How does a man feel or behave when he doesn t love him?

It varies from person to person, may behave coldly, won't talk much, won't care too much about you. Pay more attention to other people or things, but some are not, such as being addicted to a certain game or the like, which is temporary, and it is important to distinguish between them.

If he doesn't care about you or cares about you like before, and he's like a stranger, he doesn't love you anymore.

If he doesn't come home often and doesn't see you, if he doesn't come home often and doesn't see you, doesn't care about you, or has something to trouble you, it's possible that he has someone outside.

When a man has some obvious manifestations, it means that he is not in love, such as being particularly perfunctory, and he is unwilling to spend money on his other half. <>

When some men first start falling in love, they may swear to the woman that they love her very much, but after a long time, the man will feel very tired and even stop loving the girl. When a man has this kind of thought, then he will make some performances, such as when the girl is talking to the boy, the boy will not listen attentively, and will play games in his hands, and then the mouth is particularly perfunctory, and what the girl says is what it is. A man who really loves girls will never have this kind of performance, and he would like to put his eyes on the girl's body, instead of having such behavior, so if you find that your boyfriend will do this, then you must examine this relationship in time.

It should also be noted that if two people go out to eat together, and they tell the man what happened today during the meal, but the man only stares at the mobile phone and does not listen at all, it means that the man does not love himself. <>

In addition, in addition to the perfunctory performance, men are not willing to spend money on the other half, and they are very picky, feeling that the other half will only spend money and will not do anything. When two people really love each other, the man will take the initiative to spend money on the woman, and feel that this will be a special sense of accomplishment, and even feel that this is the love he wants. But when you don't like this woman, even if the woman asks for money to buy milk powder for her child, the man will think that the woman is too good at spending money, and then he will scold the woman.

I think this kind of man is very hateful, and this is a manifestation of not loving girls, and even hating girls, then girls can also choose to break up. <>

Finally, when a boy doesn't love a girl, he will do things without the girl's consent, and he doesn't take the girl seriously, or even take the girl in his eyes.

Particularly selfish, especially stingy, often lose his temper with you, rarely help you with housework, always busy, unwilling to accompany you, very indifferent to your affairs.

When a man's desire to share declines, he no longer takes the initiative to care about himself, he does not take the initiative to contact himself, his temper becomes irritable, he only blames himself when he encounters problems, and often compares himself with others.

I often lose my temper with you, I don't want to go home, I don't pay attention to you when I go home, I don't take your words to heart, and I don't have intimate contact with you.

First, I don't want to communicate with you too much. When a guy doesn't love you, no matter how active you are, he doesn't want to have too much communication with you. In the past, you may have been cooking **porridge for a few hours when you have nothing to do, obviously there is no nutritious topic, but you can still talk about it all the time and are reluctant to put it down**.

As long as it is two people who love each other, they are always willing to communicate with each other constantly. It doesn't matter if it's a meaningful topic or a topic that doesn't. If your boyfriend is reluctant to communicate with you, it is likely that he is dissatisfied with you or has lost the desire to communicate with you, in short, he is not so loving.

Second, they are unwilling to share their joys and sorrows with you. Similar to the reluctance to communicate, when a guy is unwilling to share his joy and sadness with you, it means that he has excluded you from sharing emotions. The so-called couples and partners, to a certain extent, are sharing and sharing together.

Share the ups and downs of life, and share each other's stress and pain. When he begins to hide his emotions and is unwilling to share too much with you, on the one hand, it reflects his distrust and dependence on you, and on the other hand, it also reflects his loss of desire to share with you.

Third, there is less and less patience with you. When I love you, I spoil you as a princess, and you can find ways to meet any unreasonable requests, and when you don't love you, even if what you do is reasonable, it seems to him that it is just unreasonable, and even you are "doing". When he selectively turns a blind eye to your "doing" and "coquettishness", and even shows obvious or strong dissatisfaction, it directly shows that he is less and less patient with you.

It is said that love is tolerance, and when you love someone, his shortcomings can be ignored, or even become their characteristics and advantages. If you don't love it at all, a little problem can be magnified, and a good attitude will be scattered with the wind.

Fourth, make the distinction between "you" and "me" clearer and clearer。When a guy loves you, he is willing to buy you something he likes, or something he thinks you like. Even try to connect you and me, and no connection is related to creation.

What's yours is his, and what's mine is mine. That's when you will find that he is the most generous and intimate person in the world. But when he doesn't love you so much anymore, he will subconsciously or undoubtedly distinguish between "you" and "me" for two reasons.

One is that you have psychologically decided that you will be separated and that there will be no further development. The second is to make it more convenient and crisp when separating, and there will be no more collusion and involvement. No matter which point it is, it can directly show that he doesn't love you so much, and it's better to take the initiative than to be passive.

No longer do things for you. All kinds of cold violence against you. Even if you die, I will never feel sorry for you. If there is a problem, I always avoid talking about it. Bad for you. Don't care about your health in the slightest. I don't want to marry you.

The boy will no longer pay attention to all your things, will not help you when you are in need, is unwilling to share everything with you, has no patience with you at all, does not want to see you again, hates you very much for managing him, and often quarrels with you and has a cold war.

is particularly perfunctory to you, no longer takes you to heart, doesn't chat with you every day, doesn't share daily life with you, is very indifferent to you, and has a cold war with you.

When a man doesn't love you, I think there will be a lot of manifestations, the most common is not caring about you, even if you are sick, just ask about your physical condition, and don't do it at all. Even if you encounter difficulties, after communicating with your boyfriend, he will not lend a helping hand and still stand by. The most common thing is that when the two sides quarrel, the other party is very indifferent, and must win the quarrel, ignore your feelings, even if you are angry, they will not coax you, and have an attitude that it is not about themselves.

