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Online dating is actually a kind of spiritual love, once it comes to reality, you have to meet and chat every day, as in reality, but you don't seem to be real lovers, or you are the same as usual online dating, and when the novelty wears off, or a new girl comes into her or his sight, the relationship will end immediately.
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Online dating is unrealistic.
Don't overthink it.
Keep on your tracks.
There is no need to delay the whole journey of life for unnecessary scenery.
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Even if it will hurt to death, it will be as He pleases, because you love Him.
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I also think that being conservative is the reason for your breakup.
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Your conservatism may be the real reason.
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In the relationship, I must know how the people who can't let go are doing, so I'll talk to you about this issue.
1. Feelings. With the development of the times and the progress of society, people's living standards are getting better and better, but at the same time, their pursuit of some spirits is also more abundant, which mainly depends on their pursuit of their partners, because we are hungry and repentant is a more emotional animal. In this process, we will find our lifelong partner, find someone who matches our personality and can live a good life.
But when we are human beings in adolescence, the seeds of this emotion have begun to sprout in our hearts, so that when we begin to contact some people of the opposite sex, we will have some feelings for them, this feeling is actually some of your love for her and some joy, in fact, this feeling is very wonderful, when you walk with her or talk, your own dopamine will be secreted in large quantities, in fact, this is an exciting process.
As the relationship between the two of you progresses, when you get along long enough, you will find some shortcomings in each of you, and there will be all kinds of contradictions, so that the relationship between the two people will break down, and the final result will be a breakup. <>
Second, I had a good life.
After this, in fact, many people also have a connection with each other, and it is not suitable for two people to break up so that the best result is the result, in fact, after leaving each other, the two will actually live better, because they have no burden in their own hearts, and they don't have to think about so many trivial things.
At least for me, the person who couldn't let go of him before is now living very well, because he has found his own happiness, found someone who really understands himself and understands himself, and finally formed a happy family and lives a very happy life. <>
These are some of my opinions, and in the end, I hope that everyone can cherish the people in front of you, and don't wait until the last time to look back on the past and then regret it.
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I can't let go of the people Shanyu is doing well now, so after knowing this result, I am also very happy to tease Hengyan, although the two of them have no intersection in the future, but I still hope that the other party will pass the block better.
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I don't know, because no matter how much I can't let go of the other party, I won't take the initiative to contact the other party, and this kind of dignity should still be there.
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It's not very clear, because the two of them don't have much contact after that, so I don't pay much attention to his life status.
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I know that they are still doing very well now, and I sometimes pay attention to their dynamics, and they have a new life of their own.
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In fact, there is no emotion in this world that you can't let go, it just depends on whether you are willing to let go. The best way to forget a person is time.
1. Give yourself a little time.
In a relationship, if you really can't let go of someone. So,Give yourself a little time. As long as there is no contact for a long time, no meeting, there is no contact.
I believe that they will slowly forget each other. It's just a matter of time, even if you like someone again, as long as you give yourself a little time, sooner or later you will let go and let go. We must believe in ourselves for the rest of the history, there is nothing that cannot be forgotten, but we don't want to forget it when we want to rot.
If you want to forget something, you can forget it quickly. However, if you don't want to forget something, it may take a long time. <>
2. Start a new relationship.
If you really can't let go of someone, I think it's also very good to start a new relationship. Because if someone is there for you all the time, someone to comfort you when you're sad, someone to be there for you when you're lonely. Then, I won't think about those sad things, and I won't think about the person I can't forget.
Over time, it will slowly forget. Start a new relationship, slowly forget about the other person, and learn to accept the feelings of the new partner. <>
3. Keep yourself busy.
Also, when you can't let go of one person. You can try to keep yourself busy. When the day is busy, there is no extra time to think nonsense, and there is no extra time to miss the person who does not belong to him.
