and shallow opinion, and he blows a lot. Sweat.

But back to the topic, "Self-esteem is mostly not defended, but won by hard work." ”

If there is really anyone who has nothing to do and loves to slander other people's self-esteem, relying on strength to defend, and the strength is not enough, just ignore him, just a clown over the wall.

I have had a lot of self-esteem since I was a child.

But my mom trampled my self-esteem under my feet, and a lot of things happened to erode my self-esteem like sulfuric acid.

Slowly, my self-esteem was gone.

I don't know now, I just know that if I don't have self-esteem, I won't have self-confidence at the same time, so get my self-confidence back first and then come back to you Haha Just kidding.

It's yours to defend with confidence.

1.Self-respecting people value their personality the most.

2.Self-respecting people do not seek vanity and refuse to be tainted with bad habits.

3.In order to maintain self-esteem, many things can be sacrificed, but it is never possible to lose one's personality and do things that are degrading one's personality.

4. Respect others and do not do things that damage the personality of others.

5. Self-esteem should be moderate.

Self-esteem is the dignity of the individual, which everyone should have. But not everyone is going to defend it with fists and stones, as Hawke does.

A person who really knows how to maintain his self-esteem can also give others the respect he deserves, so as to win the respect of more people, and maybe even change the whole of a personThere is such a true story about dignity: one day a rich merchant had nothing to do, so he went for a walk on the street, and just after walking a short distance, he saw a pencil salesman in front of him who was walking towards him with a smile on his face, and his eyes were full of longing. Seeing this, the rich merchant felt pity spontaneously, and without hesitation, he threw a dollar into the salesman's arms, and walked away slowly.

He thought he would hear a word of thanks when he did this, but when he looked back, he met the salesman's unappreciative eyes, and he suddenly felt that it was inappropriate to do so, so he hurriedly returned, and explained to the salesman apologetically: "I'm sorry, I forgot to take the pen just now, I hope you don't mind." ”

As he spoke, he took out a few pencils from the pen holder, and finally said, "We are all merchants, and we can't make a profit-losing business." You have something to sell, and there is a price on it, and I paid you according to the price, and I will take what I bought.

The rich merchant didn't take this matter to heart, he just felt that he should be treated with respect to anyone, whether he needed it or not. A few months later, a wealthy businessman attended a business event, and as a public figure, many people greeted him. It was almost time for noon, and there were not so many people around him, when a well-dressed young man came up to him and looked at him with gratitude.

The rich merchant was puzzled, but he couldn't remember who this person was for a while, and then the young man spoke: "You don't remember me for a long time, do you?" I also know your name, but whether you are a celebrity or an ordinary person, I will never forget you.

I was that pencil salesman a few months ago, and your actions gave me enough dignity back then.

Until then, I had always felt like a beggar, a beggar who sold pencils and didn't deserve anyone's respect. Because a lot of people only give me money and don't take a single item, they all think I'm a beggar until you come and tell me that I'm a merchant. You took a dollar of merchandise, but you regained your dignity for me.

Your words have re-established my self-confidence, and I am determined to become a real businessman, and I have done it today. Thank you! "Unexpectedly, a simple sentence made a person in distress regain his self-confidence, and finally achieved gratifying results through his own efforts.

A person should have self-esteem, but he should also show others the same respect as himself. As long as a person's heart is kind and his heart is good, he must be a person who knows how to respect himself and others.

The heart of blame is responsible for oneself, and the heart of forgiveness is forgiven for others.

In this moral society, respect is a topic that people often talk about, and when we talk about respect, we often think of self-esteem. What is respect? What is self-esteem?

Respect can also be said to be respect, respect for others is the external manifestation of a person's inner cultivation. In the process of getting along, if you want to be welcomed by others, you should care about others and respect others, which is also the starting point of interpersonal interactions. Respect is mutual assistance, it comes from each other, and it is also a relationship between people, and it is also an emotional relationship.

Is there respect in that pack? I don't think so, there is no respect in the animal kingdom. Wolves do everything out of instinct, most of them do it for their own interests, they do not take the initiative to share the animals they hunt with their companions, nor do they share it with their elders, they are completely self-centered.

Does the child have respect for the teacher? There are many children who will give the teacher flowers, or a few candies, some snacks, etc. Is this called respect?

I don't think this can be called respect, sometimes they may only want to be rewarded with compliments, and children don't know the concept of respect, so they don't have respect.

Is a handshake before or at the end of a match considered respect? I think this can be called respect, both sides show friendship and respect each other before shaking hands, they don't treat each other as their enemies because of this competition, shaking hands is a basic respect for each other, so I think it's respect.

What is self-esteem? Self-esteem can be said to be a person's dignity, and a person's dignity is also particularly important, if the person has self-esteem, then he must be very confident and have a sense of achievement, if he has no self-esteem, there may be a sense of inferiority, frustration. Self-esteem is also one's own identification with oneself.