There are a lot of things every day, and then they don't tell you, or let him go out and do anything. I don't tell you either, and then I come back late every day, and then I go to the bar. All kinds of entertainment places to play, at this time, it means that he no longer has you in his heart.

The remarks in the phone have changed, the address to you is not intimate enough, forgetting your birthday, not caring about your feelings, not buying you a gift, when there are these performances, it means that he doesn't love you anymore.

I always call you late at night, on the grounds that I don't have time to work overtime at night during the day, insist on chatting for a long time, and don't stop talking until ** explodes. (Don't give you time to rest) 2. Refuse to accept any good advice you make or teach repeatedly.

When he starts to be impatient with you, it proves that he doesn't love you so much, and he doesn't want to go out with you, if he really loves you, he wants to stick with you all the time, how can he not want to go out with you?

I think it's when you are impatient, or when you are constantly picking on your eggs, or when you don't care about your feelings in anything.

Men ignore you, and you won't care what you do. Then I won't be jealous and won't take the initiative to chat with you.

If a guy likes a girl, he will take the initiative to contact her. If a guy rarely or never contacts you, he must not be interested in you.

Some people feel that Pi Zen has to take the initiative to find the other party, and the other party has a reply, so is he interesting to me?

You're wrong, the other party never takes the initiative to come to you, and even if he replies to you seriously, it's mostly out of politeness or just boring, not interesting to you, even if it's anyone, he will reply.

2.Rarely invites you out or always declines your invitations.

Most guys like someone and will definitely find a way to ask each other out, let alone take the initiative to invite each other.

If a guy never invites you out or always finds reasons to decline your invitations, he probably doesn't like you.

For example, a girl takes the initiative to ask each other: "Do you have time to come out for dinner this week?" ”

The other party said "not available", "busy", "another day" and other words to refuse.

Then this guy probably doesn't have feelings for you. Remember, no matter how busy a guy is, if he likes you, then he will also take the time to come to you.

3.Hot and cold to you, pulling to the limit.

When you get along with a guy, you always feel that the other party is hot and cold to you, and you can't touch the other person's thoughts, there is no doubt that he just doesn't like you enough.

The vast majority of boys like a person who doesn't have too many complicated thoughts, let alone pulling each other with you every day.

Guys won't play psychological warfare with you if they really like someone, and they can't wait to let you know right away what they want about you. If you are hot and cold, it is very likely that they treat you as a spare tire, and only want to contact you when they are bored, and they will disappear at every turn.

4.Don't let your friends around you know you exist.

If a guy is always secretive when he contacts you, for fear that others will know about your existence, then he is probably "fishing".

Most boys can't hide things in their hearts, if they like you, they can't wait to tell the world, let the people around Brother Zhou Chang know about your existence, and let good friends help with ideas, find ways to chase you, etc.

If you are in love, he always finds all kinds of reasons not to disclose you, and the two of them are like talking about an underground relationship, then he is probably just playing.

5.Rarely think about your feelings.

Boys will behave cautiously with the girls they like, for fear that they will make a mistake and make you unhappy.

If he is very arrogant with you, speaks without measure, does not consider your feelings, and only cares about his own happiness, then he is probably not interesting to you, and at most he treats you as a friend.

Generally, men don't love a woman, first of all, they are unwilling to invest in time, there is also economic, and then there is spiritual, you can observe whether these three aspects are in place, if not, it means that they don't love you. If you meet a man who doesn't love you, if you can separate, the sooner you separate, the better. Also, a woman must love herself first, a woman who doesn't even love herself can't get the real love of a man at all.

Do you love yourself? Do you know how to love yourself? If you want, you can talk to me

If you still like someone in your heart, but when you learn that she already has her other half and is in a relationship, in this case, whether you should confess to the person you like, I personally think that this cannot be generalized, or you should make the final decision depending on the specific situation.

First of all, the person you like and your other half have been in love for a long time, and the relationship between the two people is relatively solid, although they like this girl very much, but in this case, they should not confess to each other, because on the one hand, in this case, the relationship between the two of them is relatively strong, even if they confess, there is a high probability that they will be rejected by the other party, especially when they and the person they like are ordinary friends, in this case, Confession will make the relationship between two people very awkward, and it is very likely that two people will not be able to make ordinary friends in the future, so for yourself, instead of confessing to each other, it is better to bury this love in your heart. On the other hand, we must be clear that feelings cannot be forced, in this case to confess to the other party, forcing the other party to be with us, will not only embarrass and embarrass the girl, but also bring trouble or harm to the girl's boyfriend, in terms of feelings, we should not be too selfish, only take into account our own feelings.

But if the girl you like has just started to fall in love, and the girl lacks enough understanding and emotional foundation for the boyfriend she is talking about, or the girl is in a relationship, but she and her boyfriend have a great conflict emotionally, and the relationship between the two people is about to break down, in this case, I personally think that it is possible to confess to this girl, after all, under such a premise, confess to this girl, Not only will it not cause trouble and trouble to the two of them, but it is also possible to be accepted by this girl and finally pursue the love and happiness of her dreams. Of course, in this case, the confession to this girl must also grasp the right time, and it must be combined with the actual situation, and the confession process must not be too blind and hasty.

Of course, if you are a more introverted person in terms of personality or your self-esteem is relatively strong, and you lack the courage to express and confess to the other party, then there is no need to deliberately force yourself to confess to the girl you like in this case, no matter whether the relationship between the girl and her boyfriend is strong and happy during the relationship, because we have not adjusted our state and mentality, it is difficult to really impress this girl when she confesses. It's hard to really get the results you want.