You can cultivate more hobbies and hobbies, and then you can make more new friends. This will keep you busy. <>
So, want to put down a person,You can keep yourself busy and make your life life fuller. Focus your energy on work and making money, only then will you have no time to think about him anymore. I always believe that there is nothing in this world that cannot be forgotten and people who cannot be let go.
It's just a matter of seeing if you're willing to let go.
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The best way is to shift your attention to interesting things, interesting things are especially easy to relax, do more things that interest you, and for a long time, this will relieve the discomfort in your own heart.
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It's normal to experience a breakup in a relationship, but if you want to forget about a relationship, you need to go through a long period of precipitation. Some people may quickly get out of this kind of emotion that affects them after falling out of love, but some people need a long cooling-off period to get out better, and it is also a relief for themselves when they really let go of a relationship.
If you don't remember that two people get along together, you must have experienced a lot of unforgettable memories, and if you deliberately think about these things at this time, it is easy to cause yourself to fall into a low mood. Therefore, when a person falls out of love, not deliberately recalling these things can effectively reduce this emotion, and the impact on oneself can also get out of this relationship faster。This is especially true in the early stages of a breakup, but over time, these emotions can gradually diminish and make your memories less frequent.
If you want to start a new relationship after falling out of love, you are likely to compare your current boyfriend with your ex, so that you will be easily disturbed and affected by your previous relationship. Especially in this contrast, you will always want to achieve your ideal effect, at this time, there is no real letting go of this relationship, some people may not know it but the past is like a shadow. When you start a new relationship, you don't compare or compare each other, you can show that you have completely forgotten the people and things of the past, and you can have enough respect for the next one.
I don't feel that it is possible to hear the news of the other party after the breakup, which will also affect my own emotions, which will also affect my own situation, and I may choose to unconsciously pay attention to other people's movements and living conditions, and even show great concern about the other party's current situation. Therefore, when we don't have any feelings about the previous things and people, we don't deliberately inquire or take their affairs to heart, and at this time we have really let go of this relationship.
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The real letting go of feelings is to hear any news from the other person, and there is no wave in the heart. My opinion is that it's not easy to really let go. People who really let go will be very comfortable inside, and they will no longer worry about a person in their hearts. But to let go, you need to go through a lot, you have to see a lot of things.
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To really let go is to be able to communicate and chat face-to-face, I think there may not be a real let go, all the previous things are actually imprinted in your heart.
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To truly let go is to treat the other person as a stranger. My opinion is that only time can ** everything, and really letting go is not any emotional change, it will become mature.
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I think I've completely shaken off the effects of this on myself, like a stranger. Very calm, no emotional fluctuations, this situation is already really let go, and there are already other feelings,
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Don't care too much about what others say, what others say to you, and what you do, never determines what kind of person you are.
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In the relationship, the real letting go of the look is not to bother, and I don't want to miss it, when others talk about this person in front of you, it can't set off any waves in your heart and doesn't tremble, this is what it looks like to let go.
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After really letting go of the relationship, I will not be sensitive to any news about this person, and I will not be particularly evasive.
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The real letting go in the relationship is that there is no fluctuation in the heart, no thoughts, no nostalgia, just like no heart without that person, very open, very free, and the heart has been relieved.
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Don't get along with each other, don't block each other, don't have the desire and impulse to contact each other, and are completely disappointed in each other.
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The appearance of really letting go is very bland, whether it is when seeing this person or mentioning his name, it is very bland, just like mentioning the name of an old friend, there are not so many emotional changes.
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When you really let go of a relationship, then even if you talk about your true feelings, it will not hurt your heart, which is the real letting go.
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You don't have any waves when you hear from this person, you can even say hello calmly when you see him, and you can even be friends with each other, but you won't have that feeling of wanting to see him anymore.
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Even if the other party is in contact with him, he will not be moved. Doing so is really letting go of the other party.
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In a relationship, the real letting go is to care about anything about the other party, and will not take the initiative to help the other party, filter all the information of the other party, and be able to accept a new relationship, which is letting go
After a long time and more contact, I naturally understood.
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