People in infancy have no self-esteem because their self-consciousness has not yet awakened and they are still in a dormant period, so they have no self-esteem. But when they grow a little older, their self-awareness slowly awakens, and their self-esteem also becomes more emotional. In adolescence, people's self-esteem gradually increases, and their self-awareness will also increase, and at that time they will be very face-saving and sometimes vanity.

The animal kingdom has no self-esteem.

So how do you adjust yourself and build true self-esteem? The first thing is to find meaning and direction, and then to increase self-awareness, but also to respect others and to gain self-esteem.

So what is the relationship between self-esteem and respect? In fact, the relationship between the two is still very important, for example, if you respect others, you will also gain some corresponding self-esteem, that is, give roses to others, and leave fragrance in your hands. If you value others, respect others, and take into account their feelings, others will be happy, and maybe they will comfort you in that way when you are sad and sad, so that you can also gain self-esteem.

So the relationship between the two is very close.

Respect makes the society very harmonious, and it will also maintain good interpersonal relationships, and it is also very important to gain some corresponding self-esteem.

I have high self-esteem because I respect who I really am. ”

Self-esteem comes from oneself, and the affirmation of oneself can easily collapse if it is established on the outside.

That's why I used to look good to others, but I was like a persona in myself, and I didn't have a real self to speak of. I screamed desperately to make my voice heard by the world, but in the end it was all silent. So one day, I violently began to confront the whole world, and all these false self-esteems collapsed.

Now I am living a bad life in the eyes of others, but I don't think so, because I live more peacefully and freely, because I am completely accepting myself, my self-esteem is no longer based on others, I can't control the outside world, but I can at least control myself.

Today, when I do mirror exercises, I look at myself in the mirror and start smiling. "My subconscious mind is full of positive and healthy thoughts of love, and all of this will be reflected in my life", I repeat this sentence, as if it were all true, and I look at myself smiling in this mirror, as if the beauty of the world is gathering towards me.

Worry is the most painful, and I find that when we see that we are not in a good situation, we all subconsciously worry that we can get out of it faster. But it's just an emotional placebo, and you don't get to do things better because you become more anxious. I often have these little thoughts popping up like this, and now I can catch them accurately every time and tell myself:

Thanks for the reminder, but I don't need you anymore. If I want to change anything in the moment, it must be in action.

Dignity refers to the fact that people and things that have human characteristics have the rights they deserve, and that these rights are respected by other people and things that have human characteristics. In short, dignity means that rights are respected.

Example: the dignity of being a Chinese.

Everyone has self-esteem.

Self-esteem means self-esteem. Self-esteem is formed through social comparisons. Self-esteem is a good state of mind, which manifests itself first and foremost in self-respect and self-love. Self-esteem also encompasses the expectation of respect for oneself from others, the collective, and society.

Self-esteem is specifically referred to and refers to one's own dignity.

Dignity is a general term that refers to the dignity of all things, which are not bound to people, can be animals, or even inanimate things, such as the state.

Self-esteem is your own.

Dignity is given by others.

Distinguishing words like this have the same word "respect", which is the same, respect, and the difference lies in the emphasis, which is self-harmony and strictness. One is self, emphasizing self; One is strict, which has a very serious feeling, and this word is mostly used in formal occasions. Other similar words that are difficult to distinguish meanings can also be understood in this way, and if you don't believe it, try it.

1.Do not hurt or discourage your child's self-esteem and self-confidence. Children are young, but they also have self-esteem.

He hopes to be affirmed and trusted by adults. This expectation is especially strong when he is in trouble. Therefore, when children have problems and difficulties, parents should let their children understand:

Parents believe that he can do a good job, and they also enthusiastically help their child find out what the problem is, and work with him to find a solution. As soon as the problem is solved, praise and encourage him immediately. For example:

As long as parents gently remind their child: "Don't worry, take your time, you can play well" to help him find out the reason for the jam, he will be able to play the next time, and feel confident and proud. However, some parents "hate iron but not steel" when their children fail to meet the requirements, severely reprimand their children, sneer, seriously stab their children's self-esteem, and make their children change from self-confidence to inferiority.

2.Cultivate a sense of accomplishment in your child. A sense of achievement is very important for a person, and with achievement motivation, children can hold themselves to high standards and strive for success.

Four to five year olds like to be praised and praised by others, parents should take advantage of this characteristic of children, build children's self-confidence, and make them feel the joy and happiness of success. 3.Ensure the physical and mental health of your child.

A healthy, intelligent and well-behaved child, whether at home or outside, is easy to be loved, praised and rewarded by adults, so that the child can fully feel the value of his own existence, stimulate his enterprising spirit, and enhance his self-confidence. 4.Encourage the development of children's special talents.

Parents should cultivate their children's special talents in sports, arts, literature, etc. The development of special talents not only satisfies the child's desire for self-expression, but also enables him to gain self-confidence from the joy of